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Alejandra, 51

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About Me

Just cking this out. Evolved from looking for friends to wanting to date. Summer is here and I am tired of being cooped up.UpDate Okay... its time to add on some personal info. I've put it off as long as I could. I had a profile up several months ago. It described me and what I was wanting (then) nicely. I was mainly looking for friends (again, then). I've made several great friends, appreciate, treasure and hang out with them. Couple of dates hurt my feelings, couple were bizarre, couple were compared to a teeth cleaning.... but overall it was great experience. I learned alot. Since then, I've had couple big life events that opened my eyes, my heart and my mind. I realized that I wanted someone more significant to share those cool, fun things in life. ME: Direct, but politeHonest, but kind Funny, but a bit smartass Friendly, but not a pushoverOutgoing, but not obnoxious Independant, but not a b***hHappy, but a bit lonelyAdventurous, but responsibleRomantic, but not sappyCurious, but not noseyPassionate, but not wild. Well... okay ??? Intuitive, but won't questionListener, but not shyGreat Mom, but need more ME life Respectful, but not judgementalStrong, but gratefulGreat friend, Always YOU: Goodlooking, Sexy, Built, Rich, Well Read, Traveled Extensively, Well Mannered.... WAIT! Bachelorette was on in another room, that was her list. Dream On Chica! HAYOU are a mystery to be unfolded, a surprise to be enjoyed. You will be an enhancement to my strengths and a compliment to my weaknesses. You will be the *** my laughter. You will be the cause of the nervous flutter in the pit of my stomach. And hopefully you will make me breathless from your kisses. Thats right, you HAVE to be a good kisser! Bonus points if kissing was on your activity list. Outside Patio for wine, maybe a great walk along the creek. Great conversation after the initial agonizing first five minutes that everyone seems to think you can tell the chemistry from.... yeah, right????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charlene

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to laugh and enjoy a person with a great sense of humor. I can be fairly witty and like intelligent conversation. It is fun to banter back and forth.I have a big network of friends and I keep up with them. I will add they tend to have a dry sense of humor and I find them all to be really funny. I do have the time and ability to devote to a relationship.S.. Just went to Mazatlan in February for 10 days. I enjoy sponteneity, and experiencing new things. I love the summertime ...there is so much fun to be had. I don't hang out at bars very much, although dancing once in awhile is fun even if it's in the living room lol. I like all kinds of music..not so hot on rap. My relationship with my daughters is very important of course. They are all grown up and have been out of the house for a few years now. They have their own lives and are doing quite well, yay!I have time to do the things I want to do now and would like to share that time with someone special. I fit in with a wide range of different people on a social level. I guess u could say I am a people person and can talk to anybody about something. I am a fairly direct person and don't tap dance around in conversation, although i am tactful, patient, and kind. Just a straight shooter. I would like to find that special man that wants to enjoy each others company. Somewhere we can have a good conversation.

  • Willa

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Worked in education for over the past decade, and walked away. Literally. Loved it for years, and then quit loving it too. I miss my students, but other then that I feel free to make choices in my life for the first time in a long time. Prior to education (K- Anyone unaware what that is, it is mining stocks that go out at pennies a share, shoot up to bucks, then you cash out! Good sh*tif you know what your doing.-we sent out all over the states, and Europe too! I probably met you back then! So my history is in mining stocks and education.... The FrayMaroon 5Music is food for the soul, I cannot imagine being without it... All of my relatives are back there, and I have a home back there and think about making the transition sometimes after 25 years in the northwest. My Great Grandfather helped start the town, and it would be good to get back to my heritage.-I grew up moving all over the United States and Europe, and was the only American girl in an all German school for 2 years, it was an experience! Sprechen sie Deutsche? My passion lies in art, music, writing, drawing, and photography. However, then again, I tend to attract to the opposite of myself, so you could be an inartistic scuba diver, and I would be smitten! I love and find essential a wicked sense of humor, I do not do boring well whatsoever!!.I would not say on here I am looking for love, a relationship, my next future ex, or the love of my life. But you know what-- stranger things have happened to us all. Everything happens for a reason, and if I made an awesome new friend, wonderful..if I met the guy I would be with the rest of this lifetime, wonderful. There is no way of knowing,.. it is all just what it is until it happens."I'm pretty, but Im not beautifulI sin but Im not the devilIm good but Im not an angel". . .;All a girl really wants is for one guy to prove to her that they are all not the same" -"Update": I have learned from friends that have been successful with online dating, that to write for awhile is a good thing. It is nice to establish a connection over some time online and then meet. By just looking at a picture, and wanting to meet that person, I do not see the difference between that and walking into a club, and being hit on. I am wanting something real, and for me running out to meet a guy right off the bat based on mutual lust is not the type of connection I want. There is alot of power in the written word, and the right man will know what I am talking about. I also will never give my cell phone number out until we know each other well, and have finally met. Past experiences have made me wiser! Please vote here: *** Gotta do this for the kid! Your. Ex's. House ! A remote rest-stop.lmao!Seriously, anywhere lovely to meet and greet~where your favorite refreshment is being served! I dunno about the going for a walk together thing, cuz knowing me I will trip and fall on my a***!! But if u have to do that, ok, ok!!.I think first meets are to see if the same feeling is there, that you may have gotten from writing, texting, talking. From there, I think you would just know ***and either way great to meet you!!If you don't look like your pictures~ you have to buy the drinks until you do! ; )

  • Marci

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I enjoy most kinds of music, love to go dancing, spending time with family and friends. More to tell in person. I am not looking for friends with benefits, taking care of someone that can't take care of himself,would love to find a best friend, soul mate, someone that will have my back as i will have his. Life is too short to keep dealing with BS so if that is what you have to bring to this then step on by, been there done that not looking to repeat it!! I have children all grown with families of their own. So, are you out there? I think you are!!

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