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James, 53

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About Me

I am a single mom of two boys almost 21 years old (in college) and one almost 19 neither live at home. I have been divorced for 15 years. During that time I have had 3 relationships, the longest being 5 years. I would date someone with children. Would prefer older children (just being honest) PLEASE,I am not into long distant relationships, they just haven't worked for me. I am just not interested if it's much further away! Also, please post a recent (not 10 years old!)photo, I have mine out there and it is within months old.-6 times a week. Getting back into jogging) boating,(LOVE BOATING IN THE SUMMER) a variety of sports and working in my gardens. I am very settled in my home, job and career. I try to be very honest and upfront so as not to waste anyone's time. I am not looking to move or change careers. Not into the night club or bar thing. Love to hang out with friends and family in back yard by a fire, cookout, or out in the boat on and island some place etc. I can be very funny, yet serious at the same time. I do love to joke around!I am NOT into head games or dishonesty. I believe that being upfront and honest is the only way to go. If you are not an honest guy then we are NOT a good match. Once I have been lied to i am done. I believe that one small lie only turns into more!Looking for friendship, dating and having a good time at first, if it turns into something more than that would be great, if not maybe we can be casual friends. Maybe a light dinner, cup of coffee, a walk on the beach or in the old Port to just talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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