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Judy, 47
United States, Michigan, Dearborn Heights

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About Me

Young at heart, fun loving, independant woman, looking to make new connections. Earthy, sensual, affectionate, sensitive, yet able to laugh at the absurdities of life. A seeker of beauty in all things, particularly music, nature, books, and design.Yes, there are a few laugh lines around my eyes. And I've learned a few lessons the hard way;Each day is a new oneMove forwardingLearn and grow from all experiencesReach out for help when you need it.Adversity makes you stronger (when it doesn't kill you)Don't sand against the grainPack snacksI'm pretty newly independent, and loving it. Share custody with my (amicable) ex, and my son is necessarily the center of my focus, along with the attendant normal life things; job, classes, creative pursuits, community involvement ( all of which somehow add up to a career), and domestic projects...is there any room for romance? Yes!! Unequivocally. An open heart lives here.I love the outdoors in all seasons, recently rediscovered skiing and love how it brightens the coastal winters. I love how strong it makes me feel, physically and mentally. I’m a bit of a garden nut, and know my ceanothus from my cotinus. I’ve participated in many renovation projects, and have probably used most of the tools in your mancave. Not so good with computers, but re-booting seems to fix a lot of problems. Making things is a life-long pursuit, and I’ve been lucky enough to find work teaching other people about my passions. I have a deep respect for craftsmanship in all things. My social life revolves around a wonderful group of friends, who like to connect over dinners, community sports events, family camping and backpacking trips.I'm a clear-eyed optimist, a bit shy so I'd like to be with someone who is comfortable with quiet sometimes, and doesn't shy from asking questions or speaking their mind. I think intimacy is critical for a long term relationship, looking for a strong spark that promises lasting embers. And I know that takes work, and good communication, and each party coming in with a strong sense of self.Turn ons for me:Smiles with his eyesLikes to hang out with kids- maybe a big kid himselfPlays an *** speaks a foreign languageLoves and appreciates his momDecisive, sometimes spontaneous, always well preparedComfortable and curious in the kitchenIn awe of the beauty of the great outdoorsUltimately, I'm looking for my soul-mate, but I'm a patient and curious woman, who knows that each connection has something to offer. something low key, coffee and conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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