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IlaOffline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I was born and raised in a very small farm town in upstate NJ. Growing up I was that scabby kneed tom girl who's favorite things were to climb trees, ride bikes, play in the mud, play freeze tag, and catch fireflies! Disclaimer: Another words ~ since I could walk I've been an outside kinda girl. So, if your idea of a fun weekend is to sit on the couch all day and watch sports (or TV in general) don't bother messaging me...it's a waste of our time. I left that small town and joined the Marine Corps soon after high school. Very early in life I married a fellow Marine to whom I was with for 14 years and married to for 12 years. I have two extremely beautiful, talented, and well behaved girls who are now 15 and 11. Much of my free time is spent involving myself in their school activities, sports, and most importantly raising young ladies. In my spare time I like to work in the yard/garden, run, swim, cook, travel, read, camp, fish, shop, watch movies or relax with my two girls. I enjoy staying busy and making the most out of my life each and EVERY day. The truth is, I can have a good time doing just about anything! I am passionate about spending quality time with my family and friends. What I am looking for... A man who is up for anything; a spontaneous weekend trip or just relax in the pool and day drink on the patio. Someone who will look forward to coming home to me everyday...one day and in due time.A man who wants to be my best friend; share his dreams, failures, and successes with me. A man who works hard to play harder. A man who understands that disagreements / struggles are suppose to BUILD a relationship...not break it. A man who isn't trying to be a father to my children but an outstanding role model with great morals and values. I don't expect perfection, I do understand from my own life that adults / parents DO make mistakes. Ultimately, a man of integrity who wants a long term relationship and who can and wants to withstand the test of time together. What I'm NOT NOT NOT looking for... A hook up, booty call, one night stand (whatever they call it these days).A pen pal on meetville OR a texting buddyA couch potato.An addict (pills, alcohol, drugs). An ideal first date for me would be somewhere relaxing to just talk and get to know each other.
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JosieOffline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
It's so important to make the most of personal time when so much effort and focus is consumed elsewhere. While I love to pursue things independently, I like having the excitement of sharing time and connecting with someone. I have many self-directed hobbies, most of them extremely feminine, and perhaps not as alluring to a man, but to me they define who I am and where my passion lies. I have always had intense facinations with certain things which I have cultivated over the years and continue to nurture and explore, like crafts, objects of beauty and originality, books and poems, many things can move or inspire me. I try to keep things moving forward healthily and productively and making room for life pleasures. My goals are to have a relatively simple happy health-rich life that allows for spontanaeity and light-heartedness. I have a warm and attractive aura about me and have a receptive attitude and approach to life.
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NitaOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I don't clearly fit into any one stereotype. I'm edgy yet a softie for animals, children and charitable causes. I enjoy dressing professionally, femininely and conservatively as much as I enjoy my tattoos displayed in T-shirts when I'm out of the office and more casual (yes, there is a half-sleeve, ankle tattoos, shoulders and wrist ink involved). I'm a trial lawyer but refuse to watch legal primetime series because we aren't nearly as cool as TV lawyers though I still love what I do. I'm a fan of a great pair of heels and handbags, reading the classics, my Nook and exotic and fast cars. I can hold my own in a conversation regarding most topics but have yet to master the rules and regs of football plays and basketball albeit I try to make as many games as I can. Bizarre, I know.I'm definitely not a needy person and expect to meet someone that not only appreciates that quality but understands that there is a healthy medium between being attached to me like lint or never seeing me at all. I don't play the jealousy game and don't have the time, desire or interest in keeping tabs on anyone I'm dating or having them keep tabs on me. I believe the healthiest relationships are built on honesty, trust, respect and security in who you are and what you have been lucky to experience with someone else. I would rather be laughing and enjoying the simple pleasures in life than arguing about nuances. What you see is what you get- please don't think you can change me and I would never fall in love with someone with the express intent to try and change them. I expect that unconditional love in return. I was briefly married (about ***years) and divorced for a couple of years. Aside from the pets that I inherited in the divorce, there is no other baggage- no children, no continued communication and no shared holidays! I can honestly state that I've never been happier and am looking at this point in my life for a meaningful relationship that leaves me laughing and longing to spend time with someone or miss him when we're apart. I do believe in open communication and I can respect healthy differences of opinion over being judgmental and disparaging to anyone. Rudeness is a total turn-off and thoughtfulness and kindness unfortunately, have become UNDER-rated qualities in today's world. I'm still going to be a sucker for chivalry and romance and think it's one of the most important aspects of any relationship from the outset throughout its progression. I am looking to fall in love as opposed to just loving and passion, chemistry and friendship are non-negotiables. Working out and staying physically fit is always a component to my lifestyle whether it involves running, the gym or kickboxing several times a week. I view waking up early as one of the few sacrifices I'm making at this point in my life and perhaps the one most worthwhile to get a workout in before starting the rest of my day. I don't lie about my age, height or appearance so please don't mislead me about yours. I do enjoy dining out with friends and being in the outdoors when I'm not at the office. My mantra has always been to work hard, sacrifice when necessary, enjoy the successes and opportunities that materialize as a result but to always give back to community, charity and those less fortunate in any and all circumstances. Despite my profession, I'm actually pretty laid back, have a penchant for cooking, cozy movie nights, summer BBQs, road trips and beach days and am a music junkie that's determined to one day learn guitar. I'm THAT girl that's dancing around my home, singing along to the Ipod docked and playing and twirling random pets in the air because it's moments like those that make me chuckle...that will always be one of them. I'm blessed with great friends and a big, Italian family. I adore my niece and nephews and am the coolest Aunt on the planet (as they love reminding me). That's one of the best compliments I will always cherish. Well...I'm going to defer to the gentlemen out there because I would hope I'm not doing anything for a first date but enjoying the plans that were thought of by the guy I'm meeting.