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Melisa, 45
United States, Florida, North Port

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About Me

Do you like women who are smart? Sexy? Sensitive? Sassy? Sensual? Then look no further!I have exploratory taste buds and absolutely love a decadent dessert. If you are a coffee drinker, love red wine, dark chocolate and seafood - we are off to a great start :) Basically, I work out just so I can eat. I need someone who savors good food.I am at my happiest when I am learning new things, exploring new places, meeting new people.I am very feminine and am most attracted to a metro sexual guy. I would describe my sense of style as classic yet sexy. Oh, and if you have hair I can run my fingers through - bonus!My two favorite activities are volleyball and inline skating. I also enjoy mountain biking, hiking, traveling, dancing, bowling (yes, bowling) and even people watching. Care to introduce me to some other activities? Some other things I like are: amusement parks, showing the boys on the volleyball court that you don't have to be tall to spike the ball, kissing (it's a lost art), the smell in the air right before it snows, a summer rainstorm, finding a good parking spot in the city, finishing a project, planting a garden, playing in the snow, spooning, consignment shops and flea markets, wine tasting, reading, the theater, live music (I love to dance) and costume parties (Halloween is great!). I'm looking forward to sharing my life with a man who will not only allow me to engage in my favorite activities but challenge me to join in his or want to try some of mine. I crave intellectual stimulation-great conversation is the prelude to so many other things - that and a great kiss. Commonalities should include affection, romance, respect, commitment, need for independence but the desire to spend as much time as possible together, love of food and a great cup of coffee and putting each other first - before anyone else.You should know I love animals, especially cats (please don't be allergic).Sometimes it is good to be single. But mostly I feel like there is a part of my life that is not complete. I have great friends, good health, a flexible job, a nice house, great cats and I can do pretty much whatever I want. But I would like a great guy to make memories with, share experiences with, learn from and grow old with. I refuse to settle and I am prepared to search endlessly to find that perfect man for me. When I am in a healthy committed relationship I am romantic, communicative, compromising when necessary, passionate, patient when I need to be, selfless when I am not taken for granted or being taken advantage of and always up for trying something new.Please be 5"10" or taller, be a non-smoker and have no children. I'm 5'4", ***lbs so I don't think my expectations are unrealistic when I expect to only date men in great physical shape. Distance is not an issue. If you'd like a response from me your profile must have clear, recent photos where I can actually see what you look like (wearing a baseball cap and/or sunglasses - you might as well be wearing a mask) oh and please no photos of you taking photos of yourself. Please have a valid passport- I need a man who can travel anywhere in the world - sometimes at the spur of the moment.If your profile is basically bare - please don't write me. I took the time to write enough about myself to paint you a picture of who I am and what I am looking for - please do the same. Something that allows us to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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