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Selena, 44
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

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About Me

I am a single mother with one teenage son, that I have raised on my own. I do not follow the rules set by society, I do what makes me happy. Society doesnt pay my bills, or put a roof over my head so they get no say so as to how I live my life. I am a Taurus, so I can be stubborn and determined at times, especially when its something that I have my mind set on, I refuse to give up!!!! I am a straight forward person and speak my mind so to speak, I dont pull no punches, you may not like what I say but at least I am honest. I can be a typical smart ass sometimes, but all in fun. I would not intentionally be rude to anyone, unless you deserve it!!!!! I live my life by one motto....ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. Any one can say they care or love you, but its there actions that make it true, no matter what you wanna believe in your own mind. I am a hopeless romantic, and I wear my heart on my sleeve, and that has got me more heartbreak and pain that I would like to admit!!!!! someone once told me that he's looking for somebody that isn't damaged are you kidding me obviously he has not looked around at today's society. everyone is damaged and one way form or fashion, but it's how you deal with it and the outcome that will control your life. I love my heavy metal music....YES HEAVY METAL, LOL, it has got me threw some pretty bad times. I cant stand someone that is lazy, I am a very very energetic person, and always on the go, but I do know how to relax when the time comes. I believe that honest, trust and COMMUNICATION are a must for me in a relationship. I am not a mind reader and dont like playing the guessing game, or any other kind of games what so ever. If we dont hit it off, so be it, not everyone is gonna click. And last but not least, Im not into one night stands, going to the bar looking for a hook up, or looking for someone that is married, I am a stingy ****, an I dont like to share. Anything else you wanna know just ask!!!UPDATE: if you're not willing to take the time to get to know what's on the inside you sure as hell ain't touching what's on the outside. for some damn reason some guys just have a problem accepting the word No!!!! First dates are always awkward. I think its best spent somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person and see if there are interest in common or if there is a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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