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Bobbie, 55

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About Me

I put my personal life somewhat on hold to raise my son and work my a*** off to make a good living. Now having accomplished both of those feats - my son is finishing college and I am "semi-retired" looking for something new to keep me occupied - I am now ready to try this online dating thing. I still have all the equipment to do these things but without someone to share these adventures with I haven't done much of them in awhile. Of course I love to do all the usual activities like enjoying good food, conversation, movies, walks on the beach, blah, blah, blah. A few things you will never find me doing are watching sports on TV, going "shopping" for fun, or reading my "facebook" page (don't have one, will never have one so don't ask). My desired dress is causal - shorts and tank tops in summer - jeans in colder weather; my demeanor is laid back; and sorry guys but I don't do makeup (as my pictures clearly show).What sets me apart from most others is that I am very intelligent and highly curious about the world so I read (nonfiction) voraciously. I love learning and exploring new ideas, and thinking outside of the "box" that society has built around most peoples' observations, awareness and beliefs. I am a truth seeker and have awaken from the matrix that the majority of the sheeple still live in. What I mean by being a truth seeker is that I don't look to any so called "authority" (government, main-stream media, allopathic doctors, lawyers, clergy, economist, etc.) to determine what to believe or how to live my life. What I am looking for is someone whom I can respect and can connect with. For me to be able to respect you and connect with you, you need to be intelligent, well-read, a critical thinker, and non-religious. Believing in fairy tales (i.e., organized religion) is a sign to me of your failure to think critically. If you rely on the opinions of the so called "authorities" to define your reality and you have not taken an active interest in finding the truths in this world by doing independent research and thinking then sorry to be so honest but we probably are not compatible.Finally, if you are not interested in sharing a little information about who you are with me via *** phone calls BEFORE we meet (especially if you live at a great distance from me) then don't reply since I will not agree to meet you until I know something about you. I don't expect *** "chemistry" and hope you don't either. In my experience chemistry grows as one gets to know another person and is usually rarely found in the first *** could care less what a "first date" entails. I don't expect to be wined and dined on a first date. To me a first date could involve just a face to face meeting, grabbing a cup of coffee (even though I don't drink coffee - lol) or whatever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Irma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a caring woman looking for a caring man with a great sense of humor. I enjoy water skiing, love dogs, have a great job . I think at first it would be to meet and have a coffee and see what happens next

  • Roslyn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Have you noticed how 'top prospects' are about as off base as could be? Guess this site believes opposites attract. It's true we are 'attracted' to our opposite quite often, you know...the good girl and bad boy syndrome? Thats not usually a healthy match. I leave the opposites attract to metals..FYI I may look like an adventurous, spontaneous, up for a good time gal, but I can assure you I don't like spiders, snakes, or any crawly things and I'm far from spontaneous. Spontaneous is one person thinking about something they want to do and then 'spontaneously' springing it on the partner who's expected to drop whatever and go.;) Sound good??? I'm 5'***", wt ***depending on whether I crave pizza and ice cream or stick to my health conscious diet. I cut my hair yesterday just above my shoulders and so far I still haven't changed the color which is a miracle in itself. It's taking everything in me to leave it naturale! So far there's not much gray;..the eye sights fading fast so maybe I'm more gray than I know! ;) That's why our sight fades you know...to ease the impact of the aging process ;)I'm a very settled but unsettled person. I'm very 'zen', earthy, peace living, but can't seem to find that one person I'd like. I truly think it won't happen through the Internet but I'm here bec its possible.I've never thought of myself as the 'princess' type but as I scrolled down the list of personality types thinking 'this is silly' I thought why not, its time I embrace the princess in me ;)I'm 59 and no it wasn't a mistake. Don't you just look at your age and wonder if it's right? How did it happen??? I was 22 and single, then 34 and divorced wtih three kids and now I'm 59 with grand kids! I remember looking in the mirror when I was sixteen, holding my four year old niece and thinking one day I'd be a Momma; now I hold my four year old ggirl in wonder :) I'm located E of GR if that helps.

  • Bertha

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I like smart men who have interesting things to say. A good sense of humor is important too. I am a lover of arts and nature and am at my happiest when immersed in one or the other. Love all my wonderful friends. I am very fortunate to be blessed with many people in my life that are truly unique and caring. My children are getting older as are we all and so I find I have more time to do as I please. Sometimes it would be nice to have someone to do things with, share ideas and experiences . Know what I mean? Best wishes to each and everyone of you in finding what you are looking for..WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of it's associated sites for studies or projects - you DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, that will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. That will be the beginning of a new friendship at the least.To contact this person, you must meet the following criteria;Must not be marriedMust not be looking for intimate encounterMust live within 50kmWilling to provide photo on request

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