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Barbara, 55

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About Me

Well......I’ve been internet dating for a couple of years......my motto for ***is to do something different.....put it all out there with the goal of finding someone who eventually wants to share their life with me and wants to share my life. That said .....here is a little about me.I was married for 24 years and have been divorced for 7 years. I have enjoyed all of my life. Got married, raised kids and had fun doing all of it. My ex-husband and I got the kids raised and realized we didn’t have that much in common.....we were too young to stay in a less than happy marriage. He and I were always good parents together.....the kids turned out good. At 26 and 24, my son and daughter are both off on their own. My son was quite a challenge to raise.....the kid survived, the marriage did not.So that is the history.....hope I didn’t bore ya! My motto in life is “If you want something, you have to get out there and create it for yourself.” I don’t believe good things just “happen”. We each have a huge influence in our fate. I have a good job that I enjoy, and I work with a bunch of great people who I learn from everyday. BUT I work to live, not the other way around. I like to get out there and enjoy my free time. It makes me wish there were 4 days in the work week and 3 days every weekend! Some of the activities I like are kayaking, hiking, biking, going to local festivals, listening to live music, trying new restaurants and sharing a glass of wine with friends. I have a lot of good friends....I hope you do, too. I am a very social person. I live alone, but I enjoy being out with people! I am very open to trying new activities. What do you like to do? Oh, one more thing...I like kissing. A physical relationship is important, too.What am I looking for in a man? A sense of humor is a must. Yeah, I can talk serious, but I like to tease and be teased. Witty conversation and playful banter are a turn-on to me. Ya gotta have fun, no? Since my kids are important to me, I tend to get along best with guys who also have kids. I find a man who is a good dad, brother, son, friend, etc. to be very attractive. After all....relationships are the most important thing in life, if you ask me.I am very down-to-earth. I am not looking for a Sugar-Daddy, nor do I want to support the man in my life. I believe in give and take. I hope to find someone that I can share the good and bad in life....our kids, our friends, a good or bad day at work, a great movie, a good concert..... What do you say? Want to give it a try? Let’s chat a little, then meet for a drink or coffee. I am not looking for a pen pal. I think we can learn so much more about each other on the phone or in person. Let's start with a drink or a cup of coffee....see if we have a connection. It all starts with casual dating, don't ya think? I believe that a conversation, on the phone or in person, is a much better indication of our chemistry together. Endless e-mails is not what I am looking for. After that, I'm sure we can find something fun to do. Oh, by the way, I like kissing.....the physical connection we feel is very important too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am very active, love running and being outside. I have run 3 full marathons, and many half marathons. The mountains are my passion. I used to live in WY. Before moving to WY I was a city girl, but came back to WI with a love and respect for the beauty of nature. There is a profound feeling of peace, but also a challenge in living in one of the last frontiers. If I can't have the Mts I will take the lake! Running on the beach is a similar high to running in the mountains. I love my lake views. The lake has a definite sense of calm about it. I'm a cowgirl at heart. I really like the new country music, and love love love my cowboy boots. I used to have and show quarter horses. So my cowgirl roots run deep!Animals and old people are also a passion of mine. I wish I could rescue all of them from shelters, and nursing homes. I have 2 cats, which were rescues that I brought back from WY. They still have their WY accents HAHA!!I love my family, the reason I came back to WI. Its good to be back with old friend too, but I miss all my peps in WY.I am a free spirit, and never know where the wind might blow me next. With that distance is not an issue!Peace and luck to all that have entered this crazy world of internet dating :) Meeting for drinks

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a very positive, fun, loving caring person who enjoys life and lives for today. I enjoy so many things in life it's hard to write them all down. But, to let you know what makes me tick, I enjoy the outdoors, summer, spring and fall. Not too big on winter months. But, we can find things to do to keep the cold winter days exciting. I love sitting by the fireplace with a glass of wine and soft music. I enjoy camping, I have a campsite by Wis Dells and enjoy going up there on weekends to get away from the city and just relax in the nature. I also enjoy, fishing, boating, walking in the parks, and walks along the beach expecially under the moon light. Cooking is very enjoyable and trying new foods is fun, but grilling out will be left up to you. I enjoy bowling, playing cards and games, and always ready to try new ideas. I am a very honest, trustworthy, caring, exciting, easy going person looking for someone to share my life with. After, being married for 22 years its hard not having someone to share my life with. I enjoy being with people, that is why I have been in the medical field all my life. I have been a caregiver and helping people in need. I also am a very affectionate person, I like to hug and be hugged and hold hands. So, if you are not a hugging kind of guy then don't reply. But, if you are a positive, fun, loving, caring, affectionate type of person and would like to share your life with someone like me who enjoys life and wants to have fun, then please let us connect and see where our paths will take us. I would like our first date to be a simple date to get to know each other a little. Maybe meet for coffee someplace quite so we can talk to each other. Just someplace small and quite so we can hear each other and learn more about each other. If things feel comfortable after our first conversation, then maybe go get a bite to eat someplace would be fine.

  • Susanne

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    This is the hard part for me, but here goes...I am not looking for perfection, just perfect for me. Someone to be with for the rest of my life. My pictures on here are all recent pictures, taken this year. I am a country girl who does not mind getting dirty. If you want someone who will be honest with you, and knows what real love is all about then give me a shout and we can talk and see where it might go. If you are looking for a slender lady with no gray, all I can say is Oooops... I am a 54 year young woman and I like taking things at a bit of a slower pace than what I did when I was 23 or even 33. That way I can actually see and enjoy life *** rushing through it. I have places I want to go and see and take pictures of, one of my passions. I also love to going in search of Native American Artifacts. I have never had the opportunity to do that and it is something I want to do. Love to Karaoke, watch movies at home or at the theater, work in my yard, take walks on a beach or through the park. I like all kinds of music, especially Country, Christian, Old Rock & Oldies. Don't listen to rap, I don't understand it. LOL! Unique??? No, I'm just me. What you see is what you get. I am just a down home country girl with a big heart. Love to sing & dance or even just sit and play a card game or a board game or just sit and talk.Oh yea I almost forgot... I am a hopeless Romantic! I love to sing or dance to a good love song and look into my partners eyes and lay my head on their shoulder while we dance and maybe even a gentle kiss after the dance would be nice. Now hopefully I have not run you all off. :-) Thank you for reading my profile and I truly hope you find what you are looking for. Happy Fishing! Maybe go for dinner and/or coffee. Some place we can talk and get to know one another.

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