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Patsy, 43

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About Me

Have you ever spent time and effort spoiling someone to get nothing in return? Well I am NOT THAT WOMAN. I am a giving person and believe in the fairy tale. Relationships work 2 ways, not one way. I love racing, yet after being beind the seens of the big leagues, it is difficult for me to watch a full race. Pretty much enjoy all sports. Warm weather finds me out and about doing anything and everything. Random road trips are the best.Life is too short to waste on the same old stuff. I'm not afraid to try new things and challenge myself. I may screw up, but I can guarentee that I will be the first one laughing at myself. Like the day the wall just couldn't resist giving me a kiss. That would have been more enjoyable had it not been for a full face plant resulting in a picture falling on my head. :) Why stress over small silly things when you can turn them into something fun? I want to dance in the rain, be a kid again and enjoy sillyness. I love to travel though I don't get to near as much as I would like. My children are active in school and their sports are amazing to watch. I'm the crazy mom coaching from her bleacher seat and the sidelines and encouraging the entire team. They are my world and when times get tough, I look at them and determination kicks in again. I wont fail them nor set a bad example. I'm musically diverse and can listen to just about anything. I enjoy cooking and baking, yet with teens in the house, they dont seem to care how much time is put into making dinner. I don't expect much but look more at the little things. Things like dinner ready if I have a late day, a load of laundry done, or just a note in the morning let me know I am thought of. I don't want the relationship of 'obligation' to do things but the 'I want to do this for you' kind of relationship. Surprise dates are great but I want someone that is willing to plan the evening.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Coleen

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ;) Originally from the South, I love the outdoors, walking on the beach (I know, SO original, but true!), walking my pup, hiking, bicycling, singing karaoke, dancing, going to movies, watching basketball/football occasionally with friends, laughing, etc. I'm really passionate about the environment, ocean conservancy, wildlife, animals, children; I love feeling like I have a purpose in life & making a difference. My friends/family would characterize me as a fun, playful spirit yet also very dependable, down to earth, spiritual, considerate, strong values; honesty & integrity are of utmost importance to me. I love being social but also really enjoy one-on-one downtime & romance. I'm looking for someone who has similar interests & values as well as someone who is looking for the same things as me (long-term). May you all find what you're looking for and have fun in the process! ~; )

  • Selena

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single mother with one teenage son, that I have raised on my own. I do not follow the rules set by society, I do what makes me happy. Society doesnt pay my bills, or put a roof over my head so they get no say so as to how I live my life. I am a Taurus, so I can be stubborn and determined at times, especially when its something that I have my mind set on, I refuse to give up!!!! I am a straight forward person and speak my mind so to speak, I dont pull no punches, you may not like what I say but at least I am honest. I can be a typical smart ass sometimes, but all in fun. I would not intentionally be rude to anyone, unless you deserve it!!!!! I live my life by one motto....ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. Any one can say they care or love you, but its there actions that make it true, no matter what you wanna believe in your own mind. I am a hopeless romantic, and I wear my heart on my sleeve, and that has got me more heartbreak and pain that I would like to admit!!!!! someone once told me that he's looking for somebody that isn't damaged are you kidding me obviously he has not looked around at today's society. everyone is damaged and one way form or fashion, but it's how you deal with it and the outcome that will control your life. I love my heavy metal music....YES HEAVY METAL, LOL, it has got me threw some pretty bad times. I cant stand someone that is lazy, I am a very very energetic person, and always on the go, but I do know how to relax when the time comes. I believe that honest, trust and COMMUNICATION are a must for me in a relationship. I am not a mind reader and dont like playing the guessing game, or any other kind of games what so ever. If we dont hit it off, so be it, not everyone is gonna click. And last but not least, Im not into one night stands, going to the bar looking for a hook up, or looking for someone that is married, I am a stingy ****, an I dont like to share. Anything else you wanna know just ask!!!UPDATE: if you're not willing to take the time to get to know what's on the inside you sure as hell ain't touching what's on the outside. for some damn reason some guys just have a problem accepting the word No!!!! First dates are always awkward. I think its best spent somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person and see if there are interest in common or if there is a spark.

  • Mildred

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Dating really sucks:***that was said with a wrinkled up nose) I'm looking for a baggage free type of guy or at least someone who only has one or two bags and doesn't expect me to carry them, because realistically we all have some.( have lost 60 and still have some more to go) Funny is a requirement along with being divorced or not married. Yeah....I know...I've heard all the stories about no sex blah, blah..advice? sh*t or get off the pot and/or don't involve me...simply said:) This goes right along with that....am not into sharing at all...HUGE issues with that since childhood. I'm self sufficient but not at the point where I can be a sugar mama, so employment is another requirement. I've been opening and shutting my car door for years, but wouldn't mind someone doing it for me every once in a while. I'm not super funny just mostly, sarcastic. I can't say that I'm the most exciting person. I really haven't done much as I really concentrated on trying to give my daughter all the things I didn't have, but I'm coming out of my shell now:)What happened to the old saying "honesty is the best policy"? There truly is somebody for everybody. If all you're wanting is to get laid, just say so. Somebody will do the job, I'm sure. It just doesn't seem right to misrepresent what you want. My feelings....I typically don't give money to the guys standing along side the road with their tin cans...but, I did turn around and go back after reading the homeless guy's sign that read "I need a beer:) Honesty gets you everywhere:) Looking for a man that can be satisfied with one woman only. Seems like there aren't very many of you out there! If you decide to ***, give me a little more to work with than "Hi"...It's not easy for anybody, but surely you have more in ya than that:) And if you don't, there's probably no reason to even bother. Another thing, have a pic or attach one. I've posted mine. It is a dating site..Falling in love...When it comes to loving, you need not fall but rather surrender. Surrender to the idea that you must love yourself before you can love another. You must absolutely trust yourself before you can absolutely trust another and, most importantly you must accept your flaws before you can accept the flaws of another. I think it would be fun to wonder around downtown farmer's market sampling food and drinks while buying all the stuff to cook a great meal together later.

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