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Jessie, 53

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About Me

Friendly, loving, slightly impatient, kind, smart, inquisitive, genuine, serious, funny. I am kind hearted and quick witted. I love philosophical and religious discussions as well as laughing as much as possible. I try to live every day to the fullest and try not to take the important stuff for granted like life, health, loved ones.I titled myself 'sapiophile' from the drop-down menu because I didn't see anything I truly related to otherwise. I'm not that well-versed but I am very quick to catch on and love to learn. I like trying new things, going places I haven't been, meeting new people. I am happy being in a crowd of people or being alone. I am a very well adjusted person for the most part. But, lean toward being a type A personality. I have no weird kinks or habits (at least none that I have been made aware of). I hope to always be learning something in life - growing spiritually and mentally. I have no need to try and change or control anyone or for anyone to try to change or control me. I am told I do look like my photos (or better) and they are current. I'm not perfect but I am happy and I am real. I am fairly slender and active but am working on being more athletic.-seeing, etc.Perhaps I am one of the few but I have never been drawn to 'bad boys'. I like honest, kind, sweet men who are secure in who they are and don't have a need to prove something to others. I have always been a go-getter, taken care of others and myself and like people that have a lot of energy to put into life. I like people with a high IQ and an even higher EQ and just get life without a lot of explanation. I also like people who don't feel a great need to teach or correct others...I am looking for a man who loves life, loves people, is kind hearted, smart as hell and wants to find their lifelong mate. I am looking for a genuine friend/lover/mate someone who is looking to invest themselves in a long-term relationship. Someone who has some kind of active faith in God or a healthy inquisitiveness at least...I have a lot to give and am looking for someone that wants to give back. Meet after work casually for a walk on the beach or PB boardwalk or for a drink to see if there is a spark...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zelma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    . Just looking to meet new friends for now... I would love just something simple like meeting at the park and just walking and getting to know each other. I don't think the firat date should be all about money...

  • Donna

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    . and makes things come alive. and because we celebrate each other rather than pick on each other (Why do so many couples do that?) every meal or snack will feel likean 8 course gourmet dinner, as it will spiced and flavored with listening, laughter , kindness and kisses.you are a man that appreciates being respected for the warm honest caring man that you are. You like to share, who you are on a deeper level and express your values. and what is important to you in life. Men who are Financially responsible and open communicators, who share the floor, in talking and listening., I find to be sexy. If you are an introvert more than extrovert, that is okay. I have an ANXIETY issue, that I work on to keep stabilized can explain more to you. but I am highly sensitive, so need to find a man who is indeed gentle. as in a Gentle man................. UPDATE TO THE ARTICLE I WROTE ..Here Is the Published version I hope you can paste it in browser and it will open, if not let me know. thanks. *** you for those who gave their honest answers.:) Personally i am not a pot head, nor alcoholic, . and hoping to find the same. a couple beer here and there is good, but daily hard stuff, is out of the question.. Also If your kids are over 20 now, that is awesome, as it is our time now:) I am an Article Writer, and I enjoy writing content online. a Something casual , where we can relax and laugh.

  • Caroline

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Oh boy..the good old 50's! Just found out I've shrunk from 5'8" to 5'7..5'7.5. (Well, the good side is, it won't take me as long to sit down or stand up :-).Compassionate, independent, stable, honest, but definitely flawed. Love family, kids, friendship, animals. Would like to meet someone with commonalities, but not a clone of myself. Definitely enjoy trying new things. Would love to take up hiking and snowshoeing. Was in long term relationship and still in long term job..28 yrs. More to tell. Loyal, honest, communicative and morally sound. Looking for same values in partner. Many interests, hobbies. Please no married or “Hey Baby’s”. Only the serious. Thanks.Best of luck to everyone in their search! A drink and appetizers or maybe just a drink or coffee to see if interested. You can sit closest to the door. :-)

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