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About Me

OK...being a plebe at this...I will attempt to answer the "suggested" questions...here goes.. My main interests and hobbies include, but are not limited to......most importantly...my friends and family My friends would describe me as indescribable. I have many accomplishments...I am most proud of my ability/propensity to help others.... Turn offs would include....lack of sense of humor...lack of honesty,intelligence,kindness,empathy. It also drives me crazy when people applaud when the pilot makes a successful landing...seriously? Also, turning signals are not an additional option when purchasing a car....USE THEM! Am I an outgoing type...absofeckinlutely!!Do I believe in love at first sight...not completely..I think that you can experience lust at first sight...but, that is not love...love takes a second glance...and still feels the lust...love is an energy exchange that makes you a better person when you are with that special person and even when you are without them. As far as personality traits that I would be looking for..definitely a great sense of humour or at least a great appreciation of mine..honesty, intelligence,compassion, open, loyal...blah, blah, blah...all that and more..but, it is critical that one has the ability to laugh..express themselves, be affectionate, and did I mention that one NEVER applauds when a pilot lands the plane! A perfect date..perfection is never planned, it just happens..then when you look back...on an unplanned, "perfect" date...you just know .. that was as close to perfection that I have ever experienced. Just go with the flow on any date...leave perfection out of the equation. City Side or Country Side...I am both. My lifestyle is fantastic....but, would love to share it with someone that "gets it"...and,hopefully,gets me as well. My most memorable trip has yet to happen...although I have travelled extensively..currently reside in Europe...but, back to the States should I meet a special person...fellow Yank. Yes, I go back home frequently....East Coast....have fantastic friends/family in these areas. Money is not overly important to me. I am self sufficient...and, as my Mom told me...Marry for Money and you will pay for it the rest of your life....Thus, I have my own money....Success...now, that is important...however, my view of success is to leave the world a better place by helping others..and making the most of life....it is a gift..meant to be enjoyed, not endured. We don't stop playing because we grow old...we grow old because we stop playing. So, my backyard or yours? The States or Europe...let's play and see what happens... Alluded to in my description. However, nothing too formal or too intense. I believe that first dates are meant to be casual...and should always give one the opportunity to opt out if they feel uncomfortable....Relaxed dinner, movie, play, etc. are fairly neutral options.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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