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Bobbie, 55

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About Me

I put my personal life somewhat on hold to raise my son and work my a*** off to make a good living. Now having accomplished both of those feats - my son is finishing college and I am "semi-retired" looking for something new to keep me occupied - I am now ready to try this online dating thing. I still have all the equipment to do these things but without someone to share these adventures with I haven't done much of them in awhile. Of course I love to do all the usual activities like enjoying good food, conversation, movies, walks on the beach, blah, blah, blah. A few things you will never find me doing are watching sports on TV, going "shopping" for fun, or reading my "facebook" page (don't have one, will never have one so don't ask). My desired dress is causal - shorts and tank tops in summer - jeans in colder weather; my demeanor is laid back; and sorry guys but I don't do makeup (as my pictures clearly show).What sets me apart from most others is that I am very intelligent and highly curious about the world so I read (nonfiction) voraciously. I love learning and exploring new ideas, and thinking outside of the "box" that society has built around most peoples' observations, awareness and beliefs. I am a truth seeker and have awaken from the matrix that the majority of the sheeple still live in. What I mean by being a truth seeker is that I don't look to any so called "authority" (government, main-stream media, allopathic doctors, lawyers, clergy, economist, etc.) to determine what to believe or how to live my life. What I am looking for is someone whom I can respect and can connect with. For me to be able to respect you and connect with you, you need to be intelligent, well-read, a critical thinker, and non-religious. Believing in fairy tales (i.e., organized religion) is a sign to me of your failure to think critically. If you rely on the opinions of the so called "authorities" to define your reality and you have not taken an active interest in finding the truths in this world by doing independent research and thinking then sorry to be so honest but we probably are not compatible.Finally, if you are not interested in sharing a little information about who you are with me via *** phone calls BEFORE we meet (especially if you live at a great distance from me) then don't reply since I will not agree to meet you until I know something about you. I don't expect *** "chemistry" and hope you don't either. In my experience chemistry grows as one gets to know another person and is usually rarely found in the first *** could care less what a "first date" entails. I don't expect to be wined and dined on a first date. To me a first date could involve just a face to face meeting, grabbing a cup of coffee (even though I don't drink coffee - lol) or whatever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rhea

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    HELLO...It's VERY nice to meet you !I am a happy, energetic, passionate woman with a fun loving, youthful.spirit. My friends say that I'm always smiling and that's just the way I like to be, I enjoy life and my tendency to "look on the brighter side" helps to keep me positive and optimistic ...Hopefully you are too!. I have a VERY loving, caring, nurturing personality I care deeply for other people...their feelings and their point of view.. I hope to meet my counterpart... A happy, thoughtful, caring, passionate, fun loving man who is stable and responsible. Someone who loves to laugh, have fun and enjoy life, I know you're out there...I'M OVER HERE...HA!I am quite independant and I have a successful career.that I enjoy. My colleagues refer to me as the social convenor. I'm the one arranging the birthday lunches, parties social functions and when they want to vent or share a good laugh...my office door is always open. I'm a great listener and I love a good laugh! I like to keep fit I enjoy a very healthy lifestyle.I exercise regularly and I love bicycling, swimming, long walks, etc. I love golf, although I am quite brutal at it. I REALLY need lessons, so I wont be such a menace on the golf course...lol...but I love to try. I enjoy dining, dancing, movies. I'm very social and love to entertain. I enjoy meeting new people and am very comfortable in a wide variety of social settings..and regularly visit family and friends. Like to get my "City Girl" fix.I like to keep busy..,,BUT I DO love my quiet time too... IIt's important to have time to relax and reflect on life.. I love quiet intimate evenings..I'm a great cook I really enjoy it. A glass of wine by the fire, curling up for a good movie or enjoying a nice campfire. I love to be surrounded by nature and water. I have a cute llittle waterfront house that I love... Nothing like relaxing on the dock after a long day or enjoying a peaceful kayak or paddle boat ride. I love all kinds of music. Soothes my soul... I play bass guitar in a 3 pce girl band... SO much fun! ..Great way to unwind after a hard week's work in a professional business environment. I love it! ...It's like my "alter ego"...ha! It's one of my favorite creative pursuits..;treasures" for my house. I love plants and my garden and I can make a planter out of almost anything...lol I have collected some interesting things over the years. I'm told my creative flair shows through in my appearance as well. I like to dress a little on the "funky" side. I like to look sexy,,but always with poise and class..I am a fit and "curvy" little thing and I like it that way. REAL women do have curves ..Ha! I am very feminine and sensual and I REALLY do enjoy being a woman. I'm a real "GIRLY GIRL".. Love high heels,perfume,lipstick, lingerie glitter...all that girly stuff. Love a nice pair of jeans too...just maybe like to have a little bit of sparkle on them...lol I enjoy my independance but would really love to share my life with someone special. I am a very passionate, affectionate woman. I have a happy life...All that's missing is a good man to enjoy my life with.. Family is VERY important to me. If you have children of any age, I would welcome them. I LOVE kids!!I love to travel whenever I can. Many places in the world I have yet to see! I enjoy weekend getaways, road trips and spontaneous activities...just get in the car and drive. All beautiful romantic memories to share with someone special. Doesnt really matter what you're doing as long as it's time spent with the one you love...Romantic candlelight dinners, Long walks, bicycling, boat rides,flea markets, antique shopping....All great stuff. I look forward to sharing this time in my life with a warm, passionate, fun loving energetic man who is ready to enjoy his life with someone like me... So if you're out there...Time is precious....STEP RIGHT UP !!!

  • Liza

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi guys!.. I'm an independent, openly affectionate, fun lovin' mother of an awesome 24 year old son...with a love for MUSIC, ANIMALS/nature & comedy. I enjoy workin' out a couple times a week. Tryin' to tone up...lose some weight and live a healthier, happier lifestyle. (Already payin' off!) It would be nice to interact with like-minded individuals. I like to fish...and YES...I bait my own hook! I have a HUGE lovin' heart, a sharp mind (above average)...admittedly suffers from occasional "blond moments". HUSH! It’s part o'me charm. *Giggle* I'm animated with a WARPED sense of humor...a bit of a smahtazz...but ONLY in fun. I'm outspoken in a matter of fact, logical kind of way. I'm a very open, effective communicator...and would appreciate the same. I avoid drama...I'll walk away from an argument. Sort of tomboy/jeans & T shirt type... I'm pretty laid back for the most part...easy to get along with...with an occasional playful hyper streak that can get me into trouble if I get the giggles. (I could very well be the ONLY volunteer parent in history to be put in "time out" in my son's kindergarten class. LOL) Sort of a loner/homebody at times...but I do like to get out and do things. Very easy to please...not materialistic...jus' wanna love and be loved. I enjoy anything sensual…LOVE to kiss, or anything that provokes laughter or deep thought. I also enjoy sharin' new interests and ideas. And might I add...that I have an inner "rocker child" jus' itchin' to get out! \m/O^O\m/My son is the MOST important thing in my life...that goes without sayin'...but right now...I am focusin' on my level of happiness for a change. He's doin' his own thing back in SC...and though I HAVE dated since I left my ex...I've never brought a man into our home. I don’t believe in paradin’ men/women around children…so I’ve put a lot of my own needs on the back burner to be a GOOD, committed single mom. Now that I have raised my son I feel like I can finally "exhale"...so to speak. I'm tryin' to broaden my circle of friends...and maybe let someone special into my life. I'm not in a big hurry...things should develop naturally over time.At the risk of interjecting negativity...I'll not meet anyone without a recent photo (C'mon y'all...we were all hot back in high school! LOL)...one taken within the past couple of years will suffice. Nor will I meet anyone I've not spoken with on the phone. Once weboth reach a certain level of comfort...we can meet on a "no promises/no expectations" basis and see where it leads. (No players or "one night stands"...self respect thing y'know.) If we make a mutual connection...and it goes there...I'd love to explore a romantic, long-term relationship. If it blossoms into something deep and meaningful...wonderful! (But please don't lead me to believe that we share somethin' more...if we don't.) If not, then we can enjoy interactin' as friends...a win/win situation...agreed? *Smile*If ya think you'd like to get to know me...send me a message. But PLEASE...approach me with RESPECT...cuz ya get whutcha give...y'know? Later!"It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche (19th-Century German Philosopher) I'm flexible...kinda "go with the flow" kinda gal. We can meet...talk...see if we click...then let mutual interests and spontaneity dictate the rest of the day/evenin'. I'll even pay for my portion...howzat? ;-)

  • Minerva

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a very energetic, honest and open girl who is very easy to talk to. I have quite the sense of humor with a hint of sarcasm and always seem to get everyone around me laughing. I like to keep busy and always seem to have some project on the go either fixing up my house or working outside maintaining my gardens. .I love my music and would say classic rock would be my favorite. I enjoy travelling south each year ... maybe you want to come with me????? I speak a few languages but would say I am getting rusty...I am looking for an intelligent man who can stimulate my sense of curiosity. Communication is very important to me as well as a sense of humor. I have 2 wonderful daughters that I would do anything for. My youngest will be heading for University next year. They are my pride and joy and I couldn’t love them more. We can decide together

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