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Paula, 52
United States, Florida, Lehigh Acres

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About Me

What is with all of you guy's and the pictures of you with fish???? I am looking for someone who is more of a gambler than a fisherman...;)A little bit about me...I am a workoholic and I need to find someone willing to distract me. My work is fun stuff...but it shouldn't be life. I don't do drama or lies. Honesty is so much easier to keep track of. So...if you are married...don't tell me you are separated. Being married OR separated I won't pursue either. If your age is not correct...be honest about it. It wasn't a mistake...it was a lie when you signed up. I am not quite sure why anyone needs to lie on their profile unless they set out to be a liar in the first place. And no....I am not a scorned woman by a man's lies. I just don't understand the reason behind telling one. I am conflicted by reason. I am actively looking for a relationship. Focused on it actually. That doesn't mean "put a ring on it". It means I am looking for someone who sticks around for the second or third event....and realizes they like hanging out with me as much as I enjoy being with them. If anything comes from the chemistry we can figure that out together. re·la·tion·shipri'laSH?n?SHip/nounnoun: relationship; plural noun: relationships 1. the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.I live life with a fun outlook. I live a young life style...so a couch potato might not have too much fun with me. I was recently told I am too wild. Still trying to figure that one out. LOL. Maybe you can help me?I am pretty positive in things (as long as that honesty thing is covered in the process). There is always a solution in my head for a problem.I have been told I am intimidating. That's another one I can't quite grasp. I am confident....but not sure how someone gauges intimidation over beer ;) So if you meet me, and find me to be intimidating....will you please clue me in?I appreciate a good communicator. If you aren't a talker or a writer...find a way. It's somewhat important. They were shot by my friend who is an amazing photographer....during ***degree mid-day sun. I kept it pretty cool dontcha think? I actually had them taken because "selfies" make me think it is so sad that someone has no friend to take a picture for them. This is serious stuff. I don't think you really need to see pictures of me from the 70's and 80's to decide if I am visually stimulating for you today. You do want to see what I look like now...right? Same for me!(update your pictures people!) Your pictures should be current if you want me to become interested in return. We live in a world of technology that allows for a picture to be taken easily. Digitally at that! Please don't give me some shady story that you don't know how to upload a picture, but you can *** Just post the damn picture and be who you are. (And be sure to take off your wedding band before you shoot that selfie!)I added a "selfie" because someone asked for one. I figured what the hell....let me show you my "sad side".Bad issues at a glance....Please do not message me if:***you are looking for a quick hook up***don't have at least one photo on the site...from this decade too!***you are married***you are in a relationship***you can't be honestNeither of us want to witness the outcome of a bad decision, so just be honest and think before you message me. I have an issue processing lies, so I really prefer the truth.added ***:I just had a long time friend discuss the whole intimidation thing with me a little. He said it seems I don't need a man to do things and help me. You guys need to feel useful...and needed. I get that! My friend's vision of me couldn't be further from the truth though. I have wished for someone to partner with me in life for years. I guess I need to learn the art of asking for help and not being so independent. Too many years alone and surviving has caused this I suppose.So be patient as I release the reigns. I could use a partner to help me...truly.And thanks Jim for being a good friend :)Now...it's up to you. Message me if you have interest. Feel free to ask questions if I missed on something. And get prepared...because I may ask a few myself!Disclaimer:Notice: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Let's not call it a date...Let's meet for coffee or an adult beverage and be face to face and talk....after we speak on the telephone or *** few minutes.I won't just meet a stranger unless I have communicated a little bit.Visual stimulation isn't the only part of chemistry necessary in building a relationship...at least for me.And if you would like me to take your picture for the site...just ask."Selfies" make me feel so sad.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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