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Estella, 43

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About Me

What a unique experience it has been for me so far. A conversation worth saving for a later time. The same characteristics that I find within myself. To me this reflects peace. If I could just bottle that moment up and give it as a gift, along with a hug, perhaps then I could begin to express how I feel about myself. Free of drama.Yes, I do believe in working hard for the things that matter most to me. I own a home with property near the lake. I consider myself as a caretaker of this piece of land and have taken time throughout the year to remove tree stumps or various debris left from previous owners. Being a caretaker is one of my outlets to show compassion. I truly enjoy all the interests I have listed above. I believe variety is the spice of life. There is so much to learn and so many avenues of exploration. Exploring is what I believe makes life entertaining. What really makes a new adventure fun for me is when I am around someone who shares their passion and expertise with me.I love to travel. I have been to 36 states in my life time. I have not had the opportunity yet to explore the southwest. I would like to take a nice long weekend once a month to go visit these areas.I envision myself with someone who has a like heart. Someone to have a conversation with over a glass of wine next to the fireplace, soft music in the background. Someone to hug and hold hands with. Someone who enjoys life: some old traditions mixed up with new adventures. The first date:We can talk it over and create it together. I am comfortable and relaxing to be around.We could go for a nice lunch or dinner, a place with ambiance (I envision a fire place in the background)I enjoy skiing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bridget

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a no bull ,sarcastic and funny kind of girl.I am very busy, but I am really ready to find that special person. I like to go out, I sing , and am a lot of fun to be around. I am not hung up on a past relationship and those that are, just please look the other way. If you have a picture of your car, your pets, tattoos, a camel, your house , but a pic that you need a magnifying glass for, don't bother... This is a dating site, not a classified add.. Really.. I don't care if you live in a mansion, and drive a BMW, If that's your pic, your probably a pompous ass, and compensating for something, or beat up in the school bathroom as a k.id.. Just saying.. I apologize if I don't answer you 1,***messages.. I must have missed the first 10.. I'm not interested, and it is what it is.. I'm here to meet someone I want to date.. Not everyone is attracted to everyone....If you are going through custody battles etc. I understand it's tough, but no place to start a relationship. I just can't do the drama,my kids are grown and 3 teenagers as a single mom was enough stress for a lifetime. I DO NOT DATE OUTSIDE OF MY RACE. I had to express this in bold letters because some cannot read and only can look at pictures. I am sorry to be so bold, but there just isn't any attraction for me there. friends yes, lover ...Not so much...I am not a girly girl and love all kinds of of sports, but look cute doing it. I have a good job, 3 adult children, and 2 dogs 2 cats. I looove animals so snuggling with puppers is my favorite thing to do.. I am very involved with animal rescue.. P,D. has me on speed dial in several counties.. It doesn't stop with pups, I rescue everything..I was in an almost 10 yr relationship and we just grew apart there was no fighting etc. It was mutual.....I am ready to find my best friend and fall in love. There is no better feeling in the world. I am not clingy by any means,I am very active in the community, and have a large group of amazing friends, but do like to spend what little time i have off with that special someone, and hear their voice before they go to bed at night If you are Just Separated From Ur wife, and Still Want To Hang Out, Your Not Ready..I sound like a demanding ****, i am a very loving sensitive girl who has been through a lot and just wants a healthy relationship with her best friend. Some guys think that if they forget to mention certain things, that it'll be OK later. I'm just being honest. I'm 40 not 22. No little girl here. I can stand on my own 2 feet. If u lie once, my trust is gone. That's it.I am not on here for the guys who think they are going to get some. It's not happening.There's no amount of alcohol in this universe so forget it so look somewhere else. If we are talking for a few weeks, and you still haven't asked me out for at-least a cup of coffee,.... Your loss... I have enough friends, grow a set... I usually don't bite.. anything else well just askI will not respond or even read a message without a pic. sorry, just is what it is. it's not all about physical attraction, but we are online and well obviously it is a good start. Coffee.

  • Norma

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am my own person and refuse to be like everyone else. I like to try new things and new experiences. I am very young at heart and am told I look better in person than in my pictures. I am a confident woman and am looking for a strong, confident man. I love to laugh, love life and am looking for someone with whom I can enjoy it. I generally do this from my phone so I can't chat on here but will be happy to text after a couple initial messages! I'd rather meet sooner than later. There is either chemistry or there isn't so let's find out. As for what and where... surprise me!!!

  • Harriett

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi, I am a fun loving, sincere individual. I do not judge people for their choices. It is my belief that we all do things for a reason. It isn't my place to judge, only to listen if someone wants to share their experiences with me. I enjoy socializing, going out to dinner, hiking, dancing, reading, vacationing and just spending time with family and friends. I have a 13 year old son who is the most important person in the world to me. I also have a shitzu who is very much a part of our family. My son and I love animals. This online thing is new to me. I guess it is worth a try. My idea of a pleasant first date would be to meet for a drink or two and just talk and get to know one another. Another idea would be to meet and go for a walk along the beach or somewhere with a nice view, where once again talking could be initiated.

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