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Maria, 49
United States, Kansas, Gardner

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About Me

So somethings about me I am not your average guy. I try to be positive as much as possible . I want to fall in love for the rest of my life . I want the good the bad and all the baggage that goes with it. I'm not afraid of anything except for spiders and heights. Heights are negotiable spiders are not. I love to read a good book over watching hours of mind numbing TV. Kissing and cuddling are an integral part of life and I can never seem to get enough. I have an 12yr old son who I have every weekend unless plans are made ahead of time. So I do have some flexibility on weekends. I work hard so I can enjoy the weekends. If life gives me lemons. I will make a lemon drop martinis or lemon cookies. lemonade is nice but only in the summer on a hot day. I love to cook. I need to lose a few pounds . I'm not as slim as I use to be. I also travel a lot for work but really do not have the time to travel for dating.I am a big outdoors man. I like to hike,go camping and geocache in my free time. Fly fishing when some can enjoy it with me. Tuesday & Thursday nights 3 hours are devoted to Kendo. Yes I beat on people with a Bamboo stick while wearing Armor(it's not shiny and it smells sometimes) but they get to hit back! Fly Fishing is a passion but I find I don't like to go alone much any more. But It is very nice to have some to share the experience with. Outdoor concerts with pleasant company good conversation are a must. I am a passionate man I give all that I am. Have been know to make a complete ass of my self regardless of the consequences, So the world is my oyster want to share a bite? Of course you must like Oysters too unless your allergic to shell fish then we will have to find something else to take a bite of. I believe the truth no matter how odd or harsh is what it is. So I try to be honest to a fault whatever the out come. What I am ideally looking for this is merely a guideline which is subject to interpretation as neededA WOMAN who knows what she wants, not says it but truly means it with every fiber of her being.Who loves adventure Small or large.Who believes in the golden ruleWho likes to laugh and have fun!!!!Who likes to dance or would really like to learn.Who is willing to try new things and maybe get her hands dirty.Who likes attention but does not thrive on it.Who can handle old school manners(yes opening doors, holding hands and waiting).Who believes in monogamy even when just dating and that games are for children.Who wants to spend time together but also likes time to themselves.Who Can handle that I have an 12 year old son and he is a major part of my life and is willing to share being part of that and so much more over time. I am in no rush to get anywhere.This all depends on chemistry, attraction and how the universe tends to unfold, plus a great sense of humor helps a loton another noteIf I send you a message it would be nice to get a reply it is a common courtesy and I will do the same because I always answer messages. If your not interested that is fine too and it would be nice to know. We are all looking and it does take some effort to write to someone. Then go out on a limb to see if maybe, just maybe we might click and fall off the tree together.UPDATE When you message please say something more than just{b] "hi I like your profile" or "hey you seem nice". I like to have my mind stimulated not poked. You would be amazed at what happens when my mind is stimulated................now get your mind out of the gutter and see what happens!!! A simple meeting over coffee/light dinner. Nothing to fancy but quiet and go from there. Will plan adventures as they begin!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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