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Ray, 45

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About Me

God-how does one sell themselves? I guess my profile can't be any worse than anyone else's so here goes! Just turned 45 and it would nice to share that trauma with someone that's been there.What do they say..."gay men should never be old or fat...so I got one right. LOL. Well, I have all my teeth and my hairs is mine. I'm probably fat where I should be skinny and vice a versa. I have never been married and have no kids. I guess you could say that I'm an old fashioned cynic but I have a great sense of humor. Love Pop Culture and comic books. Guess you could call me a Geek. Reading, the arts and good eating are passions of mine. I really love red wine and would like to learn more about them as well learning to be a good cook. I don't really know what else to say about my self. If any of this sounds appealing send me a shout.l The usual but if someone can surprise me...off the beaten track, you get big points. I really like to try new types of food!I'm down to earth so a "greasy spoon" is always good eaten-Just wanna laugh and not feel any pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jamel

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Friends and family tell me all the time that I am such a catch, a guy shouldn't even hesitate or question as to whether or not I am worth the pursuit. Bless them...as friends they are perhaps biased, but I suppose deep down, I also hope they are right.Be a communicator. If you can't...or won't...express your thoughts and feelings, getting to know one another...let alone a relationship, won't work.According to my birth certificate, which I am still confident is typographically incorrect, I am forty...however, I look no older than thirty, and have sworn and signed affidavits from friends...and my mother...attesting to this, should my profile photos (ALL recent) are not enough convincing and you require further verification.I would like to find someone who really wants to get to know me…to learn about me, understand me, love and cherish me, and appreciate all the things that I am and what I can bring to their life and a relationship with them. All of this may sound like a lot to ask for, but it is what I want to give to someone myself, and aren’t all these things that make a successful partner in the first place?I am looking for someone intelligent, witty, funny, and able to carry on a conversation. Practical knowledge and common sense is much more important to me than “book smarts.” I want someone who is brave and confident about life, and not afraid to take the time and effort required to get to know another person. You must take an active interest in your fitness level and make daily efforts to maintain a healthy and fit lifestyle. No closet cases, either…be out and proud of who you are, to everyone. I must admit, despite the responsible conservatism I am looking for when it comes to the practical side of a guy, I do love a little bit of a bad boy too...not the kind that calls you from jail at 4:00am, but the kind that would drive 100mph on an open road if he could get away with it. In case this is a concern, when it’s time for bed, I occupy the bottom bunk. That is what I am comfortable with, it is the way it is, and I can own that. If you think you may be the kind of person I am looking for, I encourage you to contact me. I can be extremely shy at first, so chances are you will need to be the one to break the ice. If I feel, based on your own profile, that you may be a good fit, I will respond. Adieu… As traditional as I am, I tend to think out of the box about first dates. The typical dressing up and going to dinner kind of date is intimidating as hell. I think the first date should be more casual, less structured, and give both people something to do and talk about *** sitting awkwardly across the table from one another, trying to figure out how to escape, should they not hit it off. One of the best dates I have had was one where we spent an afternoon browsing through an antique mall and taking a walking tour of a city we were both unfamiliar with. It was great fun and completely without stress.

  • Elroy

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a full time Photographer, Very down to easy going guy who is looking for the same.Looking to meet people to hang out, maybe hit a movie once in a while.Would like to find someone with similar interests,, Possibly Hair and MUA, Other Photogs to collab with. First date would be at a public place,, possibly Star Bucks,, LOL

  • Jeffery

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm rather tired of the dating scene so I am just looking for someone who wants to enjoy each others companies. Let other things come later. I will admit I tend to like guys younger than me but I am open for any discusson. I think love can be found where you least expect it and often where you don't think of looking for it. I love the outdoors, the arts (particularly theatre), swimming, traveling, big cities, the ocean, watching football, soccer and hockey (not necessarily in that order.)Many other things and am always willing to try new things.I'm looking for someone to date and possibly have more develop. I will admit I keep pretty busy due to my type of work not always being nine to five so it gives me a great understanding of not being "needy" or having to "be next to the person" ***. My unltimate hope professionally is to run my own theatre or arts education facility. I have a great love for education and passing it on to others.I'm not always like other people you will meet. I tend to say what is on my mind (not to hurt) but if I think it, it often comes out. I'm very focused on what I want but can I have fun. And I make a mean batch of "rummy bears". Ask any gathering. I'm funny and I really don't take life to serious. Professionally I'm serious but when it comes to hanging out with people I like to joke, don't have a desire to be the center of attention which is funny since I perform and direct productions. I like to sit back more and observe people. I think the best thing ever said about me by someone is "you don't think outside the box, you live outside it".Basically I believe if you love life and treat everyone with the respect they deserve you have a better chance of finding happiness or at least making some great friends. How about dinner or lunch. Not a fan of movies for first date since we shouldn't be talking during the movie. Dinner gives us a chance to chat, find out similar interests, maybe laugh about things a little. Then after dinner do something active/interactive (no not that!), a walk on the beach, an amusement park, or a sporting event. Something or place where we can get to know each other but it is relaxing and getting to know each other isn't just the main focus. Lets hang and more will develop.

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