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I was happy, but my husband passed away. Now, I am looking for happy ever after. The question is, will I find happy ever after?First, let me start off by stating plain and simple: I am not interested in serial dating nor in being your booty call. I am looking for a relationship!My desire is to find a well-balanced, healthy relationship with a down to earth man who enjoys both quiet evenings at home and being out and about doing things. I look for a relationship at this point in my life to be a place of friendship, passion, and companionship. A relationship balanced with mutual respect, warmth, loyalty and acceptance. About me:While I am fairly content being single after a long, fulfilling marriage, I still have a wistful longing for an intimate relationship. The relationship I am longing for is not merely a physical one but one where two people connect in every way.I am a female with expectations and will not be content to just "settle". I'm not a snob but my personal observation is my tendency to be picky when it comes to what I am looking for in a man. I believe love can be set in motion quickly, but true love needs time to grow into something strong and enduring. Above all, love is about commitment and dedication and a belief that spending years with a significant other can create something greater than the sum of what the two can accomplish separately. I long for a man who understands true intimacy is obtained only when both the physical and emotional aspects mesh. Physical attraction is important but ultimately it is the relationship shared in the other important moments in life that really count. Having a significant other to travel with me on the journey through the next portion of life would be terrific. I don't need a man in my life; I WANT a man in my life. I enjoy both traveling and hanging locally. Spring, summer, and autumn are preferred over a cold, dreary winter. Hiking in the woods or walking in the park, picking crabs or just relaxing on the patio are favorites. I am accustomed to and enjoy the finer things in life and I am looking for a partner who has and appreciates that same quality of life. I appreciate many music styles, am an independent thinker, and secure in who I am and what I want in life. I am proud of my two sons - grown and independent - and still think I'm a great mom. :)My favorite outdoor activities are hiking and walking. I will admit to not being much of a sports player but I enjoy football, baseball, and basketball as a spectator (live or on the big screen). Winter months you will find me cuddled up in a blanket reading a steamy romance novel. I enjoy watching movies, dining out, live music, getting away to the beach, traveling to new places, and a motorcycle ride. I recently took, and totally enjoyed, golf lessons. Never too old to learn and enjoy new activities!About you:You are comfortable and confident with yourself as an individual, but are also willing to share your life and let someone else in. You enjoy both simple things and the finer things in life, but also have a wild side and like to step outside the box now and then. You don’t require constant stimulation, but you do expect some stimulation to keep things interesting and exciting. You are intelligent, and able to carry on a meaningful conversation about current events. You are passionate and looking to find and share that spark with a partner. My ideal match is playful, handsome, passionate, physically fit, confident, witty, and financially secure. It would be great to meet a guy who can make me smile even when we are apart. I am looking for a man secure in who he is - both personally and professionally. "Integrity" will come to mind when those closest to him are asked to describe him. I am looking for a man who can act thoughtful and caring, bold and curious, soft and sexy. Is this you?? I think what we do is not as important as how and with whom we do them. I am flexible and open to new things. There is so much to learn and enjoy in life. I have yet to discover everything I like to do and it would be fun to make new discoveries together. A drink and conversation. Starbucks makes great Chai Tea Lattes.Happy hours are great, too. It's 5:00 somewhere - I'm up for a good margarita.Dinner and great conversation. I'm open to other suggestions as long as it is in a public venue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marquita

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy camping(cottaging), fishing. I could live in the country,as long as my partner was content.I'm looking for a fun loving spur of the moment type of man.Trust is #1,where we can discuss anything and feel comfortable.Traveling,wanting to experience new things together.I'm also game to exploring separate interests,if indifferent from mine

  • Beryl

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm an old fashioned girl that still believes that a man should open doors and pull out chairs. I am looking for a man who is a gentlemen with a great sense of humor, knows how to treat a lady, is comfortable in social settings but also knows how to have fun, feels just as comfortable dressing up for a professional suit and tie event as hanging out having hot dogs at a sporting event.I like plays, comedy clubs, wine tasting, the theatre, dancing and just sharing our day. I spent the first half of my life raising my children and building my career, my children are still an important part of my life but they are grown with lives of their own. Is time for some me time! I would enjoy having a partner to travel with, destination unknown.I am looking for a relationship that is a friendship and a partnership; is full of love, tenderness, kissing, hand holding and above all else is full of laughter at the world and ourselves. I like all types of music, (except rap - its not music anyway) I lean toward country and love to dance. I don't do drama and am usually in an upbeat mood. I am a good listener and would always be there to support my man. I like to cook but it is always more fun with a partner.I am looking for a man that wants and is ready to be in a relationship, if you only interested in dating multiple women or a sexual relationship only, please move on. I'm looking for the whole package. I feel that intimacy has to be a huge part of a successful relationship, however I also believe that in order for an intimate relationship to be at its best there has to be true feelings between two people. I am also active in my catholic church, I do not need my partner to have the same beliefs as I but I would need my partner to respect my beliefs. As I've said my children and grandchildren are an important part of my life, I would need my partner to embrace that and I would also hope that his family is as important to him and I would embrace that.When all the likes and dislikes are said I am really just looking for someone who I bring out the best in and that brings out the best in me. When he puts his hands in my hair, looks into my eyes and leans in for a kiss - all I can think of is his lips on mine. I'm looking for my best friend, partner and last love.P.S. I do not respond to "meet me's" if you are interested please drop me a line. I'm an old fashioned girl that still believes that a man should open doors and pull out chairs. I am looking for a man who is a gentleman with a great sense of humor, knows how to treat a lady, is comfortable in social settings but also knows how to have fun (a wild/crazy side!).I like plays, comedy clubs, concerts, wine tasting, dancing and just sharing our day. I spent the first half of my life raising my children and building my career, my children are still an important part of my life but they are grown with lives of their own. Is time for some me time! I would enjoy having a partner to travel with, destination unknown.I am looking for a relationship that is a friendship and a partnership; is full of love, tenderness, kissing, hand holding and above all else is full of laughter at the world and ourselves. I like all types of music, (except rap - it’s not music anyway) I lean toward country and love to dance. , I don't do drama and am usually in an upbeat mood. I am a good listener and would always be there to support my man. I like to cook but it is always more fun with a partner.I am looking for a man that wants and is ready to be in a relationship, if you only interested in dating multiple women or a sexual relationship only, please move on. I'm looking for the whole package. I feel that intimacy has to be a huge part of a successful relationship, however I also believe that in order for an intimate relationship to be at its best there has to be true feelings between two people. I am also active in my catholic church, I do not need my partner to have the same beliefs as I but I would need my partner to respect my beliefs. As I've said my children and grandchildren are an important part of my life, I would need my partner to embrace that and I would also hope that his family is as important to him and I would embrace that.When all the likes and dislikes are said I am really just looking for someone who I bring out the best in and that brings out the best in me. When he puts his hands in my hair, looks into my eyes and leans in for a kiss - all I can think of is his lips on mine. I'm looking for my best friend, partner and last love.

  • Paula

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    What is with all of you guy's and the pictures of you with fish???? I am looking for someone who is more of a gambler than a fisherman...;)A little bit about me...I am a workoholic and I need to find someone willing to distract me. My work is fun stuff...but it shouldn't be life. I don't do drama or lies. Honesty is so much easier to keep track of. So...if you are married...don't tell me you are separated. Being married OR separated I won't pursue either. If your age is not correct...be honest about it. It wasn't a mistake...it was a lie when you signed up. I am not quite sure why anyone needs to lie on their profile unless they set out to be a liar in the first place. And no....I am not a scorned woman by a man's lies. I just don't understand the reason behind telling one. I am conflicted by reason. I am actively looking for a relationship. Focused on it actually. That doesn't mean "put a ring on it". It means I am looking for someone who sticks around for the second or third event....and realizes they like hanging out with me as much as I enjoy being with them. If anything comes from the chemistry we can figure that out together. re·la·tion·shipri'laSH?n?SHip/nounnoun: relationship; plural noun: relationships 1. the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.I live life with a fun outlook. I live a young life style...so a couch potato might not have too much fun with me. I was recently told I am too wild. Still trying to figure that one out. LOL. Maybe you can help me?I am pretty positive in things (as long as that honesty thing is covered in the process). There is always a solution in my head for a problem.I have been told I am intimidating. That's another one I can't quite grasp. I am confident....but not sure how someone gauges intimidation over beer ;) So if you meet me, and find me to be intimidating....will you please clue me in?I appreciate a good communicator. If you aren't a talker or a writer...find a way. It's somewhat important. They were shot by my friend who is an amazing photographer....during ***degree mid-day sun. I kept it pretty cool dontcha think? I actually had them taken because "selfies" make me think it is so sad that someone has no friend to take a picture for them. This is serious stuff. I don't think you really need to see pictures of me from the 70's and 80's to decide if I am visually stimulating for you today. You do want to see what I look like now...right? Same for me!(update your pictures people!) Your pictures should be current if you want me to become interested in return. We live in a world of technology that allows for a picture to be taken easily. Digitally at that! Please don't give me some shady story that you don't know how to upload a picture, but you can *** Just post the damn picture and be who you are. (And be sure to take off your wedding band before you shoot that selfie!)I added a "selfie" because someone asked for one. I figured what the hell....let me show you my "sad side".Bad issues at a glance....Please do not message me if:***you are looking for a quick hook up***don't have at least one photo on the site...from this decade too!***you are married***you are in a relationship***you can't be honestNeither of us want to witness the outcome of a bad decision, so just be honest and think before you message me. I have an issue processing lies, so I really prefer the truth.added ***:I just had a long time friend discuss the whole intimidation thing with me a little. He said it seems I don't need a man to do things and help me. You guys need to feel useful...and needed. I get that! My friend's vision of me couldn't be further from the truth though. I have wished for someone to partner with me in life for years. I guess I need to learn the art of asking for help and not being so independent. Too many years alone and surviving has caused this I suppose.So be patient as I release the reigns. I could use a partner to help me...truly.And thanks Jim for being a good friend :)Now...it's up to you. Message me if you have interest. Feel free to ask questions if I missed on something. And get prepared...because I may ask a few myself!Disclaimer:Notice: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Let's not call it a date...Let's meet for coffee or an adult beverage and be face to face and talk....after we speak on the telephone or *** few minutes.I won't just meet a stranger unless I have communicated a little bit.Visual stimulation isn't the only part of chemistry necessary in building a relationship...at least for me.And if you would like me to take your picture for the site...just ask."Selfies" make me feel so sad.

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