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Jolene, 54
United States, Florida, Lehigh Acres

Offline, last seen Mon, 13 Jul 2026 22:35:40

About Me

I was happy, but my husband passed away. Now, I am looking for happy ever after. The question is, will I find happy ever after?First, let me start off by stating plain and simple: I am not interested in serial dating nor in being your booty call. I am looking for a relationship!My desire is to find a well-balanced, healthy relationship with a down to earth man who enjoys both quiet evenings at home and being out and about doing things. I look for a relationship at this point in my life to be a place of friendship, passion, and companionship. A relationship balanced with mutual respect, warmth, loyalty and acceptance. About me:While I am fairly content being single after a long, fulfilling marriage, I still have a wistful longing for an intimate relationship. The relationship I am longing for is not merely a physical one but one where two people connect in every way.I am a female with expectations and will not be content to just "settle". I'm not a snob but my personal observation is my tendency to be picky when it comes to what I am looking for in a man. I believe love can be set in motion quickly, but true love needs time to grow into something strong and enduring. Above all, love is about commitment and dedication and a belief that spending years with a significant other can create something greater than the sum of what the two can accomplish separately. I long for a man who understands true intimacy is obtained only when both the physical and emotional aspects mesh. Physical attraction is important but ultimately it is the relationship shared in the other important moments in life that really count. Having a significant other to travel with me on the journey through the next portion of life would be terrific. I don't need a man in my life; I WANT a man in my life. I enjoy both traveling and hanging locally. Spring, summer, and autumn are preferred over a cold, dreary winter. Hiking in the woods or walking in the park, picking crabs or just relaxing on the patio are favorites. I am accustomed to and enjoy the finer things in life and I am looking for a partner who has and appreciates that same quality of life. I appreciate many music styles, am an independent thinker, and secure in who I am and what I want in life. I am proud of my two sons - grown and independent - and still think I'm a great mom. :)My favorite outdoor activities are hiking and walking. I will admit to not being much of a sports player but I enjoy football, baseball, and basketball as a spectator (live or on the big screen). Winter months you will find me cuddled up in a blanket reading a steamy romance novel. I enjoy watching movies, dining out, live music, getting away to the beach, traveling to new places, and a motorcycle ride. I recently took, and totally enjoyed, golf lessons. Never too old to learn and enjoy new activities!About you:You are comfortable and confident with yourself as an individual, but are also willing to share your life and let someone else in. You enjoy both simple things and the finer things in life, but also have a wild side and like to step outside the box now and then. You don’t require constant stimulation, but you do expect some stimulation to keep things interesting and exciting. You are intelligent, and able to carry on a meaningful conversation about current events. You are passionate and looking to find and share that spark with a partner. My ideal match is playful, handsome, passionate, physically fit, confident, witty, and financially secure. It would be great to meet a guy who can make me smile even when we are apart. I am looking for a man secure in who he is - both personally and professionally. "Integrity" will come to mind when those closest to him are asked to describe him. I am looking for a man who can act thoughtful and caring, bold and curious, soft and sexy. Is this you?? I think what we do is not as important as how and with whom we do them. I am flexible and open to new things. There is so much to learn and enjoy in life. I have yet to discover everything I like to do and it would be fun to make new discoveries together. A drink and conversation. Starbucks makes great Chai Tea Lattes.Happy hours are great, too. It's 5:00 somewhere - I'm up for a good margarita.Dinner and great conversation. I'm open to other suggestions as long as it is in a public venue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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