SIMILAR PEOPLE
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KathyOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Welcome to my BS-free profile :). In an effort to weed out the purveyors of nonsense and dysfunction that seem to be so common on here, I've been rather blunt what what I've written and haven't really included anything light and fluffy...So, it isn't likely apparent from my profile, but in person, I've been told by numerous people that I'm fun, funny, easy to talk with, spunky...and also very youthful in appearance and tastes.I'm far more interested in and picky about the inside (character and personality) than the outside, including h***when someone actually takes care of himself, that is. I believe that one should make the best of what he/she has, as I've attempted to do since I was a teenager. My parents have been together, happily, for about 50 years, and it's very clear to me that meaningful and lasting relationships are about way more than looks / physical attraction / sex. If more people paid more attention to the inside than the outside, I'm pretty sure that there would be exceedingly more healthy and successful relationships, marriages...and even families.I need someone who has morals, thinks about consequences, has good judgment...who is responsible, respectful, honest, trustworthy, intelligent...who treats others as he wants to be treated...and who does what he says he will - even with small things, as I see doing such as indications of respect and integrity. He will get all of these qualities from me as well. I am very no nonsense / no "games" - you won't get any from me, and I won't tolerate any either. I am NOT interested in dating men who exhibit any of the following "features": Tobacco use (other than an occasional cigar***recreational drug use of any kind Addictions DishonestyIrresponsibility ShallownessRudeness / disrespect / people who don't do what they say they will do Seeking casual or no strings sexNo vehicle or no valid license to drive Criminal convictionsI've encountered each of the above items from men on here often enough to feel the need to list them upfront as deal breakers. I don't see the point in wasting your time or mine. Messages I've received have indicated a misinterpretation, as if I were seeking a non-drinker, and that is not the case at all. I'm not interested in an alcoholic or someone with a drinking problem, but I have no problem with dating a social or moderate drinker. Unlike the very large number of unrealistic men I've encountered on this site, I'm not expecting to get qualities in a significant other that I don't offer in return. For one thing, I find it rather disturbing how many below average to very average-looking men, who do not appear to be the least bit sexy, make statements in their profiles or messages about how they are seeking a beautiful, pretty, hot, or sexy woman...and that looks are important them. Apparently they do not realize that, even if they were to find a woman to partake, there would almost certainly be a price to pay (probably a monetary one but possibly in a different form), and it will not result in a genuine and healthy relationship...I've seen it happen repeatedly to unrealistic single men I've known who are actually seeking a serious, long term relationship and who have continually overlooked early and obvious red flags in their attempts to get a woman with good sex appeal, and who haven't learned their lesson - but maybe some men don't mind being used. So many of you say how you are seeking a spark and great chemistry and how important those things are to you. But, have you ever considered if YOU, with your looks and personality (and notwithstanding how much money you are willing to spend on her), are in a position to elicit that spark and chemistry for the type of woman you are seeking? Or do you even care if the spark and feelings of chemistry would be mutual or just on your end? Regardless, after what I've seen on here for a while, I REALLY think that everyone would be far better off over the long term if more people started being realistic and also started considering a dating prospect's character / inside rather than only the outside, or rather than being on a mission to simply find the best-looking person / photos who will respond, without any regard for how dysfunctional she/he may be. Being more realistic and less shallow may allow you to actually find a genuine, healthy, and lasting relationship. I'm sure there are plenty of unrealistic single women with the wrong priorities out there as well, but I am not one of them. In fact, I am quite the contrary.I am NOT seeking a man to help me financially. I'm awesome with money and can pay my bills without a boyfriend or husband. I'm seeking an overall and genuine connection, which includes an emotional connection, and I know what I want and what I can work with. I'm happy to make local friends from this site to go out and do things with, however, I have zero interest in being physical with anyone without getting to know him well, exclusivity, an emotional connection and good long term potential. Meeting in person is critical, so I'm not a fan of communicating much before meeting in person for the first time. If we meet each other's basic specifications, I actually prefer to meet quickly...and talk later. I'm geographically flexible...IF you will come to my area for the first date. For a good match, I would have no problem traveling outside of my area to date - after the first date. I'm old-fashioned about dating and don't initiate contact, so please message me if you read my profile and think we could be a match.Thank you for reading...and have a fabulous day :).
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MaritzaOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am fun, cool, a bit feisty, but really easy going. I like to meet new people and do random things.I don't always like to just sit around and do nothing, but sometimes like movie/cuddle time or just sleeping in late. I have a variety of interests and am always open to new things if it seems fun. I would say I am pretty much an open book...but trust is definitely earned, so don't expect me to spill my life story over the internet. I am looking to find someone with hopefully some commonalities and see if we hit it off, maybe become friends or more. I would like to say I am not picky, but I really have discovered that I am a bit pickier than I would like to admit. Not saying I'm perfect, cuz I'm not, I just have a certain set of standards. I guess I just know whether there's a chance with a guy or not on my end fairly soon after meeting (chemistry is a huge thing for me) and am usually pretty blunt about it, I don't feel it's fair to waste people's time in that respect.I know that probably makes me sound like a b*tch, but life's too short to settle. I am happy being alone and hanging with my kids most nights, yet I do crave companionship some days, thus the reason I decided to do this online awkwardness. I enjoy the following in my spare time (not in any specific order): movies, music, fishing, hiking, walks, beaches, random road trips, casinos, hanging with my kids, hanging with friends, bonfires, camping, eating good food. I am open for pretty much anything. I think it's nice to meet up somewhere low-key, have a couple drinks and good conversation. I don't think a movie is a good first date, but food is okay (maybe lunch/dinner or coffee). A walk in a park, something like that. No pressure, just hang out and see if things click.I am looking for a guy that has his life together. He needs to have goals/aspirations, a job, pays his own bills and perhaps has his own place to live and maybe even a set of wheels to get there. I take care of myself and expect the same. Absolutely NOT looking for a casual fling/hookup.
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NicholeOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
OK here's what I've been told by friends is the guys are looking at your profile first they should read your chemistry first followed by your profile.I have blue eyes and light brown hair. I enjoy doing so many things,so to start I'll list some down. First I'll mention the music I like,Christian, Rock, 20's***'s, Jazz, Classical, Classic Rock, Alternative, everything. No heavy metal.I enjoy going to sports events,boating/fishing, museums,bowling,zoo's,movies and TV,malls which I've had a lot to choose from. I enjoy weekend trips in or out of state.I have two dogs one cat and a beta fish and spend time with him as much as I can. I got him Jagger five year old dog when a few months after the person I was with passed away.He has kept me calm and that's a good thing as well as God holding me tight under a lot of things I had going on at the time of my life is a peace now and I'm doing great. No drama here at all no baggage. Happy about everything and trying new things daily. I bought a scooter ***Burgman Suzuski in March of ***and love to take it out for drives.I love life :) ! I love children they seem to cling to me. I believe in a staying fit Spiritually and mentally. I enjoy helping others. I love to have fun. I attend church weekly and have attended the singles seminars and truly enjoy what I have learned for the proper relationship God wants us to have as well as meeting new friends. I know when the right time comes the person that God wants for me will be the right one. I'd like to meet a man that believes and trusts in God for everything. Someone who is intelligent with a sense of humor. Someone that cares about his family and friends. I'd like a man who enjoys a variety of things. Game for anything. I have no problem giving 100% to a relationship I'm looking for someone with a big loving true heart that will be with me till the end,my best friend. I want an honest caring person who wants the best for all.I want a person who has goals that are wanted as well as goals that may take two of us to do it.A person to work with to achieve happiness. I would like a man to have the same admirations as I do.I want the best for both of us.Christian, humor, openness, affectionate, outgoing, smart, driven, and himself always. In general, serendipity is the act of finding something valuable or delightful when you are not looking for it. I'm not sure how to say this about myself I feel what makes me different from others is that I do not desire others but the only one that I'm involved with. I do not believe in cheating,both of us need to always communicate and being best friends first and love to follow is the basic of a strong relationship as well as having strong morals and God in our lives. I'm very adventurous, I like to take long drives to explore new things. Getting to know the person, it won't matter what we do as long as we do it together. Being outside in all weather is fine with me. Getting coffee at the local hang out. I enjoy so many things I'm sure my date will not be dull and if my date whats to try something that I have never done then he needs to hold on tight to my hand and off we go.