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Erna, 32

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About Me

For those of you who'd rather not read such a diatribe, I'll start with the "A.D.D" version (AKA: "the Wow What a Long...Ooo, Shiny!" version). For more detail, see below.Me:- I have a great life on a great island with great friends- missing: my life partner- been here just about 6 years, love it- willing to compromise location if need be- intelligent - funny - quiet - silly - extremely loyal- kind - caring- creative- artistic- musical - witty- a little bit geeky- mischievous-- cute- sexy- playful- fun- quirky- pubs over clubs- fairly low maintenance - want to be romancedLikes:Music (ooo, shocker!)- learning guitar (not great yet, so don't ask to be serenaded)Current top bands:- BRMC- Band of Skulls-- Arctic Monkeys- Levellers- and the list goes on…Art & Design- Yep, love art- Yep, love design (hence the career)- photography (well, I guess that just goes right along with it)To do:- good conversation- aimless drives- nature walks/hikes (lots of great spots here) with camera- evenings at home with a good book/movie/guitar/someone special (the latter being most preferable)You:- good sense of humour (you've gotta be able to take my jokes)- positive nature- my best friend & my partner- someone I can be myself with- challenge me intellectually - honest- loyal- faithful- trustworthy- respectful- driven- good communicator- healthy self esteem- actions must be in alignment with your words Added bonuses include (but are not mandatory):- can fix stuff- good at massages- creative, musical, and/or artsy- spider remover- somewhat outgoing***And now for the Extended Version:So, here I am on my beautiful little island enjoying the quiet life with a great job and amazing friends. The only thing missing is someone special to share all these wonderful things with. I've lived here for 5 years now, and it has become my home. I can't imagine living anywhere else at this point in my life, but I do understand that circumstances can change and I'm always willing to go with the flow.A little about me..... you'll see. I like to look good, but I'm far from a fashionista. I prefer a quiet pub to a noisy club. I'm fairly low maintenance, but I still like being romanced. What I like...Shockingly, like so many others on here, I love music. I guess if I had to classify, I listen to alternative rock mainly.; Levellers being the most played these days. I also love art. The likes of Dali and MC Escher top my list of favourites. As a graphic designer, I'm a sucker for fonts, colours, and interesting and innovative design (there's that geeky side showing it's face).I like to spend my time with my wonderful friends enjoying good conversation over drinks or a meal, taking a drive with no place to be and seeing where we end up, wandering the beautiful parks, trails, and beaches on this amazing island with my camera, or simply hanging out at home with a good book, a movie, my guitar or someone special. I'm told have a great sense of humour. I can dish out the jokes, but I can take them too (I have an older brother, so I learned fast). Positivity is the key to a happy life and I strive each day to look at life in a positive way...do you? What I'm looking for in you...I'm looking for someone who will be my best friend and my partner. Someone I can be myself around. If you are the one I want to get old and wrinkly with, you need to be someone that can still challenge me intellectually and make me laugh for years to come. A mutual attraction is a good start, but the right personality to match is just as important. I expect you to be honest, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, intelligent, respectful, driven, a good communicator, have a great sense of humour, a healthy self esteem, know your own heart, and most important of all, your actions must be in alignment with your words. Added bonuses include (but are not mandatory): someone who can fix stuff, someone who enjoys giving a good back rub after a long day, someone who is creative, musical, and/or artsy, someone who will remove spiders from my home for me & someone who is fairly outgoing.Please, feel free to message me if I've added you to my favourites or clicked the meet me feature. It's my subtle little way of saying hello. ;)You're still reading? Wow, good for you! You're a brave soul. If you think you may be that last piece of the puzzle, drop me a line and we'll see if we click.;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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