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About Me

Have you ever spent time and effort spoiling someone to get nothing in return? Well I am NOT THAT WOMAN. I am a giving person and believe in the fairy tale. Relationships work 2 ways, not one way. I love racing, yet after being beind the seens of the big leagues, it is difficult for me to watch a full race. Pretty much enjoy all sports. Warm weather finds me out and about doing anything and everything. Random road trips are the best.Life is too short to waste on the same old stuff. I'm not afraid to try new things and challenge myself. I may screw up, but I can guarentee that I will be the first one laughing at myself. Like the day the wall just couldn't resist giving me a kiss. That would have been more enjoyable had it not been for a full face plant resulting in a picture falling on my head. :) Why stress over small silly things when you can turn them into something fun? I want to dance in the rain, be a kid again and enjoy sillyness. I love to travel though I don't get to near as much as I would like. My children are active in school and their sports are amazing to watch. I'm the crazy mom coaching from her bleacher seat and the sidelines and encouraging the entire team. They are my world and when times get tough, I look at them and determination kicks in again. I wont fail them nor set a bad example. I'm musically diverse and can listen to just about anything. I enjoy cooking and baking, yet with teens in the house, they dont seem to care how much time is put into making dinner. I don't expect much but look more at the little things. Things like dinner ready if I have a late day, a load of laundry done, or just a note in the morning let me know I am thought of. I don't want the relationship of 'obligation' to do things but the 'I want to do this for you' kind of relationship. Surprise dates are great but I want someone that is willing to plan the evening.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaitlin

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am the mother of two wonderful children. I love to laugh and be around positive people. I am smart, caring, confident, outgoing, sincere, and have great character. Family and friends are important in my life. I like to spend time outdoors as well as curling up on the couch with a good movie. I take great pride in my job and absolutely love what I do.

  • Morgan

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Back to the drawing board…. looking for my Mr. Right. He doesn’t have to be rich, famous, a supermodel, or a pro athlete. He just has to be honest, intelligent, easy going, loyal, be able to laugh at himself, and ok, let’s be honest, looks do matter. The chemistry is either there or it isn’t.I consider myself a pretty low-maintenance woman. I don’t wear a ton of makeup, it doesn’t take me hours on end to get ready, and drama isn’t my ‘thing’. I love trying new restaurants, listening to live music, and doing just about anything outside – but also love a lazy night on the couch watching a movie and grabbing some takeout. I’m open and honest and ‘what you see is what you get’. I have a great sense of humor - and can ‘dish it’ as well as I can take it. I know my way around a kitchen and love to cook.I am blessed with an amazing family that I am extremely close with and have a lifelong small group of friends that mean the world to me.I’m trying to keep this brief, so thanks for reading and if anything I said has sparked an interest, hopefully you’ll reach out and say a little more than just ‘hi’. C’mon give me a message with a little ‘substance’…. Who knows, we can be on our way to a great first date….

  • Sara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am looking for a kind, strong & confident man who has a good heart, is caring, spiritual, friendly & loves to laugh.! :) I also love to hang out w friends, play cards, bbq and watch movies. Someone who is easy going, enjoys great conversation and doesn't have his mind set on one thing only. A gentleman who is thoughtful enough to open a car door for his date. (...yes I am capable of opening my own door but chivalry ranks high on the impression charts! :) I have a huge heart, am a good listener and also very playful. Someone who shares my same faith would be a plus. Are you the quiet witty type or friendly & outgoing? Either one is fine but the important thing is laughter & communication! I believe in trying to have a gut wrenching laugh every day...does wonders for the mood. And last, but most important (for the sake of both parties), it needs to start off as friendship to see if things click. I've been in some interesting situations on here where the other person was ready to get serious right after meeting. It's not a race :) So many times there are those awkward silent moments when you first meet someone bc the pressure is on to sit and chat about the general things you have in common from your profiles. So I say, let's skip the first awkward meeting and do something casual & fun ***! Yes, I realize those might be a little extreme to arrange for a first date, so darts, pool, putt putt, trivia at BWW etc. would work too. ;)

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