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Phyllis, 49

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About Me

I am looking for a man to attend sporting events, theatre, concerts, go out to dinner and travel with me. He must be financially secure and reliable. The most attractive part of a man for me is his character and the way he carries himself in and out of the public eye. I am looking for someone who's lifestyle complements and does not complicate mine. My children are grown. I am a grandmother. I attend church regularly and have my beliefs firmly planted in Christ. I love old muscle cars, classic rock and country music. I am as comfortable in formal wear and fancy cars as I am in jeans and tee shirt on the back of a Harley. I play no games. I do what I say and I say what I mean. I believe I don't need a man. I want one to be my partner and friend. If love comes into the equation I am indeed blessed. Starbucks, City Museum, Spaghetti Factory. An outdoor activity, festival or music venue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Carolyn

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Life is a gift. It will always be my desire to love and be loved. Like most singles , the time moved from being admired by those I had no affection for, to pursuing with great earnest who I wanted - only to find that in the end it wasn't the match/compatibility that was good for both of us. I'm sure we've all been there. How it hurts at the time... but is remembered as a beautiful part of life learning years later. Looking for someone to share the rest of my days and nights with. Work full time day shift for the last 24 yrs in a chronic care nursing home.Adore my 2 teen boys 19 & 17, Love the elderly, and my co-workers which have become like family to me. I'm a well put together type person, avoid conflict, a very peaceful soul. My Core Motivation that guides me through life is "Peace." This is not referring to a political agenda or the absence of war. It is, however, an absence of inner conflict, much closer to the idea of serenity, and an acceptance of oneself and others. I have a strong and compelling need to keep things in balance in my life so as to maintain an internal feeling of tranquility and comfort. With this said though, I'm not a perfectionist, i am laid back, neat and tidy, but not uptight. I'm not happy around uptight people. People who stress over the smallest things...No thanks...life is too short....enjoy each moment! Make good memories! I am a loyal and honest person who appreciates the same in my partner. If you respect me and treat me with compassion, then I will always do the same for you. I'm looking for someone who would enjoy being around his woman, spending quiet times and enjoy what life has to offer. ****** Jokes to brighten your day! **** My silly side.....1, Man: Your place or mine?Woman: Both. You go to yours and I'll go to mine. 2, A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, "Mypenis," and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, "Error. Not long enough." Ha! 3, What did one saggy boob say to the other saggy boob? "We better get some support before someone thinks we're nuts!" :) 4, A blonde, a redhead, and a brunette were all lost in the desert. They found a lamp and rubbed it. A genie popped out and granted them each one wish. The redhead wished to be back home. Poof! She was back home. The brunette wished to be at home with her family. Poof! She was back home with her family. The blonde said, "Awwww, I wish my friends were here." ( my mushy side) My attitude: Feast on Life! Know yourself, and enjoy who you are. The time will comewhen, with elation,you will greet yourself arrivingat your own door, in your own mirrorand each will smile at the other's welcome,and say, sit here. Eat.You will love again the stranger who was your self.Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heartto itself, to the stranger who has loved youall your life, whom you ***, who knows you by heart.Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,the photographs, the desperate notes,peel your own image from the mirror.Sit. Feast on your life.There are so many reasons his poem is so moving: the idea of nurturing (instead of denying) yourself with food and drink, the idea of re-meeting who you were (and who you still are) despite all the years of disconnection due to ego and its insidious double, insecurity. Most of all I love this idea of feasting on your life, from the wonderful moments (the love letter) to the revealing moments (the photographs) to the painful moments (the desperate notes). Let's all feast today, even if that feast takes place while we're buying coffee filters or "making" a premade rotisserie chicken for dinner. Reflection happens everywhere—even in the aisle of the supermarket. When your ready come and get it.......:) . Something casual, just a coffee , keep it simple. Love to go out to see a movie, hang out with friends and family. A nice evening out for dinner would be nice.

  • Dominique

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    My kids are everything to me. They bring me more happiness and joy than I could have ever thought possible.If you ask me about them, be prepared for an earful!I have discovered I really enjoy being creative. It is crazy what you find out about yourself when you step off the 50 or 60 hour a week work wheel and spend weeks at a time in a motorhome and cleaning horse stalls. I love baking, cooking, knitting - I make a killer scarf! And sewing - I have even sold a handbag or too. And writing. Those life experiences make great research for plot lines. She didn't understand I had to get back to work to pay for the trip and the horse we got while we were there! I also will find my perfect Dressage horse who will really teach me to ride so I can get a USDF gold medal - though I would settle for a bronze. Lastly, people who really know me understand I am shy and still rather insecure, not a snob (those two things are often confused) and that my friends are my family, too. I will do anything in my power to help them - from meals if you are sick (ask about my pot roast!) to a shoulder to cry on or the wine to drink. If you can get past the defenses, you are in for life. There is always room for one more plate on the table, one more bed to sleep in, and the iced tea is always ready.

  • Myra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi! I'm looking for someone to live,love & laugh with! I've been seperated then divorced for going on 4 yrs now. My life is very simple & believe it or not, drama free! Lol! I'm in a good place emotionally & spiritually. I welcome the possibilityof falling in love again. I know what I want in a man & what I don't want. When God puts the right man in frontof me, I'll know...I may not be a "10" but once U getto know me, I'll become a "10" in your eyes... Beauty is always in the eyesof the beholder. B cuz I believe in total honestyI'm going to describe myself. I'm 5'4"155Lbs, very long natural blonde hair & blue eyes. I'm a confident woman & take good care of myself by working out & eating right. I love my lt'l curves & am told that I'm beautiful inside & out by my friends w/o asking for their opinion. In other words, if people don't think it, why would they say it. Right?I just want to be loved for being ME :)I am very feminine w/ an edgy side.I love camping, boats, motorcycles & anything that has to do with the outdoors. I love to go out dancing or curl up & watch a movie. I'm flexible!In my free time, I love to design & make jewelry, swimsuits & active wear :)My goal is to start the 2nd chapter of my life w/ someone & to start my own jewelry business. :)I love all types of music. If it sounds good, I'll listen! :) I have a really good & trained ear for music. : )***guys, if you are not interested in mtg anyone in person please DON'T RESPOND! If you'd rather talk about sex & other explicit type conversation via text or phone, DON'T BOTHER!! I'm not interested***I'm truly looking for a REAL relationship I guess I'm like everyone else! My perfect 1st date would be spending some quality time w/him such as going to a nice dinner to talk & to get to know each other a lt'l bit & then take a nice long walk on the beach.But, I'm open to doing all sorts of things. I'm pretty easy to get along with & I love to have fun.I'm looking to meet someone that's open to falling in love & is willing to take that chance of building a foundation of a long term relationship. I know he's out there! :)

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