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Bobbie, 55
United States, Kentucky, Elizabethtown

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About Me

I put my personal life somewhat on hold to raise my son and work my a*** off to make a good living. Now having accomplished both of those feats - my son is finishing college and I am "semi-retired" looking for something new to keep me occupied - I am now ready to try this online dating thing. I still have all the equipment to do these things but without someone to share these adventures with I haven't done much of them in awhile. Of course I love to do all the usual activities like enjoying good food, conversation, movies, walks on the beach, blah, blah, blah. A few things you will never find me doing are watching sports on TV, going "shopping" for fun, or reading my "facebook" page (don't have one, will never have one so don't ask). My desired dress is causal - shorts and tank tops in summer - jeans in colder weather; my demeanor is laid back; and sorry guys but I don't do makeup (as my pictures clearly show).What sets me apart from most others is that I am very intelligent and highly curious about the world so I read (nonfiction) voraciously. I love learning and exploring new ideas, and thinking outside of the "box" that society has built around most peoples' observations, awareness and beliefs. I am a truth seeker and have awaken from the matrix that the majority of the sheeple still live in. What I mean by being a truth seeker is that I don't look to any so called "authority" (government, main-stream media, allopathic doctors, lawyers, clergy, economist, etc.) to determine what to believe or how to live my life. What I am looking for is someone whom I can respect and can connect with. For me to be able to respect you and connect with you, you need to be intelligent, well-read, a critical thinker, and non-religious. Believing in fairy tales (i.e., organized religion) is a sign to me of your failure to think critically. If you rely on the opinions of the so called "authorities" to define your reality and you have not taken an active interest in finding the truths in this world by doing independent research and thinking then sorry to be so honest but we probably are not compatible.Finally, if you are not interested in sharing a little information about who you are with me via *** phone calls BEFORE we meet (especially if you live at a great distance from me) then don't reply since I will not agree to meet you until I know something about you. I don't expect *** "chemistry" and hope you don't either. In my experience chemistry grows as one gets to know another person and is usually rarely found in the first *** could care less what a "first date" entails. I don't expect to be wined and dined on a first date. To me a first date could involve just a face to face meeting, grabbing a cup of coffee (even though I don't drink coffee - lol) or whatever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Internet Browsing Play Musical Instrument Animation Martial Arts Music Mystery Soccer / Football
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