SIMILAR PEOPLE
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KathyOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Welcome to my BS-free profile :). In an effort to weed out the purveyors of nonsense and dysfunction that seem to be so common on here, I've been rather blunt what what I've written and haven't really included anything light and fluffy...So, it isn't likely apparent from my profile, but in person, I've been told by numerous people that I'm fun, funny, easy to talk with, spunky...and also very youthful in appearance and tastes.I'm far more interested in and picky about the inside (character and personality) than the outside, including h***when someone actually takes care of himself, that is. I believe that one should make the best of what he/she has, as I've attempted to do since I was a teenager. My parents have been together, happily, for about 50 years, and it's very clear to me that meaningful and lasting relationships are about way more than looks / physical attraction / sex. If more people paid more attention to the inside than the outside, I'm pretty sure that there would be exceedingly more healthy and successful relationships, marriages...and even families.I need someone who has morals, thinks about consequences, has good judgment...who is responsible, respectful, honest, trustworthy, intelligent...who treats others as he wants to be treated...and who does what he says he will - even with small things, as I see doing such as indications of respect and integrity. He will get all of these qualities from me as well. I am very no nonsense / no "games" - you won't get any from me, and I won't tolerate any either. I am NOT interested in dating men who exhibit any of the following "features": Tobacco use (other than an occasional cigar***recreational drug use of any kind Addictions DishonestyIrresponsibility ShallownessRudeness / disrespect / people who don't do what they say they will do Seeking casual or no strings sexNo vehicle or no valid license to drive Criminal convictionsI've encountered each of the above items from men on here often enough to feel the need to list them upfront as deal breakers. I don't see the point in wasting your time or mine. Messages I've received have indicated a misinterpretation, as if I were seeking a non-drinker, and that is not the case at all. I'm not interested in an alcoholic or someone with a drinking problem, but I have no problem with dating a social or moderate drinker. Unlike the very large number of unrealistic men I've encountered on this site, I'm not expecting to get qualities in a significant other that I don't offer in return. For one thing, I find it rather disturbing how many below average to very average-looking men, who do not appear to be the least bit sexy, make statements in their profiles or messages about how they are seeking a beautiful, pretty, hot, or sexy woman...and that looks are important them. Apparently they do not realize that, even if they were to find a woman to partake, there would almost certainly be a price to pay (probably a monetary one but possibly in a different form), and it will not result in a genuine and healthy relationship...I've seen it happen repeatedly to unrealistic single men I've known who are actually seeking a serious, long term relationship and who have continually overlooked early and obvious red flags in their attempts to get a woman with good sex appeal, and who haven't learned their lesson - but maybe some men don't mind being used. So many of you say how you are seeking a spark and great chemistry and how important those things are to you. But, have you ever considered if YOU, with your looks and personality (and notwithstanding how much money you are willing to spend on her), are in a position to elicit that spark and chemistry for the type of woman you are seeking? Or do you even care if the spark and feelings of chemistry would be mutual or just on your end? Regardless, after what I've seen on here for a while, I REALLY think that everyone would be far better off over the long term if more people started being realistic and also started considering a dating prospect's character / inside rather than only the outside, or rather than being on a mission to simply find the best-looking person / photos who will respond, without any regard for how dysfunctional she/he may be. Being more realistic and less shallow may allow you to actually find a genuine, healthy, and lasting relationship. I'm sure there are plenty of unrealistic single women with the wrong priorities out there as well, but I am not one of them. In fact, I am quite the contrary.I am NOT seeking a man to help me financially. I'm awesome with money and can pay my bills without a boyfriend or husband. I'm seeking an overall and genuine connection, which includes an emotional connection, and I know what I want and what I can work with. I'm happy to make local friends from this site to go out and do things with, however, I have zero interest in being physical with anyone without getting to know him well, exclusivity, an emotional connection and good long term potential. Meeting in person is critical, so I'm not a fan of communicating much before meeting in person for the first time. If we meet each other's basic specifications, I actually prefer to meet quickly...and talk later. I'm geographically flexible...IF you will come to my area for the first date. For a good match, I would have no problem traveling outside of my area to date - after the first date. I'm old-fashioned about dating and don't initiate contact, so please message me if you read my profile and think we could be a match.Thank you for reading...and have a fabulous day :).
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EstellaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Howdy, Howdy, Howdy,Thank you for taking the time to reel In on my profile to get a sneak peak of who I am. I am a Libra (Not a Virgo) who was born &Independent, Spontaneous, Adventurous, Funny, Stable, Caring, Honest & Trustworthy are a few of my many qualities along with many more interests. Simple is how I describe myself. I'm not high maintenance. A down to earth woman who enjoys the little things in life. I treat people the way I want to be treated.....with RESPECT!! Liers, Cheaters & Thieves......they can just keep on moving on. Players.....take your games somewhere else! Drama......I don't have any and don't want none.Similar interests are a great thing, along with just having lots of fun. Life is too short to be sweating the dumb stuff. Simple as that! So if you want to know more about me than just a sneak peak & your stable & have your life together, *** we'll see what happens!!!! Im sure we would both agree on doing something fun!!!
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AgnesOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
While I eventually would like something long-term, I do not expect a long-term commitment by the end of the first date. I would like to meet someone and get to know them. Develop a friendship, then if something sparks, we can pursue a more romantic relationship. I’m very generous with a sarcastic/cynical streak and a good sense of humor. I’ll listen to just about any kind of music, but love the music from the 50’s and 60’s. I love to read historical fiction, fantasy/science fiction, and murder mysteries. I’m also very interested in herbology and love to use herbs and spices in my cooking.Family is very important to me. I have 9 nieces and nephews and a god-daughter that I love to spend time with. I also like to hang out with my parents, brother, sister, and aunts and uncles.Qualities I'm looking for in a man: someone who can be equally comfortable working on a car or dressing up and going to a musical. Someone who likes to read and isn't afraid to debate politics. A good first date is laughter. It might be awkward, but if we can laugh it will be successful.