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Dante, 53
United States, Missouri, O Fallon

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Thanks for popping by. Writing about oneself may turn away the one I'm looking for, but I'll try it anyway lol. I'm a single dad with a variety of interests. Enjoy being outdoors, all seasons, have a canoe, mooch a cottage :), downhill and cross country are my favs, I suspect because they get my adrenalin pumping. Gainfully employed, enjoy my work, its like getting paid for a hobby. Most guys envy my work :) woman however do not do it, never seen a one in my 30 years of work, hence I'm online looking. Own my condo (well the bank owns it) own my car! woo who! Love my son (even though he's a teenager lol) like his dog (Scruffy, same curly salt and pepper hair like mine lol, dog is part time too, but not shared custody), like to cook, especially if its with that special someone. An hopeless romantic for sure, and it doesn't have to be every day or ***just little things that show we're on the same team. Like all kinds of music. Play lots of it too, as in listening, two surround sound systems, a stereo, two computers and a laptop, main theme here is virtually every room has speakers in it. My friends say I'm loyal, practical, dependable, easy going, fun. Now what am I really looking for? Really, it's for long term. Love at first sight? Happens sometimes. I know its friends first and if it clicks then the lovey dovey stuff grows with me. Not to belittle love by using the term lovey dovey, Am truly a romantic at heart and not shy to show it in public! Those little words or gestures says a lot about how you really feel for someone. Now about you, your patient, compassionate, understanding, don't jump to conclusions, thin, relatively speaking of course, the new "average" is something to be desired lol, although I would describe myself as average, except when I look at all the belly's around me I now say "athletic" to describe myself lol!, energetic (just not too energetic) and enjoy your day to day living, much as I do. Yes I smoke often, it's not an addictive personality as others may think, it is a truly difficult vice to quit, and I am considerate of others "air" Not giving up on quitting though, I'm hoping to give it another shot this year. So, do I need dozens of woman to keep me happy, no, I'm not an extrovert, do I need dozens of woman for companionship, no, I'm pretty secure and comfortable with my self. Do I need one that will become my lover, confidant, supporter and friend? You bet, just one ...Thanks for reading, hope you like it and good luck for you to find yours. I much prefer a bar or pub first. Dinners are also nice , but I 'd rather do that after a few dates. Live music is always good too, at least good for dancing, not so much for talking, yet you can still get a few words in. Walks in the city, walks in the country. Pretty much whatever you're comfortable with, I like variety and I don't mind trying something I have never done before, which shouldn't be too many things, also we can decide together if it gets that far.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Jazz Fantasy History Horror
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