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About Me

This is a mystery, how does one express the multi-faceted three dimensional in a two dimensional form? And yet, here we are!I am happy because I choose to be! Life is an adventure, enjoy the ride! I am complex not complicated. I need, I am not needy. I am self aware, adaptable, easy going, tolerant and loving; that doesn't make me a door mat. Passion does not equal drama, I am looking to create a life of passion. Everyday is an opportunity to create something new. It doesn't matter where I go, it matters who I am with. Take me to the symphony one night and a dive bar the next, it's all good. I have the personality of a cat and the soul of a dog. If you understand animals that will make sense.I am here to meet my best friend. I am here to find my life partner. Someone I can have fun with doing absolutely nothing. Someone to climb mountains and explore the world with, who can also lay on the couch and watch a movie. It doesn't matter what you have, I want to know who you are and how you treat the people in your life. You prefer talking about ideas and action more than people and things. I want to know who you are, not what you do. I want to know if you know who you are. If your profile is incomplete, I can only assume you don't. I need a man of integrity who knows the value of being his word. "The only way you know you love yourself and others is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep", Dr. I am whole and complete, I do not need someone to complete me. I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. If a friend in need calls at 4am, I am there. I am the friend who will help you move, lol. I am looking for a mate that has those same kind of friendships in his life. I am silly and playful, but please don't doubt that I can be serious at times as well. I enjoy a good banter. I have conviction with out the need to be right. I need to feel attracted, but that doesn't mean that magazine cover looks are required. Beauty is in the "heart" of this beholder. I am passionate about life and love. I am constantly growing and evolving, I want someone to grow and evolve with. Everyday is an opportunity to change for the better. I have a massive capacity to love. Relationships may be work, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun!!My pictures are current, I weigh ***lbs, and I am really 51........ 'cause why would I lie about that!!! lol.I appreciate all those who are interested, but honestly, I will only respond to those who are geographically desirable and have photos posted. If you do not have a clear full face photo posted I will not respond. There is only one real way to know if there is a connection and that is to meet. Love is always thirstyand looking for a thirsty lover.Love and lover follow each otherlike day and night.- Rumi --Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Depends.........second date, that is another story!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Willa

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Worked in education for over the past decade, and walked away. Literally. Loved it for years, and then quit loving it too. I miss my students, but other then that I feel free to make choices in my life for the first time in a long time. Prior to education (K- Anyone unaware what that is, it is mining stocks that go out at pennies a share, shoot up to bucks, then you cash out! Good sh*tif you know what your doing.-we sent out all over the states, and Europe too! I probably met you back then! So my history is in mining stocks and education.... The FrayMaroon 5Music is food for the soul, I cannot imagine being without it... All of my relatives are back there, and I have a home back there and think about making the transition sometimes after 25 years in the northwest. My Great Grandfather helped start the town, and it would be good to get back to my heritage.-I grew up moving all over the United States and Europe, and was the only American girl in an all German school for 2 years, it was an experience! Sprechen sie Deutsche? My passion lies in art, music, writing, drawing, and photography. However, then again, I tend to attract to the opposite of myself, so you could be an inartistic scuba diver, and I would be smitten! I love and find essential a wicked sense of humor, I do not do boring well whatsoever!!.I would not say on here I am looking for love, a relationship, my next future ex, or the love of my life. But you know what-- stranger things have happened to us all. Everything happens for a reason, and if I made an awesome new friend, wonderful..if I met the guy I would be with the rest of this lifetime, wonderful. There is no way of knowing,.. it is all just what it is until it happens."I'm pretty, but Im not beautifulI sin but Im not the devilIm good but Im not an angel". . .;All a girl really wants is for one guy to prove to her that they are all not the same" -"Update": I have learned from friends that have been successful with online dating, that to write for awhile is a good thing. It is nice to establish a connection over some time online and then meet. By just looking at a picture, and wanting to meet that person, I do not see the difference between that and walking into a club, and being hit on. I am wanting something real, and for me running out to meet a guy right off the bat based on mutual lust is not the type of connection I want. There is alot of power in the written word, and the right man will know what I am talking about. I also will never give my cell phone number out until we know each other well, and have finally met. Past experiences have made me wiser! Please vote here: *** Gotta do this for the kid! Your. Ex's. House ! A remote rest-stop.lmao!Seriously, anywhere lovely to meet and greet~where your favorite refreshment is being served! I dunno about the going for a walk together thing, cuz knowing me I will trip and fall on my a***!! But if u have to do that, ok, ok!!.I think first meets are to see if the same feeling is there, that you may have gotten from writing, texting, talking. From there, I think you would just know ***and either way great to meet you!!If you don't look like your pictures~ you have to buy the drinks until you do! ; )

  • Sue

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a fun, thoughtful, hardworking, confident, and independant woman. I'm impressed by strength, kindness, and wit. How I describe myself might vary from what others would say (I can provide references upon request - I believe I have a sort of shy confidence. I've been described as "the girl next door" (I'm still trying to figure out what exactly that means)It reallly isn't complicated. I would like to meet someone because we both initially saw something that made us smile and become curious. Then spend time learning more about each other, experiencing new things and sharing what we already know we love. My life is fairly drama-free and I'd really like to keep it that way. But, I'm a great listener and usually the one my friends come to when drama does impact their lives. I'm open to excitement and spontaneity. Some of my best memories have been the result of last minute plans and events I really wasn't looking forward to attending. Exercise is a huge part of my life and keeps me balanced and happy. My workout of choice is indoor biking. I've been at it for more than 10 years. I was in one of the first classes offered in this area and have been hooked ever since. Short and sweet! (... first meeting for a cup of coffee or glass of wine to see if there's further interest). The dates that follow are what I look forward to ...

  • Bonita

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    New to this area, have visited previously and fell in love. Been through a lot in my life, that was in the past... learned from it, held on to the important parts and moved on. I am down to earth, considerate, courteous and live a simple life, above all else, I am HONEST. My first impressions of people are based on personality and quality of character rather than on appearances and status (i.e. money, car, home, etc.) Prefer being at home or doing something outdoors rather than going to bars, movies, etc. The only thing that I expect from anyone is honesty and respect, as that is what I give to others.I will talk about almost anything, have had many experiences and experienced many things the average person hasn't, the ONE topic I will NOT talk about is my sexual habits and would rather not hear about yours. Just as a warning, I will utilize the BLOCK button if your conversation becomes sexual.If you cannot be completely honest with me from the start, I AM NOT interested, it is the age of the internet, nothing is private, I will find out what I want to know one way or another. Due to a dishonest society, I am very guarded and DO NOT believe in love at first sight.(Do not ask me for my phone number or an *** we've arranged to meet in person) a walk, coffee, maybe a drink?

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