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Lamar, 41

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About Me

Hey,Thanks for stopping by! Dating is supposed to be fun isn't it? I think that's a great place to start, meet someone and share some laughs.I thought I was on here for the same reason as most until I started reading some profiles. I'm not going to send you a picture of my privates, and I won't post any shirtless pics. I personally think you need to be within a certain radius of water to take a shirt off; but that's me I guess. Like most, I keep busy and tend to run the same schedule and you tend to meet the same people. I’m an elementary school teacher, which is a job that I love, but does not encompass who I am. I have a big life outside the school. I like volleyball and I play in a volleyball league. I'm an avid golfer, but find the sport very humbling. One of the hardest sports I've played. I’m outgoing and can fit in with many different types of groups of people. I love live music, playing it, seeing it, just being around it.Let's talk and see if we're a match. I'm sure you're more than a paragraph too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sebastian

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    I'm not here to bs anybody nor play games. I think most women have a preconceived notion about men on dating sites and probably deservedly so. But we aren't all like that. I don't lie, as in I have made telling the truth my religion, it's the only way to live (and I will be the first to admit, telling the truth is one lesson I've learned the hard way but I've finally learned it nonetheless), I don't judge, I'm considerate and treat people with respect. If you've already decided I'm full of it and just trying to get in your pants than keep moving. If however that's not you and you are also looking for a relationship (or at least an adventure) if you are honest, if your friends would call you sincere, kind and considerate, if you love to laugh and are interested in the world around you than please continue reading. I'm hard working, I have goals and I strive always to be a gentleman by making it a philosophy and a way if life. I am looking for love ultimately but firmly believe you can't and shouldn't try to make it happen. In the mean time I'm up for dating, anything fun really. More about me...I'm going to school in the spring to finally finish a bachelors degree. I work as a driver and am learning cabinetry/finish carpentry. I hope to become a specialty contractor and start an interior design and construction company. In other words yes I'm rebuilding myself at 45. And no I don't make alot of money. Have screwed my finances terribly but getting it together now. And while I'm on the subject of my screw ups let's just get it all out there...I've changed colleges twice (not counting various community colleges along the way), and majors 3 times and still haven't graduated. I've been in more than new accident, including one during my a driving test! I've tried nearly every drug out there. Fortunately none of them took and now I just do caffeine, and a little alcohol, ien a few beers some weekends or wine with dinner. Oh and I almost forgot the DUI in ***, followed by another arrest for driving on a suspended license (because of the DUI) then another ticket for being on a metro station platform without a ticket. Didn't finish taking care of all three if those tickets so wound up in jail for a week. But thcbiggest screw up of all has just been the chronic lying. However a decision a year ago to come completely clean and make honesty my new religion has led me to doing things like posting this ridiculously detailed description of myself on a public profile. Moving on, for the record I'm not a hobo, don't do drugs. I rent a room but at least drive a decent car. I don't smoke (anymore) and am trying to take better care of myself. I think I look pretty good so I put "average" for body type but I need to lose about 20 pounds. I'm 5'8", 180. I have one daughter and spend as much time with her as I can so don't have alot of free time. But when possible I like fly fishing when I get the chance, going out for breakfast and I enjoy a few drinks now and then or just good coffee and conversation. Also like movies, playing poker or any old board game with friends (although most of my friends have moved away damnit). Anything to do with art, architecture or music is good. I love museums, downtown, the beach or visitinginteresting buildings and structures. Oh and can't forget the Lakers and Dodgers! If you actually read all of this you may be as nuts as me so please feel free to write. ";; ahh to be as smoov as J.T.

  • Harvey

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    Well where to start? First off I'm just a simple country boy with a rock n roll attitude. I am an avid outdoorsman I like everything from the woods to the beach.;Go Dawgs" but I really enjoy attending racing events. I like to spend weekends at the beach or river in the spring and summer. Hunting in the woods in the fall. Nothing better than sitting by the firepit with good friends and some cold beverages on a Saturday night. I'm looking for the 1 person who complements me and pushes me to be the best I can be. I'm not into games I'm a tell it like it is guy and I want the same out of my significant other. I'm to the point in my life where I'm looking long term and I only want someone who wants me for me. I'm an open book so if you have questions just ask. I hope I have sparked someone's intrest so let's get to know each other. Well being in a coastal area I think a first date should always include the beach and a restaurant that takes forever to serve you that gives us more time to talk and get to know each other. Lol. But a casual dinner and maybe a walk around the historic district is always good to.

  • Fredric

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Hi, I have long believed that if I get out and do numerous things that I WILL run into the right woman. This has worked but, as life sometimes goes my search continues. So can a successful, down to earth, family first, energetic, fun guy find chemistry on line? I am well traveled and still have much more of the world to see. When I travel I feel that I am that photographer that finds the soul of my subject, which combined with my deep desire to journal has a way of making these travels last beyond the moment and the journey. Needless to say I am a very passionate person and apply that to all that I do.From distant locations or just locally, I love the essence of food and I am usually never afraid to try something new, at least in a culinary aspect. Working out and staying in shape is really important to me and I look for someone that shares the same characteristic. I am a huge believer that we should compliment each other as well as enlighten each other with our individuality. So as much as I enjoy getting out I also enjoy staying at home; hanging by a warm fire with a good glass of wine and a mix of music in the background is absolutely soothing. When it comes down to it, I'm that Midwestern guy with family and friends being very important.I enjoy seasonal sports such as hiking, bicycling, volleyball, softball, skiing (water and snow), snow shoeing, desert ATV riding, my Harley and the great outdoors. Essentially, I prefer playing sports over watching them. BTW: Dragon Slayer - A knight's long quest and battle looking for his princess Please don't be offended if you message me and I don't respond, it is obviously nothing personal. Most of us can't get back to every *** do wish every single person here the best of luck in their search! : ) In that quest for Chemistry our 1st date should be simple. It should give us the opportunity to have fun and get to know things about each other that you only get with eye to eye contact. Sorry but, no movies ladies! lol

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