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Jessie, 53
United States, Florida, Lake Wales

Offline, last seen Fri, 13 Mar 2026 10:11:19

About Me

Friendly, loving, slightly impatient, kind, smart, inquisitive, genuine, serious, funny. I am kind hearted and quick witted. I love philosophical and religious discussions as well as laughing as much as possible. I try to live every day to the fullest and try not to take the important stuff for granted like life, health, loved ones.I titled myself 'sapiophile' from the drop-down menu because I didn't see anything I truly related to otherwise. I'm not that well-versed but I am very quick to catch on and love to learn. I like trying new things, going places I haven't been, meeting new people. I am happy being in a crowd of people or being alone. I am a very well adjusted person for the most part. But, lean toward being a type A personality. I have no weird kinks or habits (at least none that I have been made aware of). I hope to always be learning something in life - growing spiritually and mentally. I have no need to try and change or control anyone or for anyone to try to change or control me. I am told I do look like my photos (or better) and they are current. I'm not perfect but I am happy and I am real. I am fairly slender and active but am working on being more athletic.-seeing, etc.Perhaps I am one of the few but I have never been drawn to 'bad boys'. I like honest, kind, sweet men who are secure in who they are and don't have a need to prove something to others. I have always been a go-getter, taken care of others and myself and like people that have a lot of energy to put into life. I like people with a high IQ and an even higher EQ and just get life without a lot of explanation. I also like people who don't feel a great need to teach or correct others...I am looking for a man who loves life, loves people, is kind hearted, smart as hell and wants to find their lifelong mate. I am looking for a genuine friend/lover/mate someone who is looking to invest themselves in a long-term relationship. Someone who has some kind of active faith in God or a healthy inquisitiveness at least...I have a lot to give and am looking for someone that wants to give back. Meet after work casually for a walk on the beach or PB boardwalk or for a drink to see if there is a spark...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Metal Techno Cooking Photography Play Musical Instrument Italian Thai Archery
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  • Wendi from Lake Wales | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love people that love people. It is important to me to be around people that like to have fun and want to get along well with others. I tend towards work that supports others. Currently my work roles include: mediation, facilitation, coaching and supervised visitation. Variety is the spice of life.Traveling, especially to warm, sunny places during the winter, is a passion. I like to try new things, go on adventures and spend time with people that I love (friends, family). Endorphin junkie rather than adrenaline: walks, hiking, canoeing and kayaking, Not so much on bungie jumping and other high risk sports.I can often be found wandering through galleries, museums, book stores and garage sales.My favorite people to spend time with are those that have a good sense of humor and are adventurous. Friends describe me as compassionate, dedicated and fun.While I am compassionate to all types of people in my work life, I respectfully decline romantic attention from men with temper issues, felonies, a wife, DV charges, personality disorders or untreated mental illness. I prefer a very casual first meeting: coffee or a walk.

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  • Ruthie from Lake Wales | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Ruthie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Love to do new and different things, festivals, wine tastings, listening to music, out door activites, museums, book clubs, boating, scuba or even just taking a walk. Would love to travel anywhere new and even return to some favorite spots. Looking for an emotionally secure, clean cut, educated man who wants a long term reationship, best friend, and likes to balance work and fun.I really want someone near my age, a few years older or younger is prefered. Must be a bit spontaneous and have varied interested and a desire to explore new and exciting things in life. I love interesting dates not the traditional dinner and a movie! Any well though out plan is greatly appreciated. First date can be easy and short to see if we click.

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  • Laurel from Lake Wales | Woman | 53 years old | Cancer
    Laurel

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi,I am a gal with a big heart....a good head on her shoulders.....living simply meaning no drama here. my first love is Jesus..grown kids..and 2 grandsons who are the light of my life...I am so blessed...would like to meet someone who agrees that being friends and having a friendship are very important in a relationship. where there is mutual respect...not feeling that one is more important than the other...I know there are still nice guys out there, that are the gentleman that i would love to get to know...If you would like to say "hi" I would like to hear from you....have fun and good luck in ur search for what your looking for..take care. to meet for coffee...or have a soda...to talk and get to know each other and then see how it goes from there.

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