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Ben, 41

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About Me

We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems- the ones that make you truly who you are- that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person; the right wrong person- someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in love. Meet for drinks or a smoothie if you are a non-drinker. Maybe dinner at a place neither of us have ever been before. Create a new memory.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I am a happy, healthy, successful man. I am the type of guy, that can have fun anywhere, doing anything. I keep busy with with my children. I enjoy time with family and friends that I am very close with. I am happy in my career, and have been very successful in it. I enjoy celebrating the holidays. I am hoping to meet a woman who wants a once in a life time relationship filled with joy, laughter and love. Here's hoping I find her here..Thanks for reading. Meeting for coffee or someplace to be able to talk and get to know each other. And if there is chemistry talk about the 2nd date.

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