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Melisa, 45

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About Me

Do you like women who are smart? Sexy? Sensitive? Sassy? Sensual? Then look no further!I have exploratory taste buds and absolutely love a decadent dessert. If you are a coffee drinker, love red wine, dark chocolate and seafood - we are off to a great start :) Basically, I work out just so I can eat. I need someone who savors good food.I am at my happiest when I am learning new things, exploring new places, meeting new people.I am very feminine and am most attracted to a metro sexual guy. I would describe my sense of style as classic yet sexy. Oh, and if you have hair I can run my fingers through - bonus!My two favorite activities are volleyball and inline skating. I also enjoy mountain biking, hiking, traveling, dancing, bowling (yes, bowling) and even people watching. Care to introduce me to some other activities? Some other things I like are: amusement parks, showing the boys on the volleyball court that you don't have to be tall to spike the ball, kissing (it's a lost art), the smell in the air right before it snows, a summer rainstorm, finding a good parking spot in the city, finishing a project, planting a garden, playing in the snow, spooning, consignment shops and flea markets, wine tasting, reading, the theater, live music (I love to dance) and costume parties (Halloween is great!). I'm looking forward to sharing my life with a man who will not only allow me to engage in my favorite activities but challenge me to join in his or want to try some of mine. I crave intellectual stimulation-great conversation is the prelude to so many other things - that and a great kiss. Commonalities should include affection, romance, respect, commitment, need for independence but the desire to spend as much time as possible together, love of food and a great cup of coffee and putting each other first - before anyone else.You should know I love animals, especially cats (please don't be allergic).Sometimes it is good to be single. But mostly I feel like there is a part of my life that is not complete. I have great friends, good health, a flexible job, a nice house, great cats and I can do pretty much whatever I want. But I would like a great guy to make memories with, share experiences with, learn from and grow old with. I refuse to settle and I am prepared to search endlessly to find that perfect man for me. When I am in a healthy committed relationship I am romantic, communicative, compromising when necessary, passionate, patient when I need to be, selfless when I am not taken for granted or being taken advantage of and always up for trying something new.Please be 5"10" or taller, be a non-smoker and have no children. I'm 5'4", ***lbs so I don't think my expectations are unrealistic when I expect to only date men in great physical shape. Distance is not an issue. If you'd like a response from me your profile must have clear, recent photos where I can actually see what you look like (wearing a baseball cap and/or sunglasses - you might as well be wearing a mask) oh and please no photos of you taking photos of yourself. Please have a valid passport- I need a man who can travel anywhere in the world - sometimes at the spur of the moment.If your profile is basically bare - please don't write me. I took the time to write enough about myself to paint you a picture of who I am and what I am looking for - please do the same. Something that allows us to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sara

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I would describle myself as a very happy go lucky fun loving girl. Work hard, play hard. Love to enjoy life. Love to shop, travel, go out to dinner. Cook a little bit, but worship a man who can cook. Looking for someone who shares my love for horses, and animals in general :), and is pretty athletic, and active. I enjoy witty conversation a good sense of humor goes over very well with me, but a sensitive romantic side as well. Prefer a tall man 5"10 or taller. I like a man who is driven as well. Age is not everything but maturity is. Love good music, blues, country, alternative rock, top 40 pretty versatile. Did I mention I love to laugh :) I like a man that is confident, and not afraid to be the man, but respectful of my independence as well. Look forward to sharing good times with a special person. Look forward to hearing from you! Surprise me!!!

  • Bridget

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a no bull ,sarcastic and funny kind of girl.I am very busy, but I am really ready to find that special person. I like to go out, I sing , and am a lot of fun to be around. I am not hung up on a past relationship and those that are, just please look the other way. If you have a picture of your car, your pets, tattoos, a camel, your house , but a pic that you need a magnifying glass for, don't bother... This is a dating site, not a classified add.. Really.. I don't care if you live in a mansion, and drive a BMW, If that's your pic, your probably a pompous ass, and compensating for something, or beat up in the school bathroom as a k.id.. Just saying.. I apologize if I don't answer you 1,***messages.. I must have missed the first 10.. I'm not interested, and it is what it is.. I'm here to meet someone I want to date.. Not everyone is attracted to everyone....If you are going through custody battles etc. I understand it's tough, but no place to start a relationship. I just can't do the drama,my kids are grown and 3 teenagers as a single mom was enough stress for a lifetime. I DO NOT DATE OUTSIDE OF MY RACE. I had to express this in bold letters because some cannot read and only can look at pictures. I am sorry to be so bold, but there just isn't any attraction for me there. friends yes, lover ...Not so much...I am not a girly girl and love all kinds of of sports, but look cute doing it. I have a good job, 3 adult children, and 2 dogs 2 cats. I looove animals so snuggling with puppers is my favorite thing to do.. I am very involved with animal rescue.. P,D. has me on speed dial in several counties.. It doesn't stop with pups, I rescue everything..I was in an almost 10 yr relationship and we just grew apart there was no fighting etc. It was mutual.....I am ready to find my best friend and fall in love. There is no better feeling in the world. I am not clingy by any means,I am very active in the community, and have a large group of amazing friends, but do like to spend what little time i have off with that special someone, and hear their voice before they go to bed at night If you are Just Separated From Ur wife, and Still Want To Hang Out, Your Not Ready..I sound like a demanding ****, i am a very loving sensitive girl who has been through a lot and just wants a healthy relationship with her best friend. Some guys think that if they forget to mention certain things, that it'll be OK later. I'm just being honest. I'm 40 not 22. No little girl here. I can stand on my own 2 feet. If u lie once, my trust is gone. That's it.I am not on here for the guys who think they are going to get some. It's not happening.There's no amount of alcohol in this universe so forget it so look somewhere else. If we are talking for a few weeks, and you still haven't asked me out for at-least a cup of coffee,.... Your loss... I have enough friends, grow a set... I usually don't bite.. anything else well just askI will not respond or even read a message without a pic. sorry, just is what it is. it's not all about physical attraction, but we are online and well obviously it is a good start. Coffee.

  • Jillian

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking for my perfect match! That was my initial line a few weeks ago until someone played me really good. So with that said I will tell it like it is and willing to try this site again. If your here visiting my profile and are not wanting to be honest from the beginning and want to base it on lies.... MOVE ON I'm not interested in playing games. Tired of that!!! I'm dedicated and loyal and give it my all. Like previously mentioned honesty is a must for me. Don't tell me what you think most women are wanting to hear. If you say it mean it. I'm a smart cookie, will figure it out sooner or later and will call you out on it!I'm usually easy going and love to laugh and look for the same in my man. I'm very adventurous and love to try most things once! I'm looking for my best friend who also wants to jump out of a plane with me, doesn't mind getting a tattoo together or at least stand by when I do. But I also enjoy the very simple things life also has to offer, such as picking strawberries and then going home and making jam together. I love being silly and am very often, and hope my man can just look at me and say "that's my girl". I'm normally the first to say yes when a friend calls for help and I'm an excellent listener.... but can also chat your ear off too! I want him to ask me about my day and care. Family is important to me, so is communication, trust and passion. I'm a very touchy and love to cuddle... lots. I'm not looking for a sex partner and want to base my relationship on that. But I do promise you this, when the time comes it will be beautiful, passionate and you will not regret waiting and if your wondering yes I do love it! I can be very shy until we get to know each other better, as my guard is up very high. I hate fighting and drama, so please leave it at the door or don't bother messaging. But I do believe in giving and getting answers if something is wrong and to the point. I'm a genuine girl who takes care of herself and is looking for her perfect match and build an amazing life together. I Love to travel short and far distances. I'm very spontaneous with last minute weekend trips and love to surprise my man. So be ready for that. I'm not afraid of hard work and getting my hands dirty. I choose to have a man, I don't need one. If you can respect that, send me a message :) Yes I can be a little intimidating at times as I can be a little direct and I'm very independent, but once you've won my heart I'm the most loyal and loving person you will ever meet. I would love someone who can take the reigns make me feel safe and take care of me as I will do the same in return. P.S. Please note my age.... and NO I do not want anymore children. I do have one boy who is my life. He is part of the deal or don't bother. If you do have children of your own, I welcome them. :) I also have a few tattoo's and might get a few more, they are all very beautiful and discreet. I don't like smokers so would prefer someone who doesn't. Drinking socially I'm in but if you're a heavy drinker don't even bother.I have more pics available! :) Being opened to anything, and spending time together so we can get to know each other a little better.On our second date.... maybe we can jump out of a plane or get our first tattoo together! :) lol

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