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About Me

Hi! My name is 21pattycakeshn. I am never married spiritual but not religious indian woman with kids from United States, Idaho, Meridian. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Indian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Chanda

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I guess I am running out of Redbox movies. I guess I will eventually have to start going out more. Wearing braces in my forties has not been fun. It is now July ***, and I have about six months left to wear them. I have felt a bit creepy, so I have been hanging out with my dogs at home.I am not sure what the general opinion of my decision to put up a swim suit picture is, although some have told me that it was a poor choice. It is the same type of suit that I wear at our neighborhood pool around my teenage son and his friends. He has never objected. I guess now that I have just turned 47, I feel that some may assume that I am not in good shape, I guess I feel the need to show that I take care of myself. I guess I feel that at this age, I should do what ever feels right to me, and really not be that concerned with the opinions of strangers. I do not typically wear low cut clothing, or dress inappropriately. I do try to behave like a lady.I spent eight years active duty Army, a long time ago. I did my leadership development with the 8th Infantry Division. We used to say, "improvise and overcome". I still hear those words today coming from inside myself. Our military are still very close to my heart. My political views are conservative. Although my teeth weren't terribly crooked, I did want to improve them to a full straight ten tooth smile. I am doing this for me. I am not sure men feel about a woman in clear braces. I do hope that there is someone special out there that can appreciate this journey that I am on. My teeth should be perfect in 18 months. I am a 47 yo, divorced (no baggage), emotionally happy female looking for a great guy to spend time with. I am a ro by nature. I have a great sense of humor. I love a good joke or funny movie. I am a strong lady who handles her own problems, so I don't "need" a man, I just want one. I hope that makes sense. I have one child, an 18 y.o. son. He spends about half of his time at my house. He has a great dad, who is involved in his life and not in mine. I would like to find a guy that makes me feel special. A good sense of humor and a playful personality are major pluses with me. Manners are also a must. If a guy makes me feel special, I enjoy spoiling him back. Chemistry and passion are also very important. I also love to cuddle and snuggle with that special guy. I am very loyal and trustworthy also. I have strong values that some might find old-fashioned, but it is still who I am. I guess I always pride myself on doing the right thing, even when it is difficult. I live a healthy lifestyle which includes eating right, exercising, and not smoking. I hope to find someone that shares that attitude. Additionally, I can't imagine responding to messages from those who do not care enough to post a pic. Does anyone really expect responses to profiles without faces? It is like talking to someone with the door closed. If you are not serious enough to post a pic, why should anyone share their *** go looking for your pic. It really sends the message that you are hiding something or from someone. Also, does "average" body really mean you have a significantly large belly and no muscle mass? Does anyone go to the gym today?? Really??Please realize that just because you post forty something for your age, most people can tell that you are ten years older when you are. Will everyone please stop lying....One last thing....if you don't want to see profiles that have only head shots, or only a baggy shirt, etc, then don't post one yourself. Seeing that you can wear a nice jacket to dinner is great, but some of us want a fitted tee shirt pic, jeans, etc. Pics that show that you are a guy who takes care of himself are nice. Women love hugging guys with nice arms and nice backs. I guess a perfect first date would have to be maybe dinner so that we could get to know each other. Then, at some point, we would be outside under the stars, maybe dancing or having a drink. The cool air is on my skin, and the chemistry is perfect. He holds me close and his lips brush mine. I get that nice tingly feeling and he kisses me again.

  • Lakeisha

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Guys!!! Please READ MY PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME. C'mon......Some of you guys make it so obvious when you dont......***I'm looking for a gentleman who is of my race and faith. If you aren't either thanks for your interest, and best wishes in your search.***I am a woman of integrity and very easy going. I enjoy going to dinner, festivals, or just people watching. I also enjoy the ocean, hiking or anything outdoors as well as going to the gym to stay physically fit. Things on my "to do" list would be skydiving, scuba diving and rock climbing. All these things are fun but I would like to find that person to do these things with and he will keep me smiling. I believe that love, honesty, laughter, deep mutual respect, good communication, and most of all that God is in the center are keys to an amazing relationship. If all these things are there then everything will fall into place. We all know its hard to find but not impossible. I am an open minded person who knows what she wants in her life and makes the best out of it, not wasting one day of enjoying this beautiful world. Accomplish as much as you can, so there are no regrets. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. "We have not come into the world to be numbered; we have been created for a purpose; for great things: to love and be loved." I love the Lord and my relationship with him is very important to me. I know we are all on different walks with God but I am looking for the man that shares my beliefs and is open to discuss them. As my "profession" states, I’m back in school. I DO work (I have to pay my bills). Right now, I am working towards a degree in Nursing. With that being said, I’m not one of those girls on here that is a serial dater. I am really busy (arent we all) so I don’t have time for that. I’m also aware that there are a lot of guys on here that are "serial daters" as well as they are looking for "hook ups," I’m not that girl either.I am looking for the man who is my best-friend and confidant. I know cliché right? But that is what I want.I am looking for that man that will be holding my hand and chasing me around when we are 80. He compliments my life, not complicates it. He is easy going, but adventurous, likes to have fun and knows how to treat a woman. He can have an in depth conversation or be silly....make me laugh because I am going to make you laugh. I can be very silly and yes, I can dish it out or take it so you should too, lolHe’s physically fit, non-smoker, not married (last time I checked "legally separated" was still married), and has a great attitude towards life.I’m not looking for a text buddy or someone who confuses texting for a conversation (What happened to talking on the phone guys?) I want to hear your voice.I’m not looking for an *** after a few ***, there is no attempt to either talk on the phone or meet, then I will assume you are just playing games, and I will move on. No hard feelings, but I just don’t have the time or patience for that, I’m assuming most people don’t. I mean we are all on here to meet someone, right? Here is a quote that I try to live by: If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.Here's another one:Laugh when you can, apologize when you should and let go of what you cannot change. Kiss slowly, forgive quickly, play hard, take chances, give everything, and have no regrets. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE ANYTHING BUT HAPPY!? WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice

  • Delmy

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am looking for someone who is fun, funny, smart and kind. Tall would be nice, too, but it's not a deal breaker. I feel like I have been given a "do-over" with my life, and I am overjoyed with the possibilities.What makes me unique? I try to always remember how fortunate I truly am. No matter how bad of a day I am having, I would never trade my problems for those of anyone else.I am also fortunate that I know what I want and the traits I am looking for in a future partner. Compatibility and chemistry are very important to me, and I can recognize those qualities when reading a profile. If I do not reply to your message(s), it is because I don't think we would be the best match. I don't want to mislead you or waste your time. However, I do wish you all the best in finding someone who is perfect for you. That's why we're doing this, right? It would depend on the individual and the level of interaction preceding the date. (Wow! Doesn't THAT sound romantic!) Let's just say it's a lesson I learned the hard way!

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