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Ruben, 54

Offline, last seen Fri, 16 Jan 2026 12:12:03

About Me

I'm a professionally employed dad of two grown kids. I've been divorced for seven years and I live alone. I'm a Christian. love the outdoors and the magnificent wonders of His creation. There's so much of the world I'd love to see and share. Walk with me for a while and see if you'd like to join me.P.S. I have a cigar every now and again (only the good ones). Let's chat or text and decide that together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jesse

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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-62

    Hi, a little about me:No big splashy write-up full of lies, exaggerations or 'facts' structured so as to tell you what I think you might want to hear, that's what has brought a lot of us here. The pictures are of me and most are fairly recent. I am fairly sane and reasonable (sometimes require a just little wiggle room though to allow for the fun factor lol).I'd like to think I'm honest, loyal, fair, tolerant, and of a playful nature. I'm a family oriented person and would hope that you are as well. A relationship does take time and work as well as communication, patience, a sense of humour, and some personal space every now and then. I enjoy my children, and will accept your children as well. I like going out dining, seeing movies or attending events, and am also comfortable with a quiet evening as well. I do miss small talk, and having someone to talk to about my day as well as hearing about theirs; seems like a small thing but I think its a biggie.I enjoy cycling, camping, boating, handyman and mechanical work, crosswords, helping others, and travel (especially winter getaways). Don't know what a 'maker' does, but am good with a tool box. Cheers- Mike Coffee, movie, light dinner, or just a walk and talk would work for me, its more about the company than the venue.

  • Barry

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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-62

    ..you and I...... When the evening is spread out against the skyLike a patient etherised upon a table;Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,The muttering retreatsOf restless nights in one-night cheap hotelsAnd sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:Streets that follow like a tedious argumentOf insidious intentTo lead you to an overwhelming question …Oh, do not ask, “What is it?” Let us go and make our visit.- T. S.;The Love Song of J.; -I am looking for a genuine woman appreciates an authentic friend in the man they choose to spend their time with (i know that’s a dangling participle, but who really wants someone to say “the man with whom they choose to spend their time” ...? Spontaneity keeps things interesting, and humour and integrity are the things that our time fun and emotionally safe. I love the outdoors, but I have to admit that summer is my time!!!! Warmth and colour set all the good things in us free!!!!Even though my interests seem a little unusual to some, (one woman actually messaged me to let me know that they might scare some women !!?) they are the things that make for a rich life. I value and I am inspired by ideas and passions, and I am fascinated by people.;How can love survive, in such a graceless age?"... I have lived life with insight and integrity, and the rewards of giving of myself and my kindness are the things that have been generously returned as they were offered. It really is a FASCINATING world. Ordinarily, the conversations which are most inspiring don't include so many " I's " in them, and it would be great to hear YOUR ideas ... and maybe share some of your passions!As for being 55 ...;;:We are not now that strength which in old daysMoved earth and heaven; that which we are, we are;One equal temper of heroic hearts,Made weak by time and fate, but strong in willTo strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield. A casual drink and effortless conversation.

  • Ivan

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    I have old fashioned values,I was taught that way. I believe a man should always open the door for a lady. A man should never sit before a lady,nor should he ever walk before a lady.I like the word chivalry,I live by it and will stand by you.There is no rocket science involved in relationship,it,just takes time and effort by both.Its those key words,honesty,respect and trust.Once you have those in place, its like the Springsteen song "Glory Days".For me I like unconditional acts kindness,love to see people smile. I have great respect for our elders. Is there nothing better then hearing a young child's laugh...:)I like to surprise that special someone, flowers, surprise weekend getaway or a extended getaway some where tropical.Or just a night out for a candlelight dinner and a great glass of wine. I just want that amazing lady in my life,to know how much they mean to me.I am very shy,need to more send me message.Please have a photo,its only fair,no games. If you want play games,buy a play station.All I have to say for now.:) no coffee shops,meeting there is just tacky to me.I can have a double double another time.

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