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Elvia, 47

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About Me

Who am I? I'm casual, adventurous, outgoing and a mom but perhaps a bit shy at first. My kids live with me most of the time so if kids are not your thing then you'll want to move on. If you're still reading, hello! Where to begin? I enjoy a great conversation over coffee or over a beer but I don't want to close the place. I love going up North to get away and enjoy nature. I'm not one to lay on the beach to tan but I'll walk on the beach, swim, kayak, hike, bike and explore. I've traveled and I'd like to do more, in the USA and abroad. I like surprises. Routine is good but spontaneity keeps life exciting. Jeans are great, if I must dress up then so be it but I seem to concentrate more on what I'm doing than what I'm wearing. I've golfed a few times in my life and I'm terrible but I still like it and I'd go if you'd have the patience to teach me how to do it better ... but if we putt-putt, I can be very competitive. I love go-carts and was super excited when all my kids were old/tall enough to ride. I drive a mini-)I'm hoping to find that great mix of fun, funny, responsible (but not stuffy,) adventurous, confident, nice guy who is my best friend, likes kids, doesn't smoke or do drugs or drink too much and is fairly healthy and in shape. I'm also a realist and I know that we all have baggage. I'd prefer somebody with the carry-on size and not the full set! I've not met you yet so please don't assume I'm like all the others and I'll do the same for you. I don't "need" a man in my life but I'd like one. There's more to my story but I think this is long enough. Meeting in person is the test of chemistry so if I've intrigued you then by all means, send me a message ... Please have a photo... Coffee of course! No really, anything casual works for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Genevieve

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I like to dance freestyle...Laugh, spend time with my soon to be college bound Son, swim, cook, lounge in hot tub at night, be outdoors, watch a good fire, participate in community events, learn something new, drive fast, hang out with friends and entertain.I literally enjoy getting my hands dirty ***grease monkey just direct me -- I can hand you the tools!). -- Crave speeding on land or water -- my car, dirt bike, boat, Sea-Doo / Jet Ski -- love to feel wind on face and let loose... Care to know someone is there beside me, spending quiet time together... Like relaxing and feeding Koi, smell food cooking on grill, watching a fire dance, listening to live music [and my personal playlist -- Creed, Eddie Vedder, Eric Clapton [new and old], going to movies [3D preferable -- SkyFall], and watching ones I enjoy over and over again at home [-- Mainly action with history, or a documentary -- something that can teach me something, or better yet -- makes me laugh, you would be surprised at what intrigues me....]. If you can make me laugh by throwing me a sideways glance without speaking or entice me with an observation -- WELL on your way to my *** work a great deal (for people I respect), like to travel, but not ever going to agree to being too planned with anything [cruise ships are out]... want to wake up when it feels good -- go where want to go, and come back on our time. No rush, no crowds, no pressure... sports, NPR, music in background while I cook. Competitive, but ULTRA feminine, like to workout (at home not too formal w/this, don't want to have to hear others grunt or have them hear me... gross, like my sweat and maybe yours but not a strangers.. get a personal gym.), swim, float in the sea, snorkel, soak in the sun, tennis, bowl, hike.... or be taught something new.... Love to Snorkel in the River.. seeing flowers that grow on the bottom and love when the river parts... Comal fav -- Just don't tie coolers to my tube. I don't weigh enough.......Important: do not want to have to talk or constantly engage when with someone (capable, but reminds of work wherein I must engage w/many, as long as I am there...), prefer just to listen, because i am good at it, if you're quick enough. Not afraid to have dead silence, while I observe, take in the sites/feel, my private time... And if that intimidates you -- We won't enjoy it.I was married for a very long time, 25 plus years. Traditional, yet learning to attend things unescorted and pursue own interests. However, truth be known, I prefer to be escorted... a little old fashioned, Southern and enjoy company, sharing, advice and touch.I yearn to be with a man, who is a man -- and not afraid to be ***dynamic, leader of his family, spiritually and otherwise. Someone articulate, strong willed, has stamina and can simply enlighten and engage me between the minutiae... ;) ! I am intuitive, have manners and enjoy making others happy and comfortable. I know how to act in public but I am a very private person. I thrive on intimacy. DO NOT want to sweat the small stuff, I already did that.... I often wonder if still possible to feel passion before I leave this Earth with a "Partner" that has my back, while I have his -- NO competition, no secrets, a meaningful priority -- with well spent time together -- moving forward.Simple pleasures, but real ones -- with someone present, local or has the resources to get here fast. "Where I don't feel threatened. Like to dance, eat, listen to live music. Don't want to have to talk incessively, fun to be with someone who gets it -- that can enjoy an atmosphere, be equally interested and take it to the next level with finesse."

  • Noreen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love the outdoors, like to travel and would love to find some one who is secure with themselves and not always having to look over his shoulder because he has problems. I don't need drama or problems.If you are lazy and can't get up off the couch at least on the weekends, do not respond to my post. I do enjoy my down time but I need someone in my life who has a little bit of life in him. If you have a issue with keeping a job or paying your bills please contact the profile before or after mine. LolI am sharp witted and secure with who I am. You will never catch me in jacked up high heels (I work in orthopedics & I take good care of my feet). I do classy shoes with comfort. I am a lady through and through. I love a man who knows what he wants and he knows how to get it. If you're married, separated or just looking for a hookup...... well keep looking (this is where I don't have time for the drama) and good luck.I just want a honest man who is what he says he is and not a BIO typo. Love, live and integrityJacalyn coffee, lunch, dinner a movie. Just for starters.

  • Juanita

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I would love to meet someone who is grounded and loves to enjoy life, the outdoors, the simple things... I love many sports or just going for walks, reading, cooking, sharing a good bottle of red wine in front the fireplace or watching a good movie. I love to travel and experience new things. I am easy to talk to and an open book, what you see is what you get... I have a great sense of humour and love to laugh ! I am very easy going, but a passionate woman who is honest, sincere, direct and commited to her values and relationships... I have been separated for several years and I know what I want...I believe it's better to be alone than to be in a bad relationship, so I am not willing to settle just to be with someone...My motos: "Live the life you have imagined" and "Its the small things that count in life" Relaxed conversation over a drink or a coffee... nothing extravagant, just a good time in good company :)

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