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Mindy, 53

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About Me

I'm a busy single mom. I have two teenagers, one girl, one boy. I have two jobs, and not a lot of free time, but I'd like to find a friend(s) to go to the movies with, out to lunch with, hiking, hit some Saturday markets, or just hang out. I love my kids, but sometimes I just want to talk to another grownup :-)I can be a little shy, although I usually try to pretend I'm not. Sometimes that works...sometimes it doesn't. I enjoy talking and listening to someone else's story. I'm not much of a drinker. I don't want to drink in front of my kids and I don't drink and drive, so that's kind of limiting. I don't smoke and I don't play around with drugs. I actually have a good time stone cold sober and can amuse myself with my own thoughts for quite a while--I can even amuse others with my thoughts at times!I enjoy country music and can sing along with many of the songs on the radio, although I only do that in the privacy of my car, when driving alone. I don't sing well, so I make up for it by singing loudly, and no one I know well enough to have in my car deserves to be subjected that particular torture.I'm a big believer in treating others as I'd like to be treated, so I try to be kind and helpful and just plain old nice most of the time, but I do have a smart mouth sometimes. It's part of my charm!I can hang out with just about anybody, but if I were dating a guy, I'd like him to be tall and without facial hair. I just hate beards and mustashes--although I sort of like the old 5 o'clock shadow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Willie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Since noone reads the profiles...I had to change mine but read my interests that tells alot. Please NO separated/married men.Or divorced men living with their ex....And please do not put your "single" if your not divorced. I hate to break it to you but your not "single" if your not getting along with your wife and haven't filed for divorce !! Come on !...Please be less then an hour away from where we live, more then that is too far.. If you lied about your age, body type or anything else in your profile do not *** you have a girlfriend and are on this site to "shop around" do not *** looking for an honest, nice, friendly guy who likes to go out and have a good time, likes to exercise, eat healthy, is healthy body and mind, a gentlemen, a one woman man. Someone with good values. Someone respectful of others ...Are you available to get to know someone?...Are you available to date on weekends? Do you even have time to date or are you too busy? . Not interested in smokers, alcoholics or someone depressed on medication. I'm looking for a happy, healthy fit man. Fit means not " A few extra pounds "..Thank you for understanding, since I exercise I do not want my opposite ! lol ok ???... I do not have the time or energy for game players. Which unfortunately there are so many of on this site. Aren't we way too old for games ?...Please have several clear not blurry RECENT pictures of what you really look like now without the sunglasses and hat. We really do want to see what you look like!!!..... Us girls do not want to see your outdated pics of when you used to play sports or your high school prom or baby pictures, scenery, boats, cars, bikes or even dead fish pictures ( why why why does anyone think we want to see you holding a dead fish???? ).. etc etc come on ! Why is it so difficult to only post pictures of yourself ??? Some guys must have alot to hide. lol..No pic or "private Images" not interested..And no, I am not giving you my phone number so you can send me a picture.I don't respond to the "meet me" feature since most guys don't read the profiles and many "meet me" *** sent from meetville and not the person. If you put someone in your favorites, send an *** class, please put a shirt on ..If you are a grown man and you live with your mother...no, I'm not interested ......NO "CATFISH"...............PHEW, WHY did I unfortunately have to write all of this you ask ????? BECAUSE this is what I have had to deal with so far and had to list all I don't want in a person....So hopefully noone else wastes my and their time...Sooooooo, if you truly think we are a "match" send an *** don't write to me just to tell me we live too far away from each other...Duh...am I missing something here??? For the first time...since it's not a date it's a meet...coffee shop to see if we click, then take it from there

  • Autumn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I decided to give this another shot - Im sure it is easier for guys to find love on-line, as most women are beautiful in some way. However, you guys need to understand that women find men attractive through their personalities and who they are - so if we are looking at a picture then you need to make sure it does not include one of these; You holding up your fish You and your dead animal that you just killed You wearing sunglasses - we all look cool in sunglasses but women need to see your eyes You in a picture with 5 other guys and we have to figure out which one is you You from 10 years ago - take a pic today - women will not care if you are older but they do care if you show up being a different looking personThat being said - another tip for you is to understand that women are apprehensive about the on-line dating. If you see she has checked out your profile, then you should contact her. The woman should be pursued. Let your ego down for a bit and go after the chase. Even if I am not what you are looking for, I have helped a few of my guy friends on what women want. I hope this helps with your search....now about me; I am a hard worker, own a business that has occupied too much of my time - now its time to step back and find love. I believe in love, I believe in romance and I believe there is someone out there for everyone. I play tennis, take care of myself, love to go out to dinners, movies, flowers, the whole girly girl thing is who I am. The clothes, the shoes, the hair. But I am also a pony tail girl who loves her sweats! Love to snuggle and watch tv together, enjoy a glass of wine, make dinner for each other and walk holding hands. If this sounds like your kind of girl, then you should find me. :) First dates are always awkward.. so definitely not a movie, where there isn't any communication. A nice dinner and a glass of wine and good conversation to get to know each other would probably be the best.

  • Miranda

    Online

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    ***Update:I first joined this site a few years back while I was separated; I think mainly because I was lonely and wanted new people to talk to. Then my husband and I worked things out and I stopped logging in. Sadly, he passed away about 6 months ago, but at least the sparks in our marriage had come back and we had some special times before I lost him. I've only been back on here for a week or so. Not even sure I should be here, but I know he would want me to have male companionship of some kind. So here I am.The diversity of those on this site fascinates me to no end. There are so many differences in personalities and interests, yet all sharing at least this one thing in common by being on here. People sure are interesting. :-) I hope to make some new friends while here. If I initiate contact with you through the site’s ***, I have read your profile and something you’ve written has caught my attention. I do, on occasion, write to someone that I already know will not be interested in me as a potential match (some of you fellas are more specific than others when describing what you’re looking for), or vice versa. Don’t assume my intentions are anything other than an appreciation of some part of you. Chances are, I honed in on your great sense of humor and thought I’d enjoy chatting with you, want to compliment you on your excellent profile-making skills, or am curious and/or interested to learn more about some content in your profile.Now on to an attempt to describe myself……I hold back opening up to someone until I feel comfortable with them…sometimes that happens quickly, sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes it’s just not gonna happen.I am not outgoing, but I’m not an introvert either. I love meeting and listening to people, yet until someone gets to know me, they usually think I’m shy. I tend to be one of the more quiet ones in a group setting. That’s because I’m trying to hear what everyone else has to say. If you’re looking for “the life of the party” type of gal…I’m not her. More likely, I’m one of her dearest friends though.I love music…just about any kind. Always have. Always will. I can’t imagine a life without it. I have a deep respect and admiration for musicians (and a bit of envy). I will listen to anything at least once.I love animals…especially the furry kind.If I’m with friends…I’m usually having fun, regardless of what we are doing or where we are at. I enjoy both indoor and outdoor events/excursions/whatever else you care to call them. If you’re with the right person ANYTHING can be fun!I love road trips, preferably unhurried. I like taking time to stop and see the little things that aren’t necessarily mentioned in any tour guide and watching people along the way, and hopefully hearing their stories. I’ve never been able to work any world traveling into my budget, but if my sister ever wins the lottery (because I don’t play, and she promised to share if she ever wins big LOL), there are so many places I’d love to see!Some of my turn-offs:LiarsCrueltyMeaniesFakesFreeloadersRacistsClosed MindsCheatersControl FreaksHatersHomophobesInsecurityTo find the key to my heart you will need to be genuine, young at heart, well-mannered, loving, self-sufficient (I won’t be your maid, mommy or bank), honest, kind, have smiling eyes and a sense of humor (if you make me laugh, you’re halfway there).I don’t understand the concept of people “looking for a long-term relationship”. That is not something you find…IT finds you. If it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen, whether you want it to or not, AND not on your own personal preplanned timeline, but when it’s the right time for IT. I think some people get so caught up in the ‘looking’ that they forget to cultivate the friendships that could have been growing. One, of which, may have eventually blossomed into the exact thing they were looking for all along, but never end up finding due to their own haste and lack of patience. Look, if you feel the need to, but don’t throw away the friends you meet along the way.May you find joy in your life, Peace of mind, and laughter in your heart. Thanks for stopping by. xoxo I have not had a first date in years. No, make that decades!Open to suggestions. It seems obvious that it should be someplace we'd be able to talk and see if we're connecting at all. I suppose it would also depend on how much we had already talked on the phone or *** and forth. This is too generalized....to many unknowns for a definitive answer.

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