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Tamara, 55

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About Me

I am an intelligent, warm and honest woman looking for the same in a man. I want to be able to talk to that special someone in my life about anything - be it politics, religion, (gasp!) sex...even if we disagree. I want to be told the truth, and think I can handle the truth...unless of course you tell me that the pants I'm wearing make my butt look big! I like to learn new things, and I like to learn about new people. I think my friends would also tell you that I'm a good listener. What was that? Did you say something?I think my friends would say that I have a good sense of humor. I like to laugh and make others laugh. I like to be sure that the people around me feel comfortable and included. I feel that (appropriate) humor can break down a lot of barriers.I enjoy going to the movies. I mean, who can resist that popcorn? I enjoy romantic comedies, action/adventure flicks, mysteries, classics...about the only movies I dislike are horror movies and movies about the occult. Other than that...bring it on! I also enjoy going to concerts, musicals, and plays. It sure would be nice to find someone who would want to go along.I love to dance, but don't get the chance much anymore. As for my taste in music, I am very flexible. About the only thing I don't enjoy listening to is acid rock and rap. Other than that, I'm willing to try your music on for size, if you'll listen to mine! I want to meet a man who loves the Lord. I am active in my local parish. I sing in the choir and I play multiple musical *** my church is important to me.I have spent the last year getting myself healthy. I now work out ***times a week (but guys...come on! I could use some help with my upper body strength!) LOL! I like to think that I've learned how to eat healthy stuff, but it's a work in progress...just like me! I love to learn new things, so even if we have some different hobbies or interests, I'd like to hear more about yours. I enjoy walking my dog and engaging with the other dogs and owners in/around the neighborhood. My little one is 13, and we've been through a lot together! Now that you've read this far, let me say for the record that I am confused about the rules these days! Is it ok for me to make "first contact?" Some men say yes and others say no. I know you all don't fit into the same mold, and that makes things even more confusing! But we could have some fun unraveling all the mysteries, couldn't we? Anyway...if you are interested in getting to know me better, PLEASE let me know by writing to me! :) I seem to keep re-writing my profile to spark that special man's interest. Could it be you??? I enjoy romance, but you don't have to go overboard! I would enjoy getting to know you better over a nice dinner, and maybe some dancing afterwards - or a long walk or even a cup of coffee could work for me. You wouldn't need to be afraid to open doors for me or pull out my chair. I appreciate these gestures. Flowers on a first date would be a very welcome surprise. That's my perspective, and I'd enjoy hearing yours!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hester

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    We are all looking for that special someone to share a laugh with, good conversation, and those special moments that only can be shared between a best friend/lover. I want to find my best friend/lover for life. Life is what we make of it. I really know first hand how short life is... Everyone should do their best to enjoy everyday and laugh as much as possible!!!! LOL :) I enjoy the outdoors with sun and fun!! One of my passions is to travel near or far making great memories along the way. They could be either planned or spontaneous. I plan to travel abroad to broaden my horizons....lolI like dining out, movies, taking walks, and most all music (except Rap)! Music means so much to me, I love to sing (I'm not a great singer by any means, but I'm not an alley cat either LOL), it comes from my heart and it can put so much happiness in my soul... I'm pretty easy going and willing to be opened minded on whatever you like to do for fun and recreation. If you don't settle for just existing and really want to LIVE, like to laugh, and have fun, then maybe you are the best friend/lovet that I've been looking for! :) I like a man who has drive and passion in whatever he decides to do. Someone who is romantic and enjoys talking about his hopes and dreams and what he wants for the future. I appreciate a thoughtful old fashioned gentleman who opens my door, treats me like a real lady, makes me feel safe, and who takes charge of initiating the relationship. A cup half full or FULL (lol), young at heart, and someone who can keep up with me! It goes hand in hand, when I'm treated like I'm your one and only special girl, I get so much pleasure in treating you like a KING! Everyone desires to be treated like they are the only one on the planet that exists to you... When that happens between a Best Friend/lover you have the world by the tail!! I believe in being affectionate passionate in every way a close couple should be. Kissing is truly a lost art...It is very intimate. I will show my love and affection for my Best friend/Lover ***, not shy on showing my feelings. I love holding hands. Giving that special little glance and a mischievous smile across a crowed room to let you know you are my everything...I can dress up or wear jeans whatever the day or event calls for... But, I wear dresses/skirts most of the time (a girly girl). I take care of myself and always walk out the door looking classy. But, not afraid to break a nail... I would be able and willing to relocate when the time presents itself, given that I find my Best Friend/lover of my life!! I love my two girls ***and 21 this yr) and a 8 mo old granddaughter and they are becoming more fun and easier to talk to the older they get. They mean the world to me. They both live on their own.I hope everyone out there who is really seriously wanting to find their great love, Best Friend, and Soul Mate finds that special someone to share in their life...I've had it once and it is fantastic when you find it and realize what you've got!!!! I am searching for my second chance at a great love of my life... Wishing all of you the best!! :) Would like a quiet intimate place to get to know each other....

  • Dorothy

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    There's plenty that one person could say here about what their about and what they expect from the one they would like to meet or spend the rest of their life with. But all the true emotions and characteristics of both people come out once the relationship has begun. But the one main thing for me would be to find that one person to be compatible with. Someone that can share the same beliefs of a true relationship with me and enjoy what we can share with an open mind and leave the game playing behind. I want to share with you words from a man that knows exactly what I'm talking about when it comes to a relationship.These are some of his words, and what I'm trying to say is what I desire in a man. First I write these words as I have learned that I must allow myself to be vulnerable to find her, and that she can touch my heart. I wait and pursue her that she is missing from my soul. To touch and be touched is the essence of my being. I desire much from myself and my lady. I can cook everything and have that candle lit dinner waiting. I seek that which is precious,delightful and simple.The simplicity is that no matter what you do together it feels good.It feels good whether taking small/long trips. Just being, or deep passion in your arms, and love making. Being your own person. Having a sweet tender side that shows her man, which allows me to open up more. She is mature and I find her to be the most delicious woman because she has my back and heart. We flirt with each other and we love with great passion. We are tender with each other and support/lift each other up. She is mine and I am hers to endure this life together. I am a gentleman, a man’s man-that is a man who knows the worth of a woman, how she desires and deserves to be treated; A man, who knows what he wants, desires and pursues it,and her with a passion. One who is willing to be open and honest in every area of life. I am looking for a female to invest the effort and time for us to be. Depending on the season we would plan accordingly. Spring/Summer time could be a good time for a walk in the park or along the lakefront with a packed lunch. Or dine out with a movie afterwards.Autum time would be nice to walk through the park and enjoy the multicolors of the trees. Enjoying some good conversation. Winter time could be a nice dinner in and maybe be lucky to have a fireplace to snuggle up to.

  • Susanna

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm through raising my 3 children and am ready to start making some memories with this freedom I have. Looking for a guy that has his head on straight, has Christian morals and values and isn't afraid of showing it. Someone that will attend church on Sunday with me. I love stimulating conversation, holding hands, giving a good back rub at the end of a hard day and just enjoying my friends and family. I would love to meet someone that is looking for the same things in life.I'm not interested in someone that has an addiction. I'm looking for someone that has their act together. My life is drama free and I would like to keep it that way.I also will text or *** times, but I want to talk on the phone to get to know you and then meet within a relatively short time. I don't want to text forever. And please don't send me a naked picture before I've gone on my first date with you. Sorry to be so blunt, but I am not interested in having just a sexual relationship. I am looking for a mate....a best friend...and then all that other stuff will happen in due time.Thank you for reading my profile.Lisa Dinner somewhere with a patio, hot chocolate at Starbucks....doesn't really matter as long as we can talk.

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