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Erna, 32

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About Me

For those of you who'd rather not read such a diatribe, I'll start with the "A.D.D" version (AKA: "the Wow What a Long...Ooo, Shiny!" version). For more detail, see below.Me:- I have a great life on a great island with great friends- missing: my life partner- been here just about 6 years, love it- willing to compromise location if need be- intelligent - funny - quiet - silly - extremely loyal- kind - caring- creative- artistic- musical - witty- a little bit geeky- mischievous-- cute- sexy- playful- fun- quirky- pubs over clubs- fairly low maintenance - want to be romancedLikes:Music (ooo, shocker!)- learning guitar (not great yet, so don't ask to be serenaded)Current top bands:- BRMC- Band of Skulls-- Arctic Monkeys- Levellers- and the list goes on…Art & Design- Yep, love art- Yep, love design (hence the career)- photography (well, I guess that just goes right along with it)To do:- good conversation- aimless drives- nature walks/hikes (lots of great spots here) with camera- evenings at home with a good book/movie/guitar/someone special (the latter being most preferable)You:- good sense of humour (you've gotta be able to take my jokes)- positive nature- my best friend & my partner- someone I can be myself with- challenge me intellectually - honest- loyal- faithful- trustworthy- respectful- driven- good communicator- healthy self esteem- actions must be in alignment with your words Added bonuses include (but are not mandatory):- can fix stuff- good at massages- creative, musical, and/or artsy- spider remover- somewhat outgoing***And now for the Extended Version:So, here I am on my beautiful little island enjoying the quiet life with a great job and amazing friends. The only thing missing is someone special to share all these wonderful things with. I've lived here for 5 years now, and it has become my home. I can't imagine living anywhere else at this point in my life, but I do understand that circumstances can change and I'm always willing to go with the flow.A little about me..... you'll see. I like to look good, but I'm far from a fashionista. I prefer a quiet pub to a noisy club. I'm fairly low maintenance, but I still like being romanced. What I like...Shockingly, like so many others on here, I love music. I guess if I had to classify, I listen to alternative rock mainly.; Levellers being the most played these days. I also love art. The likes of Dali and MC Escher top my list of favourites. As a graphic designer, I'm a sucker for fonts, colours, and interesting and innovative design (there's that geeky side showing it's face).I like to spend my time with my wonderful friends enjoying good conversation over drinks or a meal, taking a drive with no place to be and seeing where we end up, wandering the beautiful parks, trails, and beaches on this amazing island with my camera, or simply hanging out at home with a good book, a movie, my guitar or someone special. I'm told have a great sense of humour. I can dish out the jokes, but I can take them too (I have an older brother, so I learned fast). Positivity is the key to a happy life and I strive each day to look at life in a positive way...do you? What I'm looking for in you...I'm looking for someone who will be my best friend and my partner. Someone I can be myself around. If you are the one I want to get old and wrinkly with, you need to be someone that can still challenge me intellectually and make me laugh for years to come. A mutual attraction is a good start, but the right personality to match is just as important. I expect you to be honest, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, intelligent, respectful, driven, a good communicator, have a great sense of humour, a healthy self esteem, know your own heart, and most important of all, your actions must be in alignment with your words. Added bonuses include (but are not mandatory): someone who can fix stuff, someone who enjoys giving a good back rub after a long day, someone who is creative, musical, and/or artsy, someone who will remove spiders from my home for me & someone who is fairly outgoing.Please, feel free to message me if I've added you to my favourites or clicked the meet me feature. It's my subtle little way of saying hello. ;)You're still reading? Wow, good for you! You're a brave soul. If you think you may be that last piece of the puzzle, drop me a line and we'll see if we click.;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Patricia

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am the type of person who loves to have fun and am looking for someone to have fun with. I mean, I am a big kid at heart. I also have my serious side too and would like somebody who can hold a conversation. I appreciate open-minded people who are capable of seeing things from others' perspectives. I am also looking for someone who works hard at reaching their goals. At first I am very shy. It takes a little time for me to open up to people. However, once people get to know me they see I can be a little crazy (in a good/fun way). I love making people laugh and enjoy when a person can do the same for me.I'm a very playful person. I want to meet that person who I can crack up laughing with. I am known to be quite hilarious at times. I love having inside jokes and deep conversations where thoughts are provoked to a whole other level. These are the kind of things that attract friends to me and what also attracts me to friends and people I would like to date. I can't say that I am looking for a relationship or just looking to date. I am not looking to date the same person casually forever. I just want to have fun meeting new people and if I meet the right person see where things go from there. This is a hard one because my interests are so varied. I'm pretty open to almost anything, except McDonalds.P.S. If I give you my number and you want to ask me on a date, do so by calling, not by texting. That is so impersonal.

  • Amelia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I love being out in nature. I am a huge fan of music. My favorite music is rock and alternative rock, although I listen to a little of all kinds. I am fairly intelligent and prefer to date someone capable keeping up with me at the very least. I have recently started working out regularly and it just might be addictive. I am pretty mercurial. There are a few constants. I would describe myself as open, honest, intelligent, passionate, and a lil nerdy. I like sciences (biology, chemistry, physics, etc.) and the arts (art, poetry, music). I am a huge fan of philosophy, theology, and all the what-ifs and hows of life. I am generally shy and a bit nervous at first when I meet someone and have to warm up for my true personality to come out. I try to be a decent person and treat people with consideration and respect. I love having fun, trying new things, and being adventurous. I could never settle down with a couch potato who comes home, watches tv, and goes to bed. I have dated a few of those and I require a bit more excitement in my life. I love the outdoors and practically worship nature. I would live in the middle of the woods somewhere with access to trails, creeks, and caves if I had my wish. I prefer to meet people and make friends and see if there is chemistry and go from there. Not a huge fan of those first dates where people dress up, try to impress each other, and get all nervous and awkward, then try to kiss at the end of the night when there's obviously no chemistry. I'm looking to get to know people and find someone that I have some real chemistry with to date and see where things go from there.

  • Alisha

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    In my free time I like concerts, sporting events, bonfires, drinks w friends, boating, water sports, the demos, family time n nething w my kiddos!!!Im a pretty outgoing person, love to laugh and ppl watch! I spend alot of time w my friends n family, doin fun stuff, like playin at the lake or watchin my brother n cousin race the demos. I love all types of music everything from country to hip hop to oldies to frank Sinatra, n the list goes on n on!!! I played softball most my life then I had 2 awesome lil boys n it was time to grow up! Im italian so I got a thick skin, rough on the outside but super soft on the inside. Im kind hearted n wuld do jus abt nething for neone! Dont get crazy, stuff within reason of course lol. Get ur mind outta the gutter! HeheheIm pretty recently separated and couldnt b happier, "it is wat it is" ! Not too fond of drama or the ppl that come along w it, I believe karma is a **** n she will bite ur ass one day!!!!! So be careful of how u treat others! Nething else ya wanna know jus ask, im an open book! Oh yeah n fyi I dont have much of a filter if its on my mind ill prolly say it out loud! Haha Happy phishing!!! Depends on the person I guess!

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