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Lena, 41
United States, Florida, North Port

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The simplest way to describe myself is to say I am a little of everything wrapped into one. My versatility allows me to shine in most situations. I love being adventurous, and thrive on new and novel experiences. I am independent, passionate, caring, open, directed and innovative. I tend to seek the road less traveled and play outside the boundaries of the typical.I love traveling, the arts, exercising, the outdoors, intellectual banter,****ails and fine wine, phenomenal food, and the company of those that I respect. I love my friends and family! We have fun, sometimes too much. But best of all we love to laugh and enjoy our time together.Like many women, I enjoy a true gentleman...the chivalrous type who opens your door and pulls out the chair...but nothing is more attractive to me than a smart, sexy, articulate, confident man with an edge who is brave enough to always choose honesty and integrity.I enjoy being in the company of those who exudes genuine warmth. People with depth. Anyone who can enjoy the good life and still be a good person. Nature lovers. Animal lovers. And those who can teach me something new. I love being around people who create the opportunities they seek. I am looking for someone who doesnt always believe in playing it safe by todays standards, *** on the excitement of calculated risk managed by logic and reason. Someone who tends towards optimism tempered with a healthy dose of realism.I admire and respect people who are strong enough to be honest (because it sucks sometimes). I am deeply attracted to a man who possesses a high level of personal integrity and strong character. And a man who doesnt spend all his free time trying to get laid. See, I've found an emotional connection should probably precede physical intimacy for the best results in both areas. Don't you agree?I’m a real sweet girl with a big heart. I have always been an overly giving person without the expectation of anything in return. I see the good in people. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance, yet I am not naive or easily influenced. I was raised with great morals and treat everyone as I would want to be treated. I am by no means *** anyone for their religion, race or gender preference. I believe we all contribute a distinct piece of something that makes the world what it is today.I am a classy girl, however, I still like to have fun with whatever is thrown at me. I think that I can pretty much adapt to any social setting and find myself to be very diverse and cultured. I am an equal mix of a tom boy and vixen! As far as my perfect match, well I don't think there is such thing. I do know that when I meet someone that I feel comfortable with that anything is possible! I tend to be a realist when it comes to dating. I see it as 2 people, being in the right place at the right time, and wanting the same things as you. I think people spend too much time trying to change someone or something rather than taking it slow to see if it’s right in the first place! It seems that many people are together for the wrong reasons, and what they don’t realize is that love alone does NOT make a relationship work. Being a family girl—my family is #1 in my life. I also find it appealing and alluring to be with someone who is the same. I see myself with someone who is whole heartedly a good person. I want him to be mature and experienced in a sense that he knows who he is and will stand up for what he believes; someone who will be my supporter, my best friend, and my lover. I want him to ‘get me’ and understand my quirks. I see myself learning from him because I’m always eager to be taught new things. I want to learn from him and gain knowledge on things that excites HIM rather than being the girlfriend who could care less about his interests.Ask yourself. Can I give more? Mans choice... make a decision, let me know and I'll be there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Family & Kids Mystery Dirt Bike Racing
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  • Melisa from North Port | Woman | 45 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Do you like women who are smart? Sexy? Sensitive? Sassy? Sensual? Then look no further!I have exploratory taste buds and absolutely love a decadent dessert. If you are a coffee drinker, love red wine, dark chocolate and seafood - we are off to a great start :) Basically, I work out just so I can eat. I need someone who savors good food.I am at my happiest when I am learning new things, exploring new places, meeting new people.I am very feminine and am most attracted to a metro sexual guy. I would describe my sense of style as classic yet sexy. Oh, and if you have hair I can run my fingers through - bonus!My two favorite activities are volleyball and inline skating. I also enjoy mountain biking, hiking, traveling, dancing, bowling (yes, bowling) and even people watching. Care to introduce me to some other activities? Some other things I like are: amusement parks, showing the boys on the volleyball court that you don't have to be tall to spike the ball, kissing (it's a lost art), the smell in the air right before it snows, a summer rainstorm, finding a good parking spot in the city, finishing a project, planting a garden, playing in the snow, spooning, consignment shops and flea markets, wine tasting, reading, the theater, live music (I love to dance) and costume parties (Halloween is great!). I'm looking forward to sharing my life with a man who will not only allow me to engage in my favorite activities but challenge me to join in his or want to try some of mine. I crave intellectual stimulation-great conversation is the prelude to so many other things - that and a great kiss. Commonalities should include affection, romance, respect, commitment, need for independence but the desire to spend as much time as possible together, love of food and a great cup of coffee and putting each other first - before anyone else.You should know I love animals, especially cats (please don't be allergic).Sometimes it is good to be single. But mostly I feel like there is a part of my life that is not complete. I have great friends, good health, a flexible job, a nice house, great cats and I can do pretty much whatever I want. But I would like a great guy to make memories with, share experiences with, learn from and grow old with. I refuse to settle and I am prepared to search endlessly to find that perfect man for me. When I am in a healthy committed relationship I am romantic, communicative, compromising when necessary, passionate, patient when I need to be, selfless when I am not taken for granted or being taken advantage of and always up for trying something new.Please be 5"10" or taller, be a non-smoker and have no children. I'm 5'4", ***lbs so I don't think my expectations are unrealistic when I expect to only date men in great physical shape. Distance is not an issue. If you'd like a response from me your profile must have clear, recent photos where I can actually see what you look like (wearing a baseball cap and/or sunglasses - you might as well be wearing a mask) oh and please no photos of you taking photos of yourself. Please have a valid passport- I need a man who can travel anywhere in the world - sometimes at the spur of the moment.If your profile is basically bare - please don't write me. I took the time to write enough about myself to paint you a picture of who I am and what I am looking for - please do the same. Something that allows us to get to know each other.

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  • Wendy from North Port | Woman | 43 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I like to listen to music, talk,and do out of the box things. I feel life is to short to always live inside it. Yet, I do feel grounded in certain things such as family, career and friends. Though the juggle of life can make things crazy for many of us, I always lend a bended ear. I try and help people where I can. As I have matured I realized that not everyone is as true to others. That never discourages me, what I do for others comes from my heart and I am rewarded for that within. I do not need a parade or medal or huge recognition for my actions. I am working as a Hairstylist Booth Renter currently. I have had that artsy career for over 23 years. I am currently working on my Master's in Elementary Education. I work as a substitute teacher as well. I set my mind on things and I achieve them (it might take a little longer than planned, but perseverance is key). One of my most famous sayings is, "Positivity is key". I feel it is. I like 90's music, dance music, soul, R&B, top 40's; not to say I won't be caught listening to Delilah. My first date would be nice if it started at a nice restaurant with a quite setting. There my date and I could really talk eye to eye. Then from dinner we could go to a local high school basketball game or arena game. After the game my date and I could go to a bar and play pool or darts (i am competitively fun) and share a few drinks.

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  • Sheryl from North Port | Woman | 44 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I only work about half of the month, but my schedule is really weird. Which makes it difficult to find someone the typical way.I've been on here before, and unfortunately things just didn't work out. So...thought I'd give it one last effort. I hate the thought of spending my life alone.I'm a hopeless romantic. I don't find myself happy over materialistic things, but rather the small things. I lie to find love notes all over the house, and be genuinely be told I look pretty. I work hard for everything I have, and have earned it honestly. I'm not ooking for a father for my son, or someone to pay my bills. I have a good enough job, and strong enough back bone - that I do both on my own. :) I want someone to accept and understand myself and my little man. Someone who understands I can't be perfect all the time, but will give it all I've got. Yes, I get grouchy when I'm tired after working a long day. Yes I cry when you hurt my feelings...and yes I get mad as hell when you lie or mess with my kids.If you'd like to know anything else...just askIf you're looking for a fly by night quickie or friend with benefits - I'm definitely not what you are looking for. Please know what you want. I want someone to spend time with and develop a relationship. Don't fall in love then change your mind please :( something casual. I'm just a simple country girl....I don't need lavish things to find out if I'm interested.

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