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Marlene, 51

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About Me

Wow, you'd think this would be such a easy thing to do, write about the person you know the best, yourself, but its hard. Anyway, here goes.I am growing more and more evolved as a person, confidante, friend, lover, sister, mother. I have been blessed with two amazing children (most of the time) lol.My desires are simple. I am a woman that would hope to easily earn your respect, and honor, have a have degree of integrity, and wants true commitment. I would like to find someone that has an awesome sense of humor, can keep me laughing during challenging times( as all couples occasionally have) loves the outdoors and nature, and respects and values thoughts and opinions of others even if You and or I may not resonate with that opinion. I have a real desire to connect with people of other cultures, and enjoy great conversations and experiences. I do not "date around", so if you are a serial dater, or are just interested in an occasional fun night out without looking any further into the future, please do not respond to me. I am a one man woman.... like my mom used to say, " you never know when you kiss that frog you may just fall in love". Those pheromones can be pretty strong!But believe me, I've been divorced over 10 years and it hasn't happened yet, but I am the eternal optimist.... and I do believe I'll find " my" perfect one.Additionally I have known people that feel that they needed to drink every day to "feel good, relax, and enjoy themselves". I have dated people that do this, and realize fully that this is not a habit I feel is healthy and beneficial. Do I drink socially, yes, but only socially. I love outdoor sports, especially water skiing, snow skiing, swimming, fishing, mountain biking, soccer, basketball, and rock climbing (before rotator cuff tear repair). I love to try new things, and typically don't shy away from challenges, unless the result could be dangerous ( I love my kids too much)! As for travel and nature, there is nothing better than spending time in the sun, and taking in all that nature has to offer. I love the mountains, (camping also) especially in the fall, but also have a real affinity for the ocean. I also am a real fisherwoman, therefore I try to spend as much time around any body of water. It brings great calm and serenity over me, and makes me feel one with the earth.My profession is slightly atypical, as I am in the naturopathic healing field. I am VERY happy with my life, feel blessed that I too spend my life in a field that I am helping other people to improve their lives, and am at a great place. I have many clients, and want to continue a more natural, healthy lifestyle. Unfortunately I have had a couple of sports injuries in the past couple of years, but am getting ready to get that taken care of as well. LIFE!! It's all good!Animals are a huge part of my life, always have been, and I have shih tzh puppies and young persian cats. I believe they are truly a valuable addition to one's psyche. Some I simply can't pull from my hat right now.Travel and culture is also a passion of mine. I have had the opportunity to visit Europe several times, have taken my 2 children for extensive periods of time, and believe this is one of the best forms of education you can provide to children.I hope this gives you some insight into me, and my desires for my a continued healthy, happy life. Want to become acquainted if for no other reason a new friendship with a native Charlottean? Please, please know though if you only feel that sending a note with a "hi" it says to me you don't think taking the time to right a more personal note is worth your time. Additionally, I don't date anyone that are separated or recently divorced. I do feel it takes time to get through several ( at least 2 years) to work through necessary angst, pain, and ex issues to become ready for a real, happy and non comparison relationship. I've seen it too often hurt too many people, as well as myself and don't choose to walk that path again. I'm a realist, and want to bring and experience pure joy with the person I have a relationship with, without being compared.I wish you all happiness, peace, and blessings of finding the next forever "love" that will rock your world!Natural Carpe Diem Something casual that allows for great conversation and activity.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello!Thanks for taking the time to look past the picture and read my profile! I am 48 years old. I have three grown children and nine grandchildre! (yea i know,, to young to be a grandma!) I am 5'4 depending on what shoes I have on.), My eyes are dark brown (unless I am angry and then they are black). I like camping, reading, dancing, hiking, concerts, zoos, movies, campfires, snow storms (as long as i dont have to get out in it!), doing things with family and friends, quiet cool nights, strawberries, country music, babies, animals, rodeos, WWE wrestling, working out, working around the yard, football, children, the smokey mountains, staying up all night laughing, deep conversations and so much more if interested I can tell you more! What i am not: stupid, dependant, tall, blonde hair, long legged, a one night stand, quiet, and do not have blue/green eyes. I am a Christain, which does not mean that I am a Jesus Freak but if i had to pick which kind of freak to be it would be Jesus freak! I do not have religion, I have a relationship with God, I attend a Babtist church. Now saying all that, I am no angel... but I think I am getting closer! lol (joke). I am not on here to play games I am serious about finding someone that can make me believe that love still can exist. Give me a try,, I dare ya! (not 50 yet!)UPDATE: Listen,,, i am not Barbie (the only thing we have in common are the boobs) never liked Ken,,,(to stuffy and perfect) I know my picture if fuzzy and i have tried to fix it along with my age,, but it wont let me. No the pic is not from the 80"s,,, its about 3 no closer to 4 yrs now... I am not a serial dater and am not looking for one. I have a job that I enjoy very much and just because I am a psychology major does not mean that i am doing any kind of therapy on you.....I DO NOT want naked pics of you and am not sending any to you. I am working on getting a more up to date pic but its not high on my priority list. Not looking for someone that just stopped at the picture,,, really looking for someone that wants to know the person behind the pic. Still holding onto the hope that there is someone out there that is a deeper person then what meets the eye.PS: If you lie, cheat or play games i will kick your ass to the curb so fast you will forget how to get back home,,,,, For first dates I think its important to be able to talk. Sooooo usually a nice quiet dinner and a walk in the evening is a perfect first date.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    While I am happy and content as I am, I really prefer to share my day-to-day life with someone to love, admire and pamper. Like acting goofy sometimes and love to laugh. I expect mutual respect, Prefer summer over winter. Always look forward to the summer and many opportunties to do various activities outdoors. Love hot tubs during a snowfall. I love to cater any event! I'm always up for new adventures, can often be spontaneous and enjoy well-planned activities as well. In the summer, I try to get in as many local festivals as I can and would like to attend a few Polish festivals. I have a few favorite local lounge bands from the late 70's and early 80's. I do not frequent bars. Typically would only go to see friends perform.For many years, I have been an active supporter of the American Cancer Society, have chaired and participated at many annual ACS events and am active in the women's club at church. I have traveled mostly within the U.S. but have had the opportunity to vacation in Guatemala. My profession is in the hospitality industry.I would like to meet someone who is mild tempered, non-judgemental of others and doesn't critisize. You would be a good conversationalist as well as a good listener. Someone who enjoys a variety of music, family orientated, passionate, sensual and loves to kiss. I'd like to find someone who would enjoy dancing just to have fun and doesn't care if were in front of ***people or by ourselves. I would enjoy hearing about your interests and passions! Coffee, drinks, music anywhere where we could have a pleasant conversation.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for someone with a great sense of humor and enjoys good times. I love to laugh and try to make others laugh as well. Life is too short to take things too seriously. I enjoy the beach and love spending time there. Love going on vacations and seeing all that life has to offer. Somewhere out there is a great guy who will not only want to introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us. He will not only put up with my wacky moods, but he may even think they are cute, (even if he won't admit it.) The man I would like to meet is confident and self assured, but isn't**** with an over-inflated ego. I am looking for a guy who can keep me on my toes both when it comes to intellect and energy. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but if I think you are wrong I will tell you and I hope that you would do the same for me. Are you a man who is filled with surprises? When you hold me in your arms, are you the type of man that will make me feel safe and warm? MY DREAM: If I could have just one wish, I would wish to wake up everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck, the warmth of your lips on my cheek, the touch of your fingers on my skin, and the feel of your heart beating with mine...Knowing that I could never find that feeling with anyone other than you.Have you made it all the way to the end of my profile? Then what are you waiting for? Drop me a line and let's plan our next adventure. Honesty is a MAJOR factor for me. Without trust in a relationship, it's doomed. If not, please pass me by. I've been through all the nonsense. First date should be enjoyable and relaxed. Keep it simple and fun. Getting to know each other over dinner or drinks is a plus.

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