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Dolly, 31
United States, Kentucky, Henderson

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I'm newly separated from my husband after 13 years, and looking to rejoin the social scene. I have 2 children, ages 9 and 3, I work, I go to school full time, and my kids and I are in a musical, so my time is limited and my schedule is hectic, but I'd like to meet a nice guy to hang around with. Nothing serious. Definitely not looking to jump right into another relationship, but I've never really been single, and I know NOTHING about the dating scene. In all honesty, I'm quite socially akward, but getting better, I think. I like to go out (but don't often get the chance) or stay in. I like a good movie, especially suspense, cheesy horror, and comedy. I'm a "reader." My favorite author is Steven King, and if you've read Dark Tower, you're already leaps and bounds above the "competition," so let me know! I love just about any kind of music, but lean toward rock/hard rock/alternative. I went through about a decade long goth phase, so you can assume I like most of those cliche's (velvet and lace, dark music/movies/books, vampires [not Twlight!], halloween,etc.) though I was never much for trendy. I was already an outcast, and halloween was my favorite time of year, so after dying the hair black for a haunted house job, it just kind of worked out that way.I'm an open book, and tend to overdiscuss things. I like to know what people are thinking about everything at every given point. The hardest part of my transition into the social scene has been this concept of "going with the flow." I may not be looking for a relationship, but I would like to know that a person I'm spending time with appreciates my company. If you can't make an effort to let me know either in word or action, please don't bother messaging me. I don't need constant reassurance, but I certainly don't want to waste my time bugging someone who doesn't want to be bugged. On that note, I am persistant, but generally assume the worst if I don't know what's going on. (Thus the overdiscussing)Now that I've probably scared everyone away, on to lighter things: I like theater and musicals, I love stand-up comedy and cult classics. I don't have pets, but I'd like a kitten. I'm a bleeding-heart liberal who can admit that our govt. has gotten out of hand. I have an associates in Criminal Justice and am working toward my bachelors, but I'm no longer sure what I want to do with my degree. I'm a barista/bartender at a great place in a small town. I don't make nearly enough money. I'd love to travel, but never really have. I LOVE road trips! I like to be spontaneous, but it's especially tough with a kid in school. I'm horribly indecisive, but once I make a decision, I stick with it. I have no problem admitting I'm wrong, but I'll argue till I'm out of breath if I think I'm right. My family is the most important thing to me. My children come first in every decision. The rest of my family is all in town too. I'm a small-town girl through and through, though I enjoy the buzz of the city.My goal for now is just to find a nice guy to spend time with. Someone who appreciates honesty and communication, and isn't into playing mind games. A sense of humor and adventure are important, and remember, sleep is for the weak. Something very casual. Coffee in the park or a few drinks out. A museum would be lovely if you're so inclined. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other a bit. Movie dates stink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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