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Barbara, 55

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About Me

Well......I’ve been internet dating for a couple of years......my motto for ***is to do something different.....put it all out there with the goal of finding someone who eventually wants to share their life with me and wants to share my life. That said .....here is a little about me.I was married for 24 years and have been divorced for 7 years. I have enjoyed all of my life. Got married, raised kids and had fun doing all of it. My ex-husband and I got the kids raised and realized we didn’t have that much in common.....we were too young to stay in a less than happy marriage. He and I were always good parents together.....the kids turned out good. At 26 and 24, my son and daughter are both off on their own. My son was quite a challenge to raise.....the kid survived, the marriage did not.So that is the history.....hope I didn’t bore ya! My motto in life is “If you want something, you have to get out there and create it for yourself.” I don’t believe good things just “happen”. We each have a huge influence in our fate. I have a good job that I enjoy, and I work with a bunch of great people who I learn from everyday. BUT I work to live, not the other way around. I like to get out there and enjoy my free time. It makes me wish there were 4 days in the work week and 3 days every weekend! Some of the activities I like are kayaking, hiking, biking, going to local festivals, listening to live music, trying new restaurants and sharing a glass of wine with friends. I have a lot of good friends....I hope you do, too. I am a very social person. I live alone, but I enjoy being out with people! I am very open to trying new activities. What do you like to do? Oh, one more thing...I like kissing. A physical relationship is important, too.What am I looking for in a man? A sense of humor is a must. Yeah, I can talk serious, but I like to tease and be teased. Witty conversation and playful banter are a turn-on to me. Ya gotta have fun, no? Since my kids are important to me, I tend to get along best with guys who also have kids. I find a man who is a good dad, brother, son, friend, etc. to be very attractive. After all....relationships are the most important thing in life, if you ask me.I am very down-to-earth. I am not looking for a Sugar-Daddy, nor do I want to support the man in my life. I believe in give and take. I hope to find someone that I can share the good and bad in life....our kids, our friends, a good or bad day at work, a great movie, a good concert..... What do you say? Want to give it a try? Let’s chat a little, then meet for a drink or coffee. I am not looking for a pen pal. I think we can learn so much more about each other on the phone or in person. Let's start with a drink or a cup of coffee....see if we have a connection. It all starts with casual dating, don't ya think? I believe that a conversation, on the phone or in person, is a much better indication of our chemistry together. Endless e-mails is not what I am looking for. After that, I'm sure we can find something fun to do. Oh, by the way, I like kissing.....the physical connection we feel is very important too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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