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Selena, 44

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About Me

I am a single mother with one teenage son, that I have raised on my own. I do not follow the rules set by society, I do what makes me happy. Society doesnt pay my bills, or put a roof over my head so they get no say so as to how I live my life. I am a Taurus, so I can be stubborn and determined at times, especially when its something that I have my mind set on, I refuse to give up!!!! I am a straight forward person and speak my mind so to speak, I dont pull no punches, you may not like what I say but at least I am honest. I can be a typical smart ass sometimes, but all in fun. I would not intentionally be rude to anyone, unless you deserve it!!!!! I live my life by one motto....ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. Any one can say they care or love you, but its there actions that make it true, no matter what you wanna believe in your own mind. I am a hopeless romantic, and I wear my heart on my sleeve, and that has got me more heartbreak and pain that I would like to admit!!!!! someone once told me that he's looking for somebody that isn't damaged are you kidding me obviously he has not looked around at today's society. everyone is damaged and one way form or fashion, but it's how you deal with it and the outcome that will control your life. I love my heavy metal music....YES HEAVY METAL, LOL, it has got me threw some pretty bad times. I cant stand someone that is lazy, I am a very very energetic person, and always on the go, but I do know how to relax when the time comes. I believe that honest, trust and COMMUNICATION are a must for me in a relationship. I am not a mind reader and dont like playing the guessing game, or any other kind of games what so ever. If we dont hit it off, so be it, not everyone is gonna click. And last but not least, Im not into one night stands, going to the bar looking for a hook up, or looking for someone that is married, I am a stingy ****, an I dont like to share. Anything else you wanna know just ask!!!UPDATE: if you're not willing to take the time to get to know what's on the inside you sure as hell ain't touching what's on the outside. for some damn reason some guys just have a problem accepting the word No!!!! First dates are always awkward. I think its best spent somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person and see if there are interest in common or if there is a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Georgia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    We had our share of dates, even came close a few times but the "perfect match" seems to elude us. We may not know exactly what we are looking for but we definitely notice when something doesn't quite fit.Some call us idealistic and picky but I think we are simply very pragmatic people who are not interested in casual relationships and bouncing from one partner to the next. We are not in a hurry, we don't settle and surprisingly.....we are still hopeful.....We all crave the same thing, that incredible connection with someone who truly gets us, accepts us, thinks the world of us and can't live without us.We want trust, harmony, intellectual compatibility and passion beyond belief. We desire puppy love with all the butterflies, lingering kisses, silliness and fun that will evolve into profound and meaningful love affair.We are far from perfect but we know we are special and expect the same from our counterpart.I know you are there and you are searching for me too.Now, we just have to find each other.....FYI..I really do have a funny side to me!! Oh, if you are shirtless in any of your pics and are flexing your big bad muscles...chances are you will not get a response from me. Best of Luck!***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** Anywhere: as long as we are laughing :)

  • Louise

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    May I suggest you get the best for nothing less than you and I.......I'd like a secure man, strong and not to be afraid to love! a man that knows how to treat his lady, and he'll treat her good!I don't like older man, big belly man, drunks or drug users! You need to be taller than me when I wear heels. I like to dance, but not a clubbing type of girl.Cheers! Something simple

  • Ina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am looking for a man that can appreciate a strong successful woman with a quirky side. My friends would describe me as outgoing, bubbly, goofy, tough, loyal to a fault, fantastic cook, loving mom, someone who can make people laugh, and determined plus much more.I love to travel and try new things. I enjoy going out on the town but am also happy staying home cooking in and watching a movie. I like romantic date nights, dancing, concerts, sporting events, comedy clubs or trying something different that the city has to offer.I am looking for a man that likes a woman with many sides to her. One that can get dressed up to the nines for her man, but can also feel comfortable being herself with him. I am attracted to a man that can make me laugh, hold his own in a conversation, can surprise me, and a romantic that wants to win my heart. I think doing something fun and out of the ordinary makes the best first date. Whether is being walking around an art fair, attending a street festival, or a haunted hayride. Coffee, dinners and movies are great but out of the box is so much more fun and gives way to so many laughs and possibly 1st memories.

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