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Elvia, 47

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About Me

Who am I? I'm casual, adventurous, outgoing and a mom but perhaps a bit shy at first. My kids live with me most of the time so if kids are not your thing then you'll want to move on. If you're still reading, hello! Where to begin? I enjoy a great conversation over coffee or over a beer but I don't want to close the place. I love going up North to get away and enjoy nature. I'm not one to lay on the beach to tan but I'll walk on the beach, swim, kayak, hike, bike and explore. I've traveled and I'd like to do more, in the USA and abroad. I like surprises. Routine is good but spontaneity keeps life exciting. Jeans are great, if I must dress up then so be it but I seem to concentrate more on what I'm doing than what I'm wearing. I've golfed a few times in my life and I'm terrible but I still like it and I'd go if you'd have the patience to teach me how to do it better ... but if we putt-putt, I can be very competitive. I love go-carts and was super excited when all my kids were old/tall enough to ride. I drive a mini-)I'm hoping to find that great mix of fun, funny, responsible (but not stuffy,) adventurous, confident, nice guy who is my best friend, likes kids, doesn't smoke or do drugs or drink too much and is fairly healthy and in shape. I'm also a realist and I know that we all have baggage. I'd prefer somebody with the carry-on size and not the full set! I've not met you yet so please don't assume I'm like all the others and I'll do the same for you. I don't "need" a man in my life but I'd like one. There's more to my story but I think this is long enough. Meeting in person is the test of chemistry so if I've intrigued you then by all means, send me a message ... Please have a photo... Coffee of course! No really, anything casual works for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I'm not use to online dating but a friend suggest I give it a try. I never thought I'd be still single at my age and there doesn't seem to be anywhere to meet respectable men so I thought I'd get this a try. I would like to find someone that respects me for who I am. I'm hard working and I love to laugh and have a good time. I've had my feel of players and men who seem to want a good woman but treat their woman as a part time job. I'm honest and have a good sense of humor. I enjoy doing things with family and friends, dinner, movies, swimming, the lake, listen to music, just about anything I even enjoy evenings at home watching a good movie. Family and friends mean a lot to me. If your looking for a little old fashion, fun loving type of woman with a good sense of humor let's chat. Meet somewhere in a social atmosphere maybe for coffee or drinks.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a single mother with enough chaos in my life between working two jobs and taking care of my littlest son who lives with me full time, the dog, a cat with an eating disorder and the soon-to-be-obtained hamster... I don't really want chaos in my dating life. If you're looking for games - keep walking. If you want to get laid without putting forth any effort to get to know me first? look somewhere else. Friends with benefits? Been there, done that... don't want that anymore. I want a true dating relationship - we go out, we flirt, we have some fun and get to know each other better. Will it lead to sex? One can only hope so -- smiles! I am also a bit commitment phobic after my second divorce, so I want to be very upfront about the fact that I don't want a long-term relationship. Prove to me that you can be what I'm looking for in a man? And we'll see about meeting.I work hard and I need to start making more time for myself. I don't like playing games and I do appreciate honesty and will be honest with you in exchange. I enjoy traveling - in fact, just got back from a trip to NYC... and great conversation... which can be hard to find. Love to watch movies and/or old TV series on Netflix. I am not the greatest at sitting still and doing nothing, though. I should probably set the knitting to the side more often - then I might have a cleaner house, huh?At a bar, I enjoy a good game of pool or miniature golf - not that I'm any good at either of them - sigh... somehow being responsible has interfered with my ability to play games until all hours of the night. First time meeting? Maybe a coffee shop or a bar... less commitment than dinner - lol. Saves us both a time if there isn't any chemistry. A great first real date gives us a chance to really talk and get to know each other.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a down to earth, low maintenance, compassionate, fun loving, sweet lady. A shorts and flip flops kind of gal and will always choose casual over fancy if given a choice. I'm not afraid to get dirt under my nails. I enjoy yard work and DIY projects. I love the water, whether it be the lake, the ocean or a flowing creek, and any/all activities associated with it. He's has compassion for others and treats those around him with respect and kindness. He likes to have fun and realizes that it's not what you do, but rather who (or could it be whom?) you're doing it with. I love to cut up and laugh. You'll find me with a smile on my face more often than not. I can have a slightly sarcastic sense of humor at times (all in fun of course )....so if you can't take a joke or laugh at yourself then we would not be a good fit. I'm looking for that man who can light the spark inside of me...that deep connection.....the right guy will know what I mean...he'll get it. I've been divorced 4 years and my amazing Son recently graduated high school. It's time for me to begin enjoying the things that make me happy and it would be so much more fun to have a special someone to share that with. Somewhere we can carry on a conversation.

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