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Erma, 47
United States, Connecticut, Meriden

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 Jan 2026 16:17:28

About Me

I am a fun woman with a great life and two amazing kids I love dearly. I love outdoor concerts, movies, good conversation, triathlon sports, Halloween parties, and laughter. I am motivated and driven in my work life but enjoy relaxing and having fun too, even better with a nice glass of Malbec next to a firepit. I am looking for someone who shares the same values to look forward to the future together. I tend to lean more toward the conservative side, but I am also open minded. Ideally, I would love to find someone who also has children, because then you "get it." I would like to find someone who is well educated, places importance on the value of that, and has worked hard to build a career or a business. That is me, and I want to spend my time with someone with a similarly motivated personality and outlook. I am financially independent and you should be too to ensure balance in our relationship. The man I am hoping to meet has a relaxed attitude but is active and athletic and exciting to be with. Someone who either has or understands a demanding schedule equal to mine, where we can support each other through the demands of each day, then enjoy the evenings and weekends together. I want to spend time with someone who agrees that life is meant to be lived, enjoyed and laughed at. I know it’s hard to get to know someone by just a few photos and a couple of paragraphs, so if you want to get to know me better you should message me! Please just be real and genuine - I am. Coffee or glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Skiing English Japanese Horror Basketball Volleyball
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