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Brendan, 50
United States, Kansas, Mission

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About Me

I am a widower, so I have done the death do you part thing. I am looking for a serious relationship, for my new soul mate. I like trying new experiences and would be open to most things within reason. I have a 9 year old son who is number 1 in my life and is part of the package. I love the outdoors and travel when my time permits. I work at a University and have worked on several multi-campus and multi-college projects. Part of the job sometimes involves working with the federal government with classified information. That part of my life keeps me busy at times, which makes it difficult for me to go out and meet people. Thus I have created a profile here to see what the digital life has to offer me. One thing I have learned in my experiences in life, most American men are very clueless when it comes to their woman. I am not saying that I am an expert or anything, but the nerve of guys thinking their woman will work all day on a job and be happy to come home and do the dishes, cook dinner, wash clothes and deal with the kids while they sit and watch TV all evening or go fishing every weekend. What if they would consider taking the time and help cook dinner with their spouse or even help with the laundry. What quality time they are missing out on having with their spouse. I have made other husbands mad at me due to the fact that I would help with the house work. Why not I am doing it now as a single dad and if a woman is expected to work then she should get some help around the house.So what I am not looking for is a maid, a full time chef, or a baby sitter while I go running off with the guys. What I want is an equal partner to share the rest of my life with, that will be a good mother for my son (not a replacement). And yes there are some guys who believe that a woman should enjoy certain activities as much as the man, but that is another conversation. I am open to most things as stated before, and I am looking for a new best friend. Life is a big adventure and there are so many things to experiance and enjoy. Life is short, but this is not a race. So lets get to know each other and let things take thier course naturally.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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