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Ben, 41

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About Me

We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems- the ones that make you truly who you are- that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person; the right wrong person- someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.Let our scars fall in love. Meet for drinks or a smoothie if you are a non-drinker. Maybe dinner at a place neither of us have ever been before. Create a new memory.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Garrett

    Online

    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Hello!! I am looking for a Long term relationship but doesnt mean im ready to get married tomorrow. I would like to meet the right person spend some quality time together and see what happens. I love my career and very driven by my goals. I work to live not live to work. If you can understand this and have balance in your life then keep reading if not good luck!! I understand what it is like to be a single parent and love for children. I have three daughters that now live in another state. My time with them is important again balance. I enjoy weekend get aways so if you are a single parent and no way of getting away for a weekend please pass through. I get it... Please understand im not trying to be rude I just know its important to be a parent but also important to get away every so often. So If and when things work out and the time comes when we both decide to introduce the children into the relationship makes things that much more enjoyable. I think it is really bad practice to get children involved in a new relationship until the time is right(sooo confusing for the children). Conversation,communication,HONESTY and being able to express your feelings are very important. If you have issues expressing and communicating your feelings please pass through. Im not into the Bar scene though dont mind watching a *** playing a game of pool once in a while. I like to experience different cultures of food but also a great cook.The perfect woman for me:1. Do you have a beautiful smile? LAUGHTER***THIS IS A MUST if you cant laugh how can you live? 2. Affectionate3. Non judgmental4. Has A Job5. Understands how important communication is to a relationship6. Responsible7. Attractive with or without make up!8. A responsible parent9. Spontaneous 10. Thoughtful to your partner ps... If your pics are not recent please move on..... also if we have never met in person and you ask me to pick you up at your house for our first meeting.....get comfortable im not coming....OMG what a bad un safe practice for a woman.......BTW...If you are intersted please just send me an *** hitting the meet me key...Thanks...#2 If all your pics are close up boob shots and complaining in your profile your tired of the rude *** photo suggestions...HELLO!!!!! Doesnt say much for your self esteem or your values...good luck!!!!! First dates are sometimes tough. I like to meet for coffee ....I know some say attraction doesnt matter but lets be honest...IT DOES ...If we click we can make other plans if not...nice to meet you!!!!

  • Odell

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    hmm... i'm real, laid back, and down to earth... objective and practical... like having fun and/or the interesting...mature although young at heart... open minded, playful, sensual, thoughtful, passionate, intellegent, sincere, witty, loveable, and handy... Like going out to eat and/or to just do something, the simple things...also i'm happy being at home, or with nothing to do... I'd like to find a cool woman to spend time with, if it turns into something more eventually then all the better... relax...have fun...get to know each other...

  • Faustino

    Online

    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    I'm a stand-up philosopher. If you get that, then we'll probably click. I try not to miss an opportunity to laugh.I can't say I'm looking for anything in particular other than seeing who's out there and if they want to share a journey. Its one that begins with a first step. I like mine to start with conversation.As for everything else....my story is a book. Open up and read. You've already looked at the pictures! I'm making this up as I go along. I like to be spontaneous...

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