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Alyssa, 52

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About Me

Hello and thank you for taking time to read my introduction. I am a very down to earth woman and easy to get along with. Sometimes can be a little bit of a girlie girl. I am attracted to a man who can tell it like it is and be honest. If the jeans make my ass look fat...than tell me. Chivalry will get you everywhere, especially if you don't mind getting up on the ladder to squish that spider on the ceiling.....you're my hero!! I have been told that I am a bit obsessive compulsive as I like things to be clean, organized and in line. God forbid I put that can of soup in the cupboard with the french side facing forward..LOL. I look for balance in life. You can tell I am a true Libra. My friends are very important to me and I enjoy getting together with them every chance I can. So fear not, you may have to pass the "test".I like to relax by taking long drives around the area that I live in. Looking forward to being the passenger *** the driver for once.I enjoy listening to most styles of music.) I am not a country music fan. BBQ soirees in the summer are a must! Hanging out in the bars are definitely not on the list. (Been there, done that.) I like to keep in shape by going to the gym. Keeping active is important.I am an animal lover so if you are a hunter, please don't contact me as I don't believe in that sport. All God's creatures have a right to live(except spiders..ewww),and not hung up on the wall. You must love cats as I have three that I love dearly. Does that officially make me the crazy cat lady? I'm attracted to the positive and stay away from the negative..don't like drama so don't bring it with you. You must not smoke. I don't like the smell and who wants to kiss someone who has ashtray breath. I am not interested in a long distance relationship so don't waste your time if you don't live close by and don't send me a message asking if I want to meet for coffee when you live 3 hours away. Please..read the profile. I am not into one night stands and I am not looking for a "friend with benefits". Please have a picture with your profile...if not, what are you hiding for?? That's all folks. At my age, do we still date? First meeting..of course the Canadian tradition..coffee and conversation. Kind of like a job interview, just be sure to bring your list of references with you.Or to be completely different, a grocery shopping expedition. What a way to really get to know someone by what they eat.But seriously, I would rather have a guy say "I've made plans for us" than to hear, "Oh I don't know, whatever you wanna do." Just sayin'

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Autumn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I decided to give this another shot - Im sure it is easier for guys to find love on-line, as most women are beautiful in some way. However, you guys need to understand that women find men attractive through their personalities and who they are - so if we are looking at a picture then you need to make sure it does not include one of these; You holding up your fish You and your dead animal that you just killed You wearing sunglasses - we all look cool in sunglasses but women need to see your eyes You in a picture with 5 other guys and we have to figure out which one is you You from 10 years ago - take a pic today - women will not care if you are older but they do care if you show up being a different looking personThat being said - another tip for you is to understand that women are apprehensive about the on-line dating. If you see she has checked out your profile, then you should contact her. The woman should be pursued. Let your ego down for a bit and go after the chase. Even if I am not what you are looking for, I have helped a few of my guy friends on what women want. I hope this helps with your search....now about me; I am a hard worker, own a business that has occupied too much of my time - now its time to step back and find love. I believe in love, I believe in romance and I believe there is someone out there for everyone. I play tennis, take care of myself, love to go out to dinners, movies, flowers, the whole girly girl thing is who I am. The clothes, the shoes, the hair. But I am also a pony tail girl who loves her sweats! Love to snuggle and watch tv together, enjoy a glass of wine, make dinner for each other and walk holding hands. If this sounds like your kind of girl, then you should find me. :) First dates are always awkward.. so definitely not a movie, where there isn't any communication. A nice dinner and a glass of wine and good conversation to get to know each other would probably be the best.

  • Beatrice

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a full time Realtor, former IT girl...I love my job, the flexibility allows me to write my own schedule and I love meeting new people. I'm a few years out of a marriage (divorced now) and just finding my way back so to speak. I'm not sure how ready I am for more than dating right now. I'm not opposed at all to being head over heels in love again, but I also know that kind of love does not come by every day, so in the meantime, I'm enjoying my life,my friends and family and some very nice people here that take the time to chat with me occasionally. On a lighter note,I'm so excited about upcoming Fall Season, Jeans, sweater and boots, off to antiquing, weekend trip to St. Michaels MD, a long drive along rte 6 to see the beautiful fall colors. The smell of the fall leaves, and the rustling sound it makes when walking in them. The Sun in your face, ahh... breathe in, you know that smell, intoxicating. A long lingering kiss by the fire. ....I love fine dining with a nice glass of wine and great conversation but also very much love a slightly seedy corner cafe with simple food and a good import (there is just something about being in good company with great food and drink , what an easy feeling). I could go from jeans and sandals to a ball gown in 20 minutes if I had to. I enjoy just about any aspect of life. My friends say I'm very easy to talk to and that I have a great sense of humor, I can be a little smart ass but in a fun way.I think the best times I ever had, had a lot to do with the people I was with. Somewhere, anywhere outdoors, the sun, some wine and great conversation....and hopefully by the end of the day we could call it a date....

  • Mindy

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a busy single mom. I have two teenagers, one girl, one boy. I have two jobs, and not a lot of free time, but I'd like to find a friend(s) to go to the movies with, out to lunch with, hiking, hit some Saturday markets, or just hang out. I love my kids, but sometimes I just want to talk to another grownup :-)I can be a little shy, although I usually try to pretend I'm not. Sometimes that works...sometimes it doesn't. I enjoy talking and listening to someone else's story. I'm not much of a drinker. I don't want to drink in front of my kids and I don't drink and drive, so that's kind of limiting. I don't smoke and I don't play around with drugs. I actually have a good time stone cold sober and can amuse myself with my own thoughts for quite a while--I can even amuse others with my thoughts at times!I enjoy country music and can sing along with many of the songs on the radio, although I only do that in the privacy of my car, when driving alone. I don't sing well, so I make up for it by singing loudly, and no one I know well enough to have in my car deserves to be subjected that particular torture.I'm a big believer in treating others as I'd like to be treated, so I try to be kind and helpful and just plain old nice most of the time, but I do have a smart mouth sometimes. It's part of my charm!I can hang out with just about anybody, but if I were dating a guy, I'd like him to be tall and without facial hair. I just hate beards and mustashes--although I sort of like the old 5 o'clock shadow.

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