SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Miranda
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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
***Update:I first joined this site a few years back while I was separated; I think mainly because I was lonely and wanted new people to talk to. Then my husband and I worked things out and I stopped logging in. Sadly, he passed away about 6 months ago, but at least the sparks in our marriage had come back and we had some special times before I lost him. I've only been back on here for a week or so. Not even sure I should be here, but I know he would want me to have male companionship of some kind. So here I am.The diversity of those on this site fascinates me to no end. There are so many differences in personalities and interests, yet all sharing at least this one thing in common by being on here. People sure are interesting. :-) I hope to make some new friends while here. If I initiate contact with you through the site’s ***, I have read your profile and something you’ve written has caught my attention. I do, on occasion, write to someone that I already know will not be interested in me as a potential match (some of you fellas are more specific than others when describing what you’re looking for), or vice versa. Don’t assume my intentions are anything other than an appreciation of some part of you. Chances are, I honed in on your great sense of humor and thought I’d enjoy chatting with you, want to compliment you on your excellent profile-making skills, or am curious and/or interested to learn more about some content in your profile.Now on to an attempt to describe myself……I hold back opening up to someone until I feel comfortable with them…sometimes that happens quickly, sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes it’s just not gonna happen.I am not outgoing, but I’m not an introvert either. I love meeting and listening to people, yet until someone gets to know me, they usually think I’m shy. I tend to be one of the more quiet ones in a group setting. That’s because I’m trying to hear what everyone else has to say. If you’re looking for “the life of the party” type of gal…I’m not her. More likely, I’m one of her dearest friends though.I love music…just about any kind. Always have. Always will. I can’t imagine a life without it. I have a deep respect and admiration for musicians (and a bit of envy). I will listen to anything at least once.I love animals…especially the furry kind.If I’m with friends…I’m usually having fun, regardless of what we are doing or where we are at. I enjoy both indoor and outdoor events/excursions/whatever else you care to call them. If you’re with the right person ANYTHING can be fun!I love road trips, preferably unhurried. I like taking time to stop and see the little things that aren’t necessarily mentioned in any tour guide and watching people along the way, and hopefully hearing their stories. I’ve never been able to work any world traveling into my budget, but if my sister ever wins the lottery (because I don’t play, and she promised to share if she ever wins big LOL), there are so many places I’d love to see!Some of my turn-offs:LiarsCrueltyMeaniesFakesFreeloadersRacistsClosed MindsCheatersControl FreaksHatersHomophobesInsecurityTo find the key to my heart you will need to be genuine, young at heart, well-mannered, loving, self-sufficient (I won’t be your maid, mommy or bank), honest, kind, have smiling eyes and a sense of humor (if you make me laugh, you’re halfway there).I don’t understand the concept of people “looking for a long-term relationship”. That is not something you find…IT finds you. If it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen, whether you want it to or not, AND not on your own personal preplanned timeline, but when it’s the right time for IT. I think some people get so caught up in the ‘looking’ that they forget to cultivate the friendships that could have been growing. One, of which, may have eventually blossomed into the exact thing they were looking for all along, but never end up finding due to their own haste and lack of patience. Look, if you feel the need to, but don’t throw away the friends you meet along the way.May you find joy in your life, Peace of mind, and laughter in your heart. Thanks for stopping by. xoxo I have not had a first date in years. No, make that decades!Open to suggestions. It seems obvious that it should be someplace we'd be able to talk and see if we're connecting at all. I suppose it would also depend on how much we had already talked on the phone or *** and forth. This is too generalized....to many unknowns for a definitive answer.
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Gretchen
Online
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I'm hoping to meet someone i'm crazy about...just one last time. Hopefully he feels the same way and we become best friends. I love being outside so I set up a projector and white screen in my yard to watch movies at night. I love cuddling up with a blanket, popcorn, and a drink.I'm a curious mix of fun, laughter, intensity, creativity and a very loving heart. When a man knows how to make me happy, my eyes are only for him. I love adventures and surprises. I am comfortable cuddling on the couch at night watching a video or having romantic dinners out on the town. I love weekend trips together, cooking for each other, jetskiing, fishing, walks on the beach (who doesn't), and even camping. I find intelligence a very sexy quality. I love my family and love being in a healthy and quality relationship.I have a beautiful daughter that is in college. I spent the last 18 years making sure she was taken care of and now it's my turn :)Sometimes I just enjoy being alone to enjoy nature and reflect. I volunteer at the Wildlife Waystation and enjoy working with the animals. Scooping tiger poop can be very good for the sole...lolI know a relationship is right when I can be with that special person and not feel an awkward silence when the conversation slows. Let's start with a drink and see were it goes.
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Joyce
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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I'm a homebody. If not at work I stay home with family. I enjoy being a grandma, I have 3 wonderful grandsons. My family has been my world. Don't have many of them left, just my sister and mother. I have 2 sons ages 33 and 27. I'm a machine operator. I use to love doing woodwork, but haven't had the time. Just been work and no play. I'm somewhat shy but I do warm up.I don't have an amazing figure or flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have history, some people love me, some like me, some hate me, I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJs and I go with out makeup, I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I will not change. And if I love you I do it with all my heart.Honestly~ I don't know what I'm looking for. Someone that will talk and tell you whats on their mind good or bad. ~someone that will be honest. Not into games. coffee and a nice talk to see where we go from there