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Esther, 44

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About Me

hi, looking for a great guy, whom doesnt smoke! i am and will not write all that hooky sh*tyou guys all read, like long walks on the beach, ect..i like all sorts of music, except country....... i dont like negativity, or judgement, on anything, i am into great converstion about all things, but politics and religion!! we all have our own beliefs, and that is super..i dont believe in guns or violence.. i am a geeky artsy , hippie, :0)what else ask, if i have already met you or gone out with you ,,,,i dont need any ***, or tries again.we either didnt have chemistry or you werent for me, or me for you...respect that...i doi am wanting someone, who wants to travel. st kitts, next feb.poconos in sept... and has a way to do this and vacation time.i want someone kind , caring, funny, silly , loves music, maybe even can sing. ren faire... and more,just ask. at my age i am not settling.... neither should u, at our age this dating game is super, hard. to find all the qualities we want, there is compromise, and willingness to love and learn from a friend lover and gentlemen.alrighty...i get alot of *** if i have m\de first contact and u give me a one line answer znd ask nothing or there is no convo...then i will take that as u r not interested.....if u make contct and write just hi....that wont get rsponse either..ask some queztions, if im not interested, i will tell u. again, i have no time with work. lfe and friends i have better things to do then sit on meetville....also, coffee dates suck. has anyone haD a good one ever?? then where do u go and do?? plan some thing cool and unusal......and ,music ect....comedy too....ttyl ya all..loli do expect, the car door opened, i like that....flowers too, all woman do, grab the take out, hold the door, basic things your momma should have *** you....romance is awesome, and its been for forever ....wowowowowowo..i am yap-ping, hope to hear from you soon, i am hoping to find you..... i would love to go somewhere quiet and cozy..music, out side some where while its still nice

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kara

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm an easy going, laid back kinda girl. I'm also, sweet and kind hearted. I'm not into drama. I don't put up with B/S. I am who I am nothing more, nothing less. Take me for who I am or don't take me at all. I love to laugh and make others laugh as well. There are day's when I'm silly and goofy and just get high on life.... If you share these qualities then feel free to drop a line...... Let's meet if we connect then we can decide together our first date....

  • Allyson

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a very happy and positive country girl! I work hard and play harder!!! I have kids and they will always come first in my life!! I want to add a special guy to my already good life! Laughing and good sense of humor are very important....make me giggle and I will follow you anywhere!! Lets get to know eachother and than go from there!!! Some where in public where we can get to know eachother...something very fun please!!

  • Kristi

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So if I told you I was sexy as hell would it make a difference? If I said I do what I say and say what I do, would you believe it? If I was honest enough to tell you I am a small BBW would you want to see how truthful I am being?Many guys are saying " Hey where are all the good women?" Or hey why is it so hard to find someone who is real or honest or does what they say they will.Maybe, just maybe......... it is because so many are seeking someone who can first fulfil your "fantasies" *** someone real that you can DO things with. Sex isn't wrong and it's fun as hell! but it also isn't the "meat and potatos" of life either. Eventually our bodies will begin to fail, and if you can't talk to your mate, or they are not your best friend, then really.. what do you have left? And how much time can you really spend in bed? The majority of our life is not spent there. Just saying.... I find pleasure in some of the small things in life. Swimming in the River beside a camp ground. Walking hand and hand by the ocean feeling the cool sand between our toes as we watch a lovely sunset. Laying in the sun and taking turns rubbing warm oils into eachothers skin. Slow dancing to sensual music at an outdoor festival. Curling up infront of a wam fire and chatting while enjoying our favorite beverage. Sharing the "pains of the day" and help eachother decompress. Sharing an awesome rollar coaster ride and laughing as we come off from it breathless...only to see the silly pictures they *** we started down the steep drop. LOL Feeding eachother morsels off from our plates when we are out to dinner and we have an excellent meal we want the other to taste....... Simple things...memorable things.... After all, that is what this life is all about, making memories to carry with us. So I can honestly say ALL of that is truthful and open and honest. Right down to being a very small bbw. Still reading? As you can see I am VERY VERY direct. I write as if I am sitting accross from you having coffee or a drink. ( So if a direct mannor is going to constantly be mistaken for mean, angry, or ****y? This could be problematic. I am none of those, I am simply DIRECT.) Side NOTE: If you are married or have a girl friend, pass me by. I don't like to hurt others, I am not into causing problems, and I don't need drama in my life. Although some of it eventually finds us all, I try to avoid drama if I can help it. I am looking for harmony, peace, delightful adventure, fun and games (that pleasure both people), new experiences, and quality in all things over quantity.I am mainly seeking friendship. I believe you can't have anything if you don't have the friendship first.I tend to like men who are younger then I am. However it depends on the man. I don't really have a certain TYPE of man.Life is too short not to LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH and PLAY! Want to come and play wiff me??Or a bowl of popcorn at home watching Sci Fi or Animal Planet or the latest action, horror, or scifi movie!Light hikingGo to the drive in (and actually WATCH the movie)maybe camping (I haven't done a LOT of this)zip lining!NEW Places and culturesAir HockeyAnd I LOVE to travel!I am up to try most anything. Twice if I liked it!Life is all about experiences and creating memories. It isn't a dress rehersal, "so Let's get it started!"Me: affection, respect, and yeah I do dare to say it "honesty"! Lot's of WARMTH and FUN! (and oh so VERY direct)Looking for the same in another. (If you can dance and or give a real massage (or truly want to learn) please at least drop me a note. I am employed full time, and would welcome platonic friends who just want to hang out sometimes.I want to TAKE IT SLOW. THIS means NOT jumping into ANYTHING. If you are seeking something VERY short term ..as in all you want is to *** *** Please just keep rolling on by. I am not looking for anything short term unless we don't get along... then it can be VERY short and I am good with that! :) (soft smile) I wish you the best in your search regardless of whether or not you decide to write to me. I DO try to return e-mails promptly although at times I am not online much. Something that would be comfortable for both people but allow us to interact and enjoy ourselves. A game of pool and a drink? Lunch or simply a cup of coffee. A long walk if it is warm enough. Sit on the Waterfront in a swing and chat? So many possibilities.

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