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Ella, 42

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I am truly and utterly bored with this site! Does anything or anyone ever come out of this? In want something spectacular - un-ordinary and fantastic. Is that too much to ask? Does anyone actually read this ??? High School students need not apply!! If I do not respond to your message - I do not need additional messages sent to me that are hateful because of my lack of response. SWF seeking SWM Please read profile - not looking for anyone under the age of 35!!!! So if you are 26 and send me a message askin if I like younger guys - here's your answer: NO!!!! We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in loveAnd this says it all:"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments." GO GRAB A BITE (APPETIZERS & DRINKS) FIND A GREAT LIL BAR WITH LIVE MUSIC... AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ollie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    First I have to start with if your pictures and profile are not the person you are TODAY!!!! then please pass me by. I do not respect someone who misrepresents themselves just to get a date or whatever it is they are looking for. I am EXACTLY what you see and what I describe. I am a intelligent, out going and independant woman who enjoys staying fit and active. Those characteristics are very important to me in another also. I have a great career that unfortunately does keep me busy but I am completely willing to make the time for the right man. I don't do drama or needy very well, but I am a very affectionate and open, loving person. I don't need a man to take care of me but choose to have a man in my life to enjoy what our lives have to offer. I love to travel and would prefer a man who has some flexibility and stability to do that as well. There are a lot of places I want to see in the world still. I prefer warmer climates. I'm a beach girl, not snow! I do work out ***days a week and would love a man to work out with me but if they have their own routine I certainly understand as long as they do work out. I know this sounds picky, but its just realistic. I am comfortable in my life and refuse to settle, just to have someone. So, after all of that, if you are still reading and not cussing me (lol) then by all means please send me a note! I like to keep it simple but quiet. I want to be able to talk without distractions and see your eyes. They speak loudly.

  • Mildred

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Dating really sucks:***that was said with a wrinkled up nose) I'm looking for a baggage free type of guy or at least someone who only has one or two bags and doesn't expect me to carry them, because realistically we all have some.( have lost 60 and still have some more to go) Funny is a requirement along with being divorced or not married. Yeah....I know...I've heard all the stories about no sex blah, blah..advice? sh*t or get off the pot and/or don't involve me...simply said:) This goes right along with that....am not into sharing at all...HUGE issues with that since childhood. I'm self sufficient but not at the point where I can be a sugar mama, so employment is another requirement. I've been opening and shutting my car door for years, but wouldn't mind someone doing it for me every once in a while. I'm not super funny just mostly, sarcastic. I can't say that I'm the most exciting person. I really haven't done much as I really concentrated on trying to give my daughter all the things I didn't have, but I'm coming out of my shell now:)What happened to the old saying "honesty is the best policy"? There truly is somebody for everybody. If all you're wanting is to get laid, just say so. Somebody will do the job, I'm sure. It just doesn't seem right to misrepresent what you want. My feelings....I typically don't give money to the guys standing along side the road with their tin cans...but, I did turn around and go back after reading the homeless guy's sign that read "I need a beer:) Honesty gets you everywhere:) Looking for a man that can be satisfied with one woman only. Seems like there aren't very many of you out there! If you decide to ***, give me a little more to work with than "Hi"...It's not easy for anybody, but surely you have more in ya than that:) And if you don't, there's probably no reason to even bother. Another thing, have a pic or attach one. I've posted mine. It is a dating site..Falling in love...When it comes to loving, you need not fall but rather surrender. Surrender to the idea that you must love yourself before you can love another. You must absolutely trust yourself before you can absolutely trust another and, most importantly you must accept your flaws before you can accept the flaws of another. I think it would be fun to wonder around downtown farmer's market sampling food and drinks while buying all the stuff to cook a great meal together later.

  • Gay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello guys I am a young fun-loving lady who enjoys life and all its many pleasures! I am a very active woman and believe taking care of ones self mentally, physically and spiritually helps keep balance in life. Some of my favorite hobbies I enjoy are: working out, swimming, riding bikes, playing with my kids, hiking in the mountains, golfing, skiing, riding dirt bikes/atvs etc... I am always open to trying new things. I also like cooking and I must say I make killer food!!! 8~) Whether its staying in for dinner, movies, hanging out, possible cuddling or going out, dancing, dinner, movies, concerts, trips and hopefully much more I make the best of it, always live positive and be happy. Whatever I am doing I try to laugh and have fun!! If you are looking to hang out build a friendship and possibly more then send me an ***! You never know we might be the one we are all on here looking to find??? I am looking for a MAN with similar interests and beliefs. Someone who is honest, out going, great sense of humor, an optimist. I want a man who is secure, stable, happy with his life, knows who he is; a man who loves himself and life. Looking for a friend and a lover! 8~)Just one more thing want to give a shout out to those BRONCOS kicken some serious "BOOTY!!!" How about those Broncos ***keep on keepin on yeehaw!! I like to meet for a casual late lunch/early dinner for a first date; somewhere we are both comfortable with. Somewhere we can sit down, talk to see if there is a connection!? 8~)

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