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Lena, 46
United States, Connecticut, Meriden

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About Me

Confident, successful and happy with my life, I am outgoing, independent, strong willed and a bit spunky! I assume the best of people and prefer to stay upbeat and positive about life. I am very sweet but no push over;) While I am adaptable and easy to get along with, I am not afraid to express my opinions. I can also be silly with a quick sense of humor. I crack myself up! :-)I am passionate about staying healthy, being active and having fun. I just finished the Mountaineers Sea Kayaking course and have fallen in love with the sport. I love the water (always have) and challenging myself physically. That is why I do cross fit twice a week. I have also been known to put myself at center of attention. Of course, I have a serious side, can be quiet and reflective. I have many different sides (as do we all:-) Other activities I enjoy include day hiking, East Coast, Salsa and free style dancing, listening to live music, going to plays and musicals and of course, I am always up for trying new things. I consider myself to be very open. My friends say that I am engaged in life, energetic and fun to hang out. I am looking to meet someone who is not intimidated by my independent nature. Physical attraction is important to me but someone who makes me laugh and gets my sense of humor is a big plus. I prefer someone who is health conscious as that is an important part of who I am and how I live my life. Please be kind, confident, intelligent, adventurous, successful, honest and fun. And, no games! I am interested in meeting in person versus texting or *** am not interested in sexting or intimate encounters. I am looking for a deeper connection so please don't waste my time if you are not looking for the same. A casual walk or lunch where we can talk and see if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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