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Jay, 35

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About Me

Hi! My name is jay. I am never married christian caucasian woman without kids from United States, California, Fairfield. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ingrid

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-58

    What I like most about myself is that I'm authentic, and that I'm balanced. I am smart without being a know-it-all, I'm sarcastic without being mean or b*tchy, I'm passionate without being slutty, I'm strong without being hard, and I'm affectionate and loving without being clingy.I am a positive person who forgives easily, doesn't get bent over small stuff, never needs to be right at the expense of someone else's dignity, and who likes to move from one happy thing to the next happy thing. I am strong willed, irreverent, opinionated, fiery, passionate, kind, sweet,capable, forgetful, happy, fun, courteous, thoughtful, loyal to the core, blunt, outspoken, nurturing, affectionate and loving. What I’m doing with my life?I'm smelling the roses... soaking up the joy of my grandsons' belly laughs, rediscovering the world through the eyes of a curious toddler and pre-schooler, I've gotten my priorities in order and I don't miss any of the things I used to think mattered.I have the wisdom to know what happiness really is. Once, I looked for a bow wrapped package, but I've learned that happiness is made up of fleeting moments that can be easily missed... a certain smile, the unexpected smell of honeysuckle on a path in the woods, grass under bare toes, that new baby smell on an infants neck... I'm spending every moment I can relishing those little moments. I think that expectation is the greatest enemy of happiness, and I take one day at a time, living in the present moment rather than in the past or the future.You need to know that I'm a larger woman... queen size, ruebenesque, thick, curvy,chubby, pick your own euphemism. I don't say this to be self deprecating or apologetic.. I"m just being honest. I put on quite a bit of weight with a back injury, and I just got fixed up and back into old healthy habits. the extra weight is half off and I'm going strong (no couch potato here) ...I feel sexy as hell, I accept myself as is, and I demand that anyone who wants to share time with me feels the same way. I am fortunate enough to have good proportions despite the weight, , but I am fifty pounds overweight.Want a hiking, yoga, or gym partner? that would be a big plus....my gym membership allows me to bring a guest ! :) I'm not dieting, I'm resuming the active lifestyle I had before my accident and eating clean, and I plan to resume healthy living permanently....so if you are into drugs, or think of lying on the couch or drinking beer as activities, you probably aren't for me.What am I looking for? Ideally , I eventually want to meet that person who is my partner in life for the rest of my years. I'm ready to settle down and have a life with someone I love, albeit taking our time to arrive there to make sure it's the real deal. I am not interested in men who are dating for the sake of dating.... cool for you, but I'm ready for something more substantial at this point in my life. I am also not interested in dating long distance.I do need a basic physical attraction, but within that, kindness, awareness, intelligence and the ability to love deeply are more important to me than the size of your waistband, how much hair you have, or what you drive. I am impressed by what you are, not what you own.I truly do not care where we go or what we do, as long as it's public enough that I feel secure (I can't trust you 100percent until I've looked into your eyes), it's quiet enough to have real conversation, and we can both be comfortable.A walk by the river at sycamore shoals, or coffee at barnes and noble would do quite nicely :)

  • Janie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    I've been on this dating site for what seems too long:) My mother died April ***after I had been her full-time caregiver for three years...I was involved with a friend from the past during this time and up till November ***...I realize that being on a dating website and hoping to connect with the right individuals is not going to happen while your heart and mind is not clear and honest...not interested in any "casual" sexual encounters and individuals who are indecisive about their lives and relationships...I would love to find a long-term companion and am not 'into' IM'ing, texting, skyping when I first get to know someone...I prefer the "old-fashioned" forms of communication like the phone ( and any inventive ways you can come up with that could put a smile on my face....as I would do with you:***I love The Rippingtons, Bruce Springsteen and most musical artists from the 60's, 70's, 80's and beyond as well....My only child just graduated from high school this past May and is currently attending college in Baltimore, MD.P.S.: I have been contemplating moving sometime in the near future....enjoy hearing from guys who live in other places in this world...tell me the good, the bad and leave out the 'ugly' ( If I want the 'ugly' I can always watch a reality show:) )"When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain." Mark Twain "After you catch a fish, use your eyes AND brain to look for parasites!" SheilaSurprise me!

  • Kelly

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-57

    I am a very positive person that approaches life with a positive attitude. I love my job and spend a lot of time working, but would also like some work life balance. My interests include traveling, movies, reading, eating out, cooking, baking and just about anything if I am with friends or family. Would like to find someone to spend my free time with. I enjoy being with friends at happy hour or shopping and also enjoy spending time at home. Now that I am finished with school, I am trying to go to the gym four times a week and would like to have a workout partner every once in a while.I am looking for someone that is comfortable being out with friends or being at home and someone that is kind, honest and hardworking. I hope you like to go out to dinner, happy hours, see movies, take weekend road trips and travel.Something very casual...a walk, happy hour, etc.

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