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Elsa, 53

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I've been single by choice for 4 years but am ready to find someone to share my life with.My 3 children have been my most Blessed gifts of all. We are best friends & family at the same time :)I was enlisted in the Air Force for over 13 years as a flight line support equipment mechanic. Love working with my hands. I've lived many interesting places but would love to revisit them or even go to new destinations.Now that my children are grown, I long for the things I didnt have a chance to enjoy.. I love to dance! Recently fell in love with country music but have always liked latin, R&B, Even Trance or House music; is definitely one of my likes.I love to cook and having help is that much nicer. An unexpected moon lit walk looking up to the heavens to maybe catch a glimpse of a falling star ( or a UFO lol) As much as I like to go out for dinner, I love even more being in the kitchen because I'm Very established there. I believe the only things I cant cook are the ones I simply haven't tried yet :) I've always enjoyed doing things on the adventurous side of life, just never had the time . correction: Now I do lol Love watching movies on a rainy night almost as much as a drive to nowhere in particular, gazing at the stars just before I leave. Going to the beach to sun & swim is always on my "escape-cation" list! Love the water I could walk the beach for hours!I try to stay in good health and the person I chose to be with definitely has to take good care of himself. Its just that we have one life, so why not try to take good care of it so it'll be that much betterI love Life's simplicities but have No problem enjoying the finer things of life.I'm 'm Looking for someone who would be a good fit for me. Someone who is playful yet serious when he needs to be.Someone who has no problem being himself in public or private. I want to be with a man who has no problem reaching for my hand if only to show me that we're together. Who can turn and give me a kiss if he feels the need to. Can feel secure with knowing that I am with him and only him. I'm Not looking for a bed buddy, I could have that any time I choose. But I've chosen to remain single until I find Mr Right unless He finds me first :) I have a very strong belief in Monogamy and make sure whom ever I'm with knows this as he should have the same for me. I love spur of the moment anything. Whether its a drive to nowhere or a midnight swim... I like the unknown. Expands your imagination lolIf you made it thru this Bio then you're either laughing, saying hell No or absolutely, you've passed the first test :) Ice cream and coffee, a nice walk afterwardsDinner and a movie( these are suggestions! Not what I expect a "first date" to be like )Just in case your taking me literally word for word lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Heidi

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I enjoy cattle drives, goin' to the livestock auction, target shooting, fishing, brandings, foaling and calving season, spring time, water falls, listening to the sounds of nature in the middle of BFE, & sunsets. Did I mention country music ;-) I like most all of it. Heck I just enjoy life in general. ;-) I also have my domestic side. I clean up well to go to a candle lit dinner, with a lil notice.I enjoy home cooking, Dutch oven cooking on the campfire, sewing, flower & veggie gardens, quilting, making western crafts, dancing (yes, including two stepin' and swing but I’m a lil rusty), home canning and photography. I have more hobbies than time or seasons actually allows. Hobbies are seasonal. You are NOT . I am an optimist. NOT a game player, and am seeking the same in you. I am always honest - almost to a fault, very loyal, and very faithful. You should be the same, that's only fair. I do not cheat, lie, steal, do drugs, or gamble. I drink very seldom, and very little when I do, only expecting the same from you, simple moderation. I don't ask for anything that I can not offer myself. I am not stuck on, nor impressed by many material things. I live a very simple country way of life. I am seeking a Christian man that is mentally well adjusted, non tempered, some what fit, honest, simple (no drama), loyal and faithful. You do NOT have to be educated in ranching, farming, horses nor in cattle to have things in common with me. I have been ranching and farming all my life. It is not a requirement of mine. I am a confident, self sufficient woman who has my life mapped out and know where I'm going. I am more than willing, and look forward to learning about your interests. There is no perfect man or woman made for every man or woman, perfect wish list of who we want delivered via Fed-X ROFLMAO lets be real folks OK.’s not worth arguing about now or ever, right. I'm retired due to health issues. Ranch life is rough on the body after 53 years. My health is far from perfect, I hope you are compassionate and forgiving. I still do everything I used to, just a lil slower.I have completed my horse bucket list (not excluding horses for the future), now want to do the rest of my life in whatever else strikes me for the next segment. I am currently writing a book about my adventures. I seek only one forever man. He that appreciates me for who I am, and the simple way of life that I choose to live. ;***that will let me appreciate him as well.I believe that my glass is ALWAYS half full! I look forward to hearing from you with your glass half full, like interests, and new ventures for us to explore together as one. YES I am for real!! Don't be shy, reply!Did anyone read this far? Grinning I am always willing to make the decision together, as long as it is a public place. Just to offer a "first meeting" suggestion, the first meeting introduction (not date-the date comes after the introduction and we agree that we would like to go out on a "date" thereafter if we have a spark going on). The first meeting introduction could be an ideal time to get to know you personally, eye to eye contact, and honest open conversation, if you agree. I am always open to "actually listening to what ever is on YOUR Mind and getting to know YOU" and what you and your world, goals, and dreams, are all about. How does coffee, lunch, or dinner sound? Or maybe just sitting on the tail gate watching the sunset, and talking. Any other suggestions?

  • Lynn

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    So much in my life makes me smile and laugh I don’t know where to begin to talk about who I am. I will take a stab at it…I smile and belly-laugh when I am with my kids. I never knew how much I would love being a mom.I smile at the sunset and being outdoors. I love being around, on, and in any type of water. Watching the waves come in while my feet are in the sand makes me really smile. Boogie Boarding like a teenager makes me laugh. I am lucky that I live close enough to the American River Trail and am able to walk or jog by the river often. I love good, fresh food and dream of one day actually being able to cook it rather than go out and get it. I love, love, love live theater and musicals – I am always tempted to sing along with the cast, but I resist until I am alone in the car. I had season tickets to the B Street Theater, but can’ I like seeing faces.I smile when I am blaring my music – all genres – and dance around the house. I love going to listen to live music and I love to dance.; Sons or Damien Rice. But, they change. I also like more quiet activities such as going to hear speakers and learning from their experiences. I think I just enjoy going out and experiencing new things. I make it a practice to laugh and thoroughly crack myself up.“thinking” type of comedy. I find having a 9 and 12 year old has required me not to indulge my appetite for more adult-like humor – at least when they are around. I laugh a great deal when out with my friends. I am very grateful to have them.I smile about work. I like being organized, busy, and flexible. A good day is one that I feel I made a difference, juggled numerous projects, kept my deadlines, and remained calm and kind.My ideal Saturday night….With my kids, it would definitely be playing together – a game, drive-in or bike ride. I love it when they have sleepovers and the house is full of kids and joyful chaos. I smile while I listen to how they interact with their friends and who they are becoming. I don’t get ruffled by much, except probably exclusion. Although, the high-pitch girl screams are quite a challenge for me.An ideal Saturday night activity for me without the kids (50% of the time) would be when I am out in a large group, with a small number of friends, or home alone with a good book or movie. It depends less on the activity and more on who I am with. I enjoy good conversation and laughter – very simple with little drama. Oh, and I love listening to live music or meeting new people. I like to talk to someone and see if we connect...over coffee, while on a bike ride, or taking a walk.

  • Yolanda

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love being at the lakes in the summer, sitting on my deck with a smoothie and chatting with my friends.I just love being outdoors when it's nice out. I like to fish, or just troll around the lake on a pontoon. Love to be in the sun. I enjoy dancing in the evening on the weekend. My goals are to stay above ground. I'd love to change proffessions and try something totally different, but can't quite figure out what yet. I'd love to travel the world over, set out on a big boat and go from one side of the coast to the other. Unfortunatly I would have to win the lottery first. I make enough to stay afloat. own a run down duplex that I am slowly fixing up.I'm a do it yourself kind of gal. I do remodeling projects at home entirely by myself. Love to fix things that are broken. I like to keep myself busy doing something. I also like going to good movies or just to watch one on dvd. Bowling can be fun, but I'm not as good as I use to be. Reading a good book can also be entertaining, yet relaxing. Enjoy a game of pool once in a while as long as you omit league rules, because if you can't play a real game then you shouldn't play at all. Love music, mostly golden oldies, but yes I can rock and roll. My sons a dj so he keeps me up to date with his massive library of tunes. As for myself, I'm energetic, honest, fun to be around. I don't have any real hangups. Just simply love to be breathing and living life. I have 2 boys, one is 18 and the other is 35. I am looking for a serious relationship. What I'm looking for is a guy who will let me be me. Alot of my friends are male so I don't need someone who gets jelous easily over nothing. They are just friends. I'm a one man guy and very trustworthy. Controling men are not my type. That my friend is about it. What you see is what you get. I'm not sure about how a first date should be as I haven't been on one for a long time ,so it would be awkward for me. Maybe to meet for a drink or something small like that with no expectations at first. Or it could be dinner and a glass of wine or movie. I'm open to suggestions.

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