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Elvia, 47
United States, Michigan, Dearborn Heights

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About Me

Who am I? I'm casual, adventurous, outgoing and a mom but perhaps a bit shy at first. My kids live with me most of the time so if kids are not your thing then you'll want to move on. If you're still reading, hello! Where to begin? I enjoy a great conversation over coffee or over a beer but I don't want to close the place. I love going up North to get away and enjoy nature. I'm not one to lay on the beach to tan but I'll walk on the beach, swim, kayak, hike, bike and explore. I've traveled and I'd like to do more, in the USA and abroad. I like surprises. Routine is good but spontaneity keeps life exciting. Jeans are great, if I must dress up then so be it but I seem to concentrate more on what I'm doing than what I'm wearing. I've golfed a few times in my life and I'm terrible but I still like it and I'd go if you'd have the patience to teach me how to do it better ... but if we putt-putt, I can be very competitive. I love go-carts and was super excited when all my kids were old/tall enough to ride. I drive a mini-)I'm hoping to find that great mix of fun, funny, responsible (but not stuffy,) adventurous, confident, nice guy who is my best friend, likes kids, doesn't smoke or do drugs or drink too much and is fairly healthy and in shape. I'm also a realist and I know that we all have baggage. I'd prefer somebody with the carry-on size and not the full set! I've not met you yet so please don't assume I'm like all the others and I'll do the same for you. I don't "need" a man in my life but I'd like one. There's more to my story but I think this is long enough. Meeting in person is the test of chemistry so if I've intrigued you then by all means, send me a message ... Please have a photo... Coffee of course! No really, anything casual works for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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