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Jessie, 34

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About Me

I think I think in circles, signs, and patterns ;)I am always right on time (or late). I own WAY too many jeans & if possible, hold way too many people in my heart. My favorite color is a lighter shade of pale, & I like RESULTS. If ever there was a Kick Ass Kittenfish, I am her :) I don't own my own home, but I do have my own vehicle and I drive the ever loving crap out of it because I adore being mobile and free. My favorite thing to do in the summer when I am not dragging my kid and people around to local festivals is hit up the beaches and lakes around here.I usually have a goal every summer, once it was to explore every abandoned farm house we could find. Occasionally it leads me to some interesting places. I think being curious is a great quality to have, it helps keep minds open and the world a great amazing place to be. So, while I was born here, I did move around a lot when I was younger, and now I am here to settle UFN. I love this city, and having been able to watch it "grow up". I have a lot of favorite places here! On that note, the message options don't let you include the following so I will tack them on just in case anyone read this far:Open-minded, SANE (some crazy is okay but no misogynists, please!), employed, SINGLE (having your other half's permission or inclusion just doesn't count for me, Sorry), clean-cut, HONEST men...If you want to know more, you know the drill. Leave a message! And no...I won't text after a "hello" but thanks for all your numbers heheheeh sooo much fun I could have !!"To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be."- You play and I will fumble through lyrics the best and loudest I can outside laundromats. When we have enough change we should spend it on coffee for each other. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fern

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am independent, self-sufficient, confident and adventurous. One of the most exciting things I've ever done was skydiving which I would love to do again. I can also be a huge geek, I LOVE Jeopardy. I'm very laid back and down-to-earth. I love to travel and wish I had more time to do so. I like to ski & snowboard so I try to go home to VT as often as I can in the winter. I have a 120lb lap dog, he's my baby. I'm the girl you see that looks like a bum half the time but who is wearing Prada sunglasses. I get a kick out of the dichotomy of hopping out of my lifted Tundra in party dress and highheels! I love to read and watch movies, I'm a huge fan of 80's action movies. I'm very close to my family, so it gets a little lonely down here in VA all by myself. Although my dog is great company, I would love to have some human companionship! lol I'm looking for an educated, cultured, out-going, all around fun guy to spend time with. Someone whom I can try exciting new things with and have a mellow evening on the couch with a glass of wine and a movie. *If you don't like tattoos then I'm not for you!**And at the risk of sounding stuck up or mean...Please don't message me if you are clingy and can't be alone for 5 minutes, please don't message me if you don't know the difference between there, their and they're and can't use them properly, please don't message me if you aren't healthy and fit and at least somewhat attractive. Also I'm not really looking for someone with children. Thanks!! Dinner, drinks and a walk on the beach...kinda cliche I know :) Any better ideas?

  • Zelma

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Going to try this again...... I'm a single mom of a 7 yr old boy, very little drama involved in this situation, I have him full time. I work full time so I'm not looking for a sugar daddy. My son is the most important part of my life so if you have kids and don't mention them in your profile, I probably won't respond. We are very much outdoors people- hiking, four- I started playing volleyball one night a week but if you know of any place with an open gym night, please let me know. I started running a year ago and have completed 2 5k races and 1 5k obstacle course. I like to play and watch most sports with football being my favorite. Its been awhile but I love to travel. I have no tolerance for drug use (including pot) or STDs. These are just a few random things about me, feel free to ask me about other things. Please don't judge me by my pictures, I'm not photogenic :)

  • Adrian

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Just moved to NYC for a new job that sought me out which is VERY flattering but now I have to work on establishing my new life.... it's been eye opening and certainly a bit overwhelming...(but mostly in a good way!).Now on to my original (mildly updated) profile: I like to think I'm a decent, honest person and that I'm pretty interesting. I love music and movies, traveling and/or trying new activities and new foods whenever time and money allow. I listen to pretty much every type of music - though country isn't a favorite.I'm very honest, open, and extroverted (most of my friends love me for my refreshingly honest take on things overall). I will throw a few random things out there: I can sometimes curse like a sailor BUT, I know how and when to turn that off and to put on my "yes, I do really have an MBA" hat :). I love to laugh and have fun and hang out with friends, but am more of a homebody than a "girl about town" (and I just realized that I might apparently like air quotes and emoticons more than I realized as evident by my use of those things here...)........(yes... I did insert more here randomly since the site was yelling at me to increase the word count on my profile :))Some additional random thoughts: I can be sorta wordy (in case you haven't noticed... ;) I don't like politics - It feels like a lot of people think that knowing (and liking) politics is synonymous with being intelligent. This does not have to be the case. I do vote and I do so after having researched my choice AND I do have a lot of views that lean more toward the less liberal side of things - I will chat about it from time to time ... but I'll avoid politics most days ...(I also have lots of friends who represent opposites sides of most political arguments and I enjoy not having to take part in their political debates unless I really think being silly...)Other random thoughts:- In my previous town, this applied a bit more, and I get why bikes are helpful for those who feel like risking their lives sometimes in NYC traffic, but I'm leaving this part in my profile anyway lol I don't get the whole crunchy, hippie biking culture and whatnot. I mean I like a nice bike ride as much as the next person, but this whole "everybody looks, dresses, and acts like bike-messengers" thing isn't doing it for me....(I wasn't a fan of Puck on the Real World if that helps put things in to perspective lol)- Tattoos .... I'm a fan... I currently have 9 if them....can't see them in my pix? It's because I've been very good at finding spots where they can be hidden if I really need to do that (though I don't often find the need) This also doesn't mean you have to hide yours by any means and if you don't have any .. that's fine as long as you're not upset about mine :PMy match? Well, I like to think that I don't have a particular "type"... I like good-hearted people. A guy who appreciates: hopping in the car (or now that I'm in NYC.... on the train :P) and finding a park to hang out and have a picnic; good movies; cheesy movies (or at least tolerates them for me :P); a guy who likes to laugh and joke but also who knows when to be serious and - no matter what - he's always sincere; someone who can appreciate the politically incorrect side of my personality and who challenges me (that's sort of a broad statement - challenging me = many things but some examples are: telling me what I need to hear - not just want I WANT to hear sometimes, someone who is intelligent and has a thirst for knowledge like I do, etc....). I do prefer it when a guy is at least my height if not taller (since I'm already almost 6ft tall....). I want someone who has really figured out who he is in life - even if he's still trying to figure out where he's headed :)I'm pretty open to answering questions so just ask - I didn't fill this out before and, while I like it when a guy uses the element of surprise...I can tell you that if you wrote something about seeing a movie in this box, then we might not get each other...

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