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Bernadette, 45
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

Offline, last seen Thu, 15 Jan 2026 09:58:22

About Me

Come show me your mature, sexy, energetic and fun side. WHOOP!!!I have to preface by saying last guy I met on online dating, we are still friends 5 years later. The chemistry for me was not there. I need a passionate, positive, outgoing, funny, creative exciting person in my life. Not that we can not be friends first, but I am seeking more from a relationship. I enjoy outdoor activities above all else, camping, hiking, skiing, floating, riding bikes. However it comes outside I like it. I should also preface by saying I am a very open minded person, free spirited type person. Please do not be offended but I do not respond to "chat" requests. I noted that chat requests usually end up going downhill very fast. If you want to reach out, please do so thru *** am seeking a mature guy that can handle a mature woman. Although I am seeking a fun time I would also like to meet someone for a long term possible friendship that may lead to something more. My goal is to meet someone that I can have fun with, share great times with, and be intimate with. When you say....."just looking around". That does not sound like you are interested in meeting anyone. I would like a man that knows exactly what he is looking for in a woman, and knows exactly what works and what does not for him. I also like a man that knows the difference between a relationship with a women and one with a child. They are different. You should be funny, full of life, open minded, quick thinker, creative and content with your life. I am a cheerful and fun person. I like to laugh, and I have a full life with work and family. I am pretty much in the same mood all the time. I like for the encounter to always be happy. Do I always get my wish? Try to. :) activities after work include boating with friends, volleyball, hiking, rock climbing, camping in a tent, going to the beach or just chilling. Always fun to go do fun things together. If you want to "go out on a date", write me and say, let's go out. If you want to "chat", write me and say let's chat. You never know a friendship may turn into something very exciting, I don't understand "hi", then I say "hi", THEN WHAT? Someone has to follow thru or we just keep saying "hi". I want to meet you. ALTHOUGH I SEND THEM I DO NOT RESPOND TO MEET ME. *** YOU WILL. If you write me once and I do not respond it is probably most likely that I will not respond. It does not mean that you are not an awesome person. It just means that I feel you may not be for me. I will allow a min/max of 1 hour for our first encounter. If further then we can re connect. You pick an appropriate place.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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