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Selena, 44

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About Me

I am a single mother with one teenage son, that I have raised on my own. I do not follow the rules set by society, I do what makes me happy. Society doesnt pay my bills, or put a roof over my head so they get no say so as to how I live my life. I am a Taurus, so I can be stubborn and determined at times, especially when its something that I have my mind set on, I refuse to give up!!!! I am a straight forward person and speak my mind so to speak, I dont pull no punches, you may not like what I say but at least I am honest. I can be a typical smart ass sometimes, but all in fun. I would not intentionally be rude to anyone, unless you deserve it!!!!! I live my life by one motto....ACTIONS SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. Any one can say they care or love you, but its there actions that make it true, no matter what you wanna believe in your own mind. I am a hopeless romantic, and I wear my heart on my sleeve, and that has got me more heartbreak and pain that I would like to admit!!!!! someone once told me that he's looking for somebody that isn't damaged are you kidding me obviously he has not looked around at today's society. everyone is damaged and one way form or fashion, but it's how you deal with it and the outcome that will control your life. I love my heavy metal music....YES HEAVY METAL, LOL, it has got me threw some pretty bad times. I cant stand someone that is lazy, I am a very very energetic person, and always on the go, but I do know how to relax when the time comes. I believe that honest, trust and COMMUNICATION are a must for me in a relationship. I am not a mind reader and dont like playing the guessing game, or any other kind of games what so ever. If we dont hit it off, so be it, not everyone is gonna click. And last but not least, Im not into one night stands, going to the bar looking for a hook up, or looking for someone that is married, I am a stingy ****, an I dont like to share. Anything else you wanna know just ask!!!UPDATE: if you're not willing to take the time to get to know what's on the inside you sure as hell ain't touching what's on the outside. for some damn reason some guys just have a problem accepting the word No!!!! First dates are always awkward. I think its best spent somewhere where you can talk and get to know the person and see if there are interest in common or if there is a spark.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Come show me your mature, sexy, energetic and fun side. WHOOP!!!I have to preface by saying last guy I met on online dating, we are still friends 5 years later. The chemistry for me was not there. I need a passionate, positive, outgoing, funny, creative exciting person in my life. Not that we can not be friends first, but I am seeking more from a relationship. I enjoy outdoor activities above all else, camping, hiking, skiing, floating, riding bikes. However it comes outside I like it. I should also preface by saying I am a very open minded person, free spirited type person. Please do not be offended but I do not respond to "chat" requests. I noted that chat requests usually end up going downhill very fast. If you want to reach out, please do so thru *** am seeking a mature guy that can handle a mature woman. Although I am seeking a fun time I would also like to meet someone for a long term possible friendship that may lead to something more. My goal is to meet someone that I can have fun with, share great times with, and be intimate with. When you say....."just looking around". That does not sound like you are interested in meeting anyone. I would like a man that knows exactly what he is looking for in a woman, and knows exactly what works and what does not for him. I also like a man that knows the difference between a relationship with a women and one with a child. They are different. You should be funny, full of life, open minded, quick thinker, creative and content with your life. I am a cheerful and fun person. I like to laugh, and I have a full life with work and family. I am pretty much in the same mood all the time. I like for the encounter to always be happy. Do I always get my wish? Try to. :) activities after work include boating with friends, volleyball, hiking, rock climbing, camping in a tent, going to the beach or just chilling. Always fun to go do fun things together. If you want to "go out on a date", write me and say, let's go out. If you want to "chat", write me and say let's chat. You never know a friendship may turn into something very exciting, I don't understand "hi", then I say "hi", THEN WHAT? Someone has to follow thru or we just keep saying "hi". I want to meet you. ALTHOUGH I SEND THEM I DO NOT RESPOND TO MEET ME. *** YOU WILL. If you write me once and I do not respond it is probably most likely that I will not respond. It does not mean that you are not an awesome person. It just means that I feel you may not be for me. I will allow a min/max of 1 hour for our first encounter. If further then we can re connect. You pick an appropriate place.

  • Robin

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Long walks on the beach, going to concerts,having a fun time with friends at karaoke bars,watching football,hockey, golf,UFC and taking pictures are just a few of my hobbies. My music tastes range from alternative rock, dance, country to classical, I pretty much love any kind of music except folk and opera.I have two sons one of which is 20 and attending UF,and my youngest son is almost 18. I'm trying to get back into the dating scene after being married for 20 yrs. It's a little overwhelming, but I'm looking forward to making friends and having fun. Having a sense of humor is a huge plus!I'd like to know what has happened to dating, because thus far, most of the men that I've gone out with only want a hook up?! Not interested, I could find that at a bar!! If you're looking for intimate encounters then be honest and list that as your intent on here, not dating or a relationship. *update If I tell you that I'm not interested then please don't keep messaging me over & over or trying to chat with me. I envision a 1st meeting or date being casual, maybe lunch or a couple of drinks, sorry no coffee dates,since I dislike coffee.

  • Therese

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like all music. I'm very outgoing with a great personality. I work hard and play hard. I love hanging out with my kids, relaxing on the beach, making nice dinners, watching football, riding on the back of a Harley, deep sea fishing, the keys and most of all I love people. Laughing is the best, especially in good company. Let the good times roll. Looking for an American guy. Go USA! :-) First date: Meet at a local restaurant, enjoy casual conversation and see where that takes us.

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