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Judy, 47

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About Me

Young at heart, fun loving, independant woman, looking to make new connections. Earthy, sensual, affectionate, sensitive, yet able to laugh at the absurdities of life. A seeker of beauty in all things, particularly music, nature, books, and design.Yes, there are a few laugh lines around my eyes. And I've learned a few lessons the hard way;Each day is a new oneMove forwardingLearn and grow from all experiencesReach out for help when you need it.Adversity makes you stronger (when it doesn't kill you)Don't sand against the grainPack snacksI'm pretty newly independent, and loving it. Share custody with my (amicable) ex, and my son is necessarily the center of my focus, along with the attendant normal life things; job, classes, creative pursuits, community involvement ( all of which somehow add up to a career), and domestic projects...is there any room for romance? Yes!! Unequivocally. An open heart lives here.I love the outdoors in all seasons, recently rediscovered skiing and love how it brightens the coastal winters. I love how strong it makes me feel, physically and mentally. I’m a bit of a garden nut, and know my ceanothus from my cotinus. I’ve participated in many renovation projects, and have probably used most of the tools in your mancave. Not so good with computers, but re-booting seems to fix a lot of problems. Making things is a life-long pursuit, and I’ve been lucky enough to find work teaching other people about my passions. I have a deep respect for craftsmanship in all things. My social life revolves around a wonderful group of friends, who like to connect over dinners, community sports events, family camping and backpacking trips.I'm a clear-eyed optimist, a bit shy so I'd like to be with someone who is comfortable with quiet sometimes, and doesn't shy from asking questions or speaking their mind. I think intimacy is critical for a long term relationship, looking for a strong spark that promises lasting embers. And I know that takes work, and good communication, and each party coming in with a strong sense of self.Turn ons for me:Smiles with his eyesLikes to hang out with kids- maybe a big kid himselfPlays an *** speaks a foreign languageLoves and appreciates his momDecisive, sometimes spontaneous, always well preparedComfortable and curious in the kitchenIn awe of the beauty of the great outdoorsUltimately, I'm looking for my soul-mate, but I'm a patient and curious woman, who knows that each connection has something to offer. something low key, coffee and conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Genevieve

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I like to dance freestyle...Laugh, spend time with my soon to be college bound Son, swim, cook, lounge in hot tub at night, be outdoors, watch a good fire, participate in community events, learn something new, drive fast, hang out with friends and entertain.I literally enjoy getting my hands dirty ***grease monkey just direct me -- I can hand you the tools!). -- Crave speeding on land or water -- my car, dirt bike, boat, Sea-Doo / Jet Ski -- love to feel wind on face and let loose... Care to know someone is there beside me, spending quiet time together... Like relaxing and feeding Koi, smell food cooking on grill, watching a fire dance, listening to live music [and my personal playlist -- Creed, Eddie Vedder, Eric Clapton [new and old], going to movies [3D preferable -- SkyFall], and watching ones I enjoy over and over again at home [-- Mainly action with history, or a documentary -- something that can teach me something, or better yet -- makes me laugh, you would be surprised at what intrigues me....]. If you can make me laugh by throwing me a sideways glance without speaking or entice me with an observation -- WELL on your way to my *** work a great deal (for people I respect), like to travel, but not ever going to agree to being too planned with anything [cruise ships are out]... want to wake up when it feels good -- go where want to go, and come back on our time. No rush, no crowds, no pressure... sports, NPR, music in background while I cook. Competitive, but ULTRA feminine, like to workout (at home not too formal w/this, don't want to have to hear others grunt or have them hear me... gross, like my sweat and maybe yours but not a strangers.. get a personal gym.), swim, float in the sea, snorkel, soak in the sun, tennis, bowl, hike.... or be taught something new.... Love to Snorkel in the River.. seeing flowers that grow on the bottom and love when the river parts... Comal fav -- Just don't tie coolers to my tube. I don't weigh enough.......Important: do not want to have to talk or constantly engage when with someone (capable, but reminds of work wherein I must engage w/many, as long as I am there...), prefer just to listen, because i am good at it, if you're quick enough. Not afraid to have dead silence, while I observe, take in the sites/feel, my private time... And if that intimidates you -- We won't enjoy it.I was married for a very long time, 25 plus years. Traditional, yet learning to attend things unescorted and pursue own interests. However, truth be known, I prefer to be escorted... a little old fashioned, Southern and enjoy company, sharing, advice and touch.I yearn to be with a man, who is a man -- and not afraid to be ***dynamic, leader of his family, spiritually and otherwise. Someone articulate, strong willed, has stamina and can simply enlighten and engage me between the minutiae... ;) ! I am intuitive, have manners and enjoy making others happy and comfortable. I know how to act in public but I am a very private person. I thrive on intimacy. DO NOT want to sweat the small stuff, I already did that.... I often wonder if still possible to feel passion before I leave this Earth with a "Partner" that has my back, while I have his -- NO competition, no secrets, a meaningful priority -- with well spent time together -- moving forward.Simple pleasures, but real ones -- with someone present, local or has the resources to get here fast. "Where I don't feel threatened. Like to dance, eat, listen to live music. Don't want to have to talk incessively, fun to be with someone who gets it -- that can enjoy an atmosphere, be equally interested and take it to the next level with finesse."

  • Therese

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    There is always something to do indoors and out. I have a great professional job and enjoy what I do. Well a little bit about me. I love to cook especially desserts. I have a wide variety of musical interests. I do like to catch my favorite college football games either on TV or in person. I also like attending sporting events around town. I do enjoy spending a day on Lake Allatoona. Like to get out of town and visit cities in the US and abroad.Some of the qualities I am looking for in you are sense of humor, able to carry on a good conversation, holds a professional occupation, likes to travel, likes to get out and explore new places. Thank you for taking the time to read about me. Will you be the one I find a connection with??? :) Meet at a great outdoor patio, share good conversation over a couple of drinks and appetizers......

  • Jennifer

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I will not bore you with the usual profile stuff...as for my interests, personality etc....I would love to talk to you and share..... I will say a few things though about what I am looking for and what I'm not. That way we can all save some precious time.1. I am looking to find one person that I can date and have a happy healthy relationship with.I enjoy the closeness of a committed relationship and want that in my life. I am not looking for casual dates other than for the purpose of finding someone to hopefully have a relationship with. I do not want to be one of many cyber friends....that is meaningless in my opinion.2. I believe in open communication and straightforward talk. Of course respect in needed always, and I value a man who shows caring and respect towards me, himself and others. I am openly affectionate and prefer someone who is too.3 I surround myself with positive thinkers and doers...I need someone who is ambitious and positive about life and makes good choices for themselves. I value a healthy lifestyle, someone who enjoys different physical activities, and likes to get outside. I am not a couch potato... I love snuggling up for a good movie though!4. I need a man who is settled in their job and is financially stable. This does not mean that you have to make a ton of money because I am pretty simple in my needs and wants, but you need to be employed and preferably enjoy your profession. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If you are interested in knowing more about me, please don't hesitate to send a quick ***, I would love to hear from you.(Updated ***Lynda I like the casual meeting like a walk on the beach or a cup of coffee/beer/or wine. Lets talk to see if there is a connection, some wild chemistry, or common interests...I actually prefer to talk on the phone before meeting face to face.

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