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Melba, 45
United States, Florida, North Port

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About Me

Hello. Looking for someone to enjoy and share life with. I want to be happy, feel loved in a relationship and reciprocate the same. Looking to start out as friends and see where things lead. I'm on this site because I am ready to be in a relationship with that right person if we hit it off. You, should be open to the possiblity that a connection may lead to romance. When I put on my profile that I am "few extra pounds" it's because I am. I am a curvy, or thick, or whatever they call it these days body type. I feel I wear it well as reflected in my pics. If this is not your type, thats cool. I'm comfortable with who I am. Moving on...To keep things realistic, I would like to meet people close enough to my area that if we hit it off there wouldn't be spontaneity issues to meet anytime, anyday. I'm not interested in a mainly texting/IM'ing/emailing, see you twice a month scenario. If you are not familiar with my area or have to cross several counties to get to me...well, HELLO...that's what I mean. Within half an hour is ideal. I have had a rewarding career as a corporate travel consultant for the last eighteen years. My favorite type of vacation is going on a cruise or staying at an all-inclusive beach resort somewhere in the Caribbean. I have two wonderful children who are my world....my family is important. I am independent, work hard, have a good sense of humor and personality. I am loving, enjoy laughing, being romantic, non-dramatic, love to cook, love to travel. Enjoy a great kiss & good conversation. I love to be happy and smile. Looking for someone real and who can bring positive qualities to the table.I enjoy going out every once in awhile but have no problem kicking back at home. I would like to go forward with someone with similar goals and interests. Is that you? If you want to learn more about me contact me and let's see what happens. :) Let's meet for a drink, chat and have fun....no pressure or "job interview" scenerios. Let's just see if we are compatible and have chemistry. If we don't, no hard feelings. I've been turned down too. If we do...a real first date perhaps? :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese German Drama Horror Thriller
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