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DuffOffline
Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50
I have my own business, I pay my own rent, I have my own car (I like them FAST!) sometimes my socks don't match (when I wear them) and love my kids - they're fantastic! I am a confident, attractive and humorous person (at least I think so, my kids just roll their eyes). Food: I love food. I love to cook it, eat it and occasionally wear it (especially if I have on a crisp, clean new white shirt!)A Few Things I refuse to do without:LaughterExerciseFamily (especially my kids!)Close FriendsRomanceS... whoops, that one's none of your business, yet ;-)On a typical Friday night I am: Hanging with my kids (on my weekends), hitting some event happening in the area, or relaxing with a good movie.Enough about me. Here are a few questions concerning the female gender you ladies may be able to help with, for *** do women have so many shoes? Especially the ones that make you about 7'5"2) What is the obsession with the nails?3) Why do you always ask the Jeans question (Do I look fat in these?). You spring it on us like a big game hunter stalking its prey. Do you really want the truth, do you want us to tell you what you want to hear or should we just run for cover and pretend like we didn't hear it? All kidding aside, who am I looking for? A woman who is sexy, smart, is into fitness and loves to laugh and have fun...A woman who knows what she wants, is independent, positive and has a presence about herA woman who loves to watch sports (especially football and KU basketball), dance and can have just as much fun at a black tie event as she does at a backyard BBQ.And especially.... a woman that, when we're together, there is no denying the electricity in the air from the chemistry between us... and see what happens!
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CowalOffline
Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50
Thanks for checking out my profile. Sorry I don't have any current photos of me. My camera broke and I just haven't invested in a new one. Anyway, I haven't changed much, just added a few more years ... and maybe around ten - fifteen pounds (I'm not good at estimating that stuff). I'm a seasoned traveler -- I speak conversational Spanish and German. I'm quite adventurous ***I won't tell how far unless you ask.) So there's narry a thing I won't try once ... er, more or less! I have been spending a lot of time working on 'me' lately, which sounds compeletely stupid and trite and probably what everyone writes, but I really have been. And it has been a very ... revelatory experience. So my personal growth has been sort of a priority lately.I've also been spending oodles and oodles of time trying to start up my own business ... or something that approximates a business. It has to do with journalism. That's all I really want to say about that here. Don't want to give away too many things right away. I've been here for a little over two years now, and like it more and more every day. Sometimes I find the people a little hard to get to know -- a little 'stiffer' or stand-offish than I'm used to. I guess that's a midwestern thing. I guess that's why I'm on here, too. I'm looking for someone with a fresh perspective on life, who's thoughts tend toward new ideas and creative expression throughout their life. I think the first date should be very relaxed -- as relaxed as possible -- while trying to balance that with fun and things that keep up both of our interest. I think there should be a good environment to chat, like a quite calm bar or a park. I think eating should somehow be part of the first date. Food is very calming and comforting for both. So a little food. A little fun. A little interesting this and that.
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KourtneyOffline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
1. ConfidenceTake it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?" …stop asking. If you're constantly needing his reassurance that you're beautiful, he may start asking questions himself.2. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it's a total turn-on.3. UnmaterialisticYes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are … but that doesn't give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He'll be relieved that he doesn't have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn't have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you.4. SpontaneityOne of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don't lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment.5. Laid-BackWhat's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. ***, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. We're not saying to just kick back and bro out with him, but a relationship is solid when you're able to relax with each other.6. PlayfulnessGuys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and *** are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac?7. SensualityWe've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet.…and expressing that sensually to your partner8. HonestyIf he can't trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight … and breakup.9. IndependenceDating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it.10. SupportiveAs clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers … but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother. Never a movie .... First date should be coffee somewhere we can have a nice long chat and get to know each other.