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Tabatha, 55

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About Me

Single, happy, normal and secure with who I am, I tend to see the positive things in life and don't get caught up in drama and negativity. I'm a young ***most people guess my age as much younger. I think my attitude and kids keep me young at heart. I'm also very active - physical activity is a major part of my life. I go running every day and on the weekends I cycle or hike. The attraction of the big outdoors has always fascinated me. Spending so much time in an office makes me antsy to go visit the beauty of wilderness. I tend to be a risk taker - I like thrills and adventure. I accept people for who they are, not who I think they should be. I embrace life and always love a great adventure. Traveling around the world is something I've always loved to do - to see how other people live and discover different cultures is so intriguing. I've been to Europe and New Zealand. My friends all tell me I'm a great listener. I seem to prefer to hear about other people's lives, points of view and opinions than tell you mine. It's always interesting to see if someone can change my opinion - I'm defiintely not a closed minded person. Although I like to participate in life, I also enjoy my "down" time. I'm looking for someone who can also see the positive things in life and who has a wicked sense of humor. A friend and a lover. I want a partner in life, someone who is as secure in their life as I am in mine. Passion also needs to be in a relationship (I think that's the Italian part of me!). Friendship has to happen along with the chemistry. I'm not a fighter or an angry person, and I'm not interested in hearing about your past wife/wives. My bags are all neatly packed away and you will need to check your baggage at the door. Drama does not intrigue me and I'm not one who enjoys emotional roller coasters - I get motion sickness! If you aren't ready to be emotionally available in a monogamous relationship, then we definitely aren't a match. Also, let's be fair - I don't respond if you don't have a picture. Some where we can talk and get to know each other a little better. Second date is when we can do something more active.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cheri

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I enjoy life. I like to make every day count! Friends and family are very important to me. I love the outdoors and truly believe living in Puget Sound is a blessing! Hiking, biking, skiing in winter and anything on the water are my favorite things. Eating at the Tides on a sunny day with a few beers is spectacular. Travel is a passion of mine. Recently took a cruise down the Baja and spent some time at Whistler. On days like today (gloom and drizzle), I enjoy watching movies or hanging out with friends at a cozy place. At home I enjoy spending time with my two wonderful boys. They grow up so fast! I'm looking for someone to share all of this with on a permanent basis if there is a connection. Not looking to serial date. Someone with a sense of humor and intelligence who enjoys laughing and going as much as I do! Enjoy active types who like to travel and experience new and different things, from road trips or the greatest new destination. I am not looking for someone to take care of me or my kids. I have a house and cars that are paid for. Living free and clear of debt with a great job. The kids have a decent father whom they adore. I'm looking for someone to have fun with and if it turns to something else, that's a BONUS!Please! Do not falsify your height, fitness level (weight) or age! I have met several people on this site that have done that. It winds up being uncomfortable and embarrassing! Please be real.I'm on here because I've seen so many of my friends have successful encounters and the bar scene gets really old after awhile. That is it! Meet and see if there is chemistry. Who knows!!!??

  • Madge

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    It really seems fairly simple to me. I wish I could find a kind man who doesn't pretend to be something he is not. Someone who understands that a relationship is about giving as well as taking - life isn't black and white. And I’m looking for a man who really understands what respect means. It's very important I find a man who understands how to accept that sometimes he might be wrong. We are all imperfect human beings; we don't always do or say the right things. But it's OK. We must accept responsibility and move forward. Of course, I’m looking for a friend; and companionship first. Someone to relax with and just hang out; and enjoy life. A bit of drama always seems to creep into any relationship, but please we don’t need to add to that by our own actions. I’m looking for a man who can appreciate what is right in front of him. I am far from perfect, but basically, I'm just a "normal" lady: without a drug or alcohol problem. I don't take myself too seriously. I love to laugh. I'm financially secure (NO not wealthy) and am looking for the same in a partner. I enjoy working together with my partner in the yard, the pool or whatever projects need to be done. In the winter I enjoy a good book or movie while snuggled up to a warm fire. I enjoy cooking, but it's no fun to cook for one. I LOVE the Packers and football overall. I have two children who are the best part of me and both are productive members of society! AMEN! I can't wait to be a grandma someday. I'm pretty much a tell it like it is kind of person. I try to stay fit and active, nope, I’m not a twig, but I have lots of love to offer! I enjoy the world around us - and I live very close to Devil's Lake - a beautiful place to hike. I love to sing, and will occasionally do Karaoke. But I enjoy my church choir and singing for weddings or whenever anyone asks. Most important - I LOVE TO LAUGH! It does a body good! At 53 I am realistic about the work required to make a relationship work. But it’s important to me that we both are willing to put in the effort. If we do, the rest should come easy. At our age, we've all seen a whole lot of life already. Some I'm sure we'd like to forget! But there is a lot of life yet to live. I'd love to do it with a good man. I have loved well but not too wisely. I’m tired of giving my heart to people who are not willing to honor that gift. I really enjoy travelling and being spontaneous. Not a lot of baggage here so it's easy to pack! I am young at heart for sure. OK enough about me for now. If you think we might enhance each other's lives, I’d love to hear from you. There really is so much to share in my life at this point. BUT, PLEASE be emotionally available if you contact me. I am so ready to begin the rest of my life....... "You are a gift. Be with someone that will treat you like that. You have so much to offer. Be with someone who will bring that same energy and power to you." We all deserve this……… First date is open for debate!

  • Stella

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    wow. really?! adding myself to a virtual menu... surreal. but ok... I look first for a thinking mind!!!! I love creating things, making things- art stuff- indoors outdoors, simple to not simple-engineered or whim-new from old! history.objects,philosophy,literature,music, whatever! the past is what makes all of us new each day. there seems to be no sure formula for this so here goes; I'll try to hit the most asked categories, let me know what I missed!I've been on my own for the last 10 years, my children are grown and on their own, I don't have dependent parents or a mortgage; 2 indoor cats have me and every bird that I can attract to the outdoor feeders I count as friend. I love words in all forms--art,talking,writing,games,humor & lyrics & reading & debate & all the languages you speak. TV: I find all I need online--I dig the closed captions...I don't miss tv sports but am sure I could still nap thru it on the right lap. Movies: all but halloween type horror works for me. I also try to see the Banff Film Festival each year. Theater: I love theater! Books: they all have merit...there is so much to discoverDaily www reads: brainpickings.org, thisiscolossal.com , lostateminor.com, Outdoors: Garden IV life!; picnics and car rides &; forests & what have you? Indoors: comfort and haven and refuge; laughter and fun, courage and understanding.... and PROJECTS! I have a pottery studio and love clay. I also like tools,paint, glue and fabric and decorating and lumber and metal and paper &&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&& STUFF~Music- Piano, acoustic guitar and clarinet always catch my ear. I love voices, from Barbershop to Sinatra, listing music is like naming books... might be simpler to list what I easily live without? >> Molly Hatchet...& most screaming electric guitar.Travel: I've lived in 4 states, have kept this address for 33 years. The USA has something spectacular to offer no matter where you go!Humor: I love to laugh a LOT!--take your good time with you...do the right thing & seek peace. Perspective is everything: The sinking of the Titanic was a miracle to the live lobsters in the ship's galley."The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” ?Socrates“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”? Maya Angelou"Let her tell stories and dance in the rain, somersault, tumble and run, her joys must be high as her sorrows are deep, let her grow like a weed in the sun."— Neil Gaimancollage and mosaic are my natural way and this quote seems to speak to life being that way too!"Things break all the time. Glass and dishes and fingernails. Cars and contracts and potato chips. You can break a record, a horse, a dollar. You can break the ice. Chains can be broken. So can silence, and fever... promises break. Hearts break."— Jodi Picoult"It sometimes takes a state of solitude to bring to mind the real power of companionship." —;Dr. Adler had *** to always say whatever I was thinking, but this was difficult for me, for the act of thinking and the act of articulating those thoughts were not synchronous to me, or even necessarily consecutive. I knew that I thought and spoke in the same language and that theoretically there should be no reason why I could not express my thoughts as they occurred or soon thereafter, but the language in which I thought and the language in which I spoke, though both English, often seemed divided by a gap that could not be simultaneously, or even retrospectively, bridged." —;There is an odd synchronicity in the way parallel lives veer to touch one another, change direction, and then come close again and again until they connect and hold for whatever it was that fate intended to happen." — Ann Rule"I said at the beginning of this ramble that life is meaningless. It was not a flippant assertion. I think it’s absurd: the idea of seeking “meaning” in the set of circumstances that happens to exist after 13.8 billion years worth of unguided events. Leave it to humans to think the universe has a purpose for them. However, I am no nihilist. I am not even a cynic. I am, actually, rather romantic. And here’s my idea of romance: You will soon be dead. Life will sometimes seem long and tough and, god, it’s tiring. And you will sometimes be happy and sometimes sad. And then you’ll be old. And then you’ll be dead. There is only one sensible thing to do with this empty existence, and that is: fill it. And in my opinion (until I change it), life is best filled by learning as much as you can about as much as you can, taking pride in whatever you’re doing, having compassion, sharing ideas, running, being enthusiastic. And then there’s love, and travel, and wine, and sex, and art, and kids, and giving, and mountain climbing … but you know all that stuff already. It’s an incredibly exciting thing, this one, meaningless life of yours." ~Tim Minchin, ***commencement address, The University of Western Australia.com

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