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Isiah, 48
United States, Kansas, Gardner

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Howdy! I'm an easy going single dad that leads a good life with a good job, nice home, lots of big boy toys, and a super group of friends. My objective for being on this site is to find someone that will enjoy the things I do, and make everything we do together all that much more fun. I'm not an overly busy guy... I have my 12yr old son 50% of the time, and don't spend more time at work than I need to. I definitely have plenty of time to spend with my someone special... maybe it's you :o)My main interests revolve around my lakefront cottage up north, at which I spend many of my free weekends. During the summer months we typically load everyone up on the pontoons and various other water toys and head over to one of the local party spots to enjoy the sun, good friends, good food, and of course some nice cold DRINKS !! You definitely have to enjoy hanging out on the water to hang out with me :o) During the winter months I head to the cottage for snowmobiling and snow skiing... Again something that I would hope you would enjoy! My other favorite pass time is car racing... I typically race once a month during the summer and it's usually a weekend thing. Of course the racing events are something that I wouldn't expect any female to like LOL... but if ya did, well that would be SUPER!I consider myself to be a fairly simple guy and am most comfortable in a casual atmosphere. I'm definitely not into going any place where I have to wear a suit coat, except for a wedding or a funeral LOL. I enjoy places where jeans or shorts are the norm ... especially a local pub with a good band. I also enjoy quiet nights out ... a nice dinner and a movie works really well for me. Staying home with a good movie and a couple of Martinis by the fire place can be even better ... and I make one heck of a good Martini! So about you ... intelligent, passionate, honest, a little silly, physically FIT and a GREAT communicator. Common interests are great, but not a necessity by any means. Last, but for sure not least, would be for you to have a happy/positive outlook on life that's easily felt by whomever they are with ... like me! The best first date is finding a nice casual place to sit down, have a drink, and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Walking Poker
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