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Barbra, 46
United States, Michigan, Dearborn Heights

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About Me

Sitting around alone on the weekend really does suck, doesn't it?!?!? (Isn't that a tacky, crass statement ?!?!?... Don't hold it against me, please!) I really just need to get back out there and have some fun!!! Dating has changed A LOT since I was last out there!!! I'm not necessarily looking for a heavy duty committed relationship (unless that's where things lead) but for someone I can enjoy some shared interests with and what life has to offer! That's how you do it when your town doesn't have a theater or a mall! Friends and hanging out creating memories it's what we had! Blue jeans and hoodies (They call them that now) were the dress code. BUT, I am a bonafide debutante taught all the Southern graces by my mother, aunts and grandmother. As much as I love my jeans, I love getting cleaned up, dressed up, minding my manners (I always do that anyway) and playing the princess too!!! I am exceptionally sociable and can take on any gala fundraiser, ball or soirée that you can throw at me! I've never met a stranger and can fit in most anywhere as I am comfortable with who I am and I love meeting new people! Love my cats and dogs. I love art exhibits, museums and misc. events be they on the stage or on a field! I am a design and architecture freak and I would love to travel to see a lot of what I studied in grad school! I love exploring new restaurants and all kinds of great music! Especially live performances by local artists and national headliners. I love to dance! No standing around at the concert for this girl! I hope you'd like to dance with me! Nothing formal, just having a good time! ;-)My big deal breakers are lying, being dishonest and being manipulative and controlling. Of course I naively lead with my heart and sometimes it's too late when you've discovered these things. I am also NOT interested in photos that are of the "extreme reveal" nature!!! If it's a photo from the beach, well then that's acceptable and respectable for me. But half naked selfies in the mirror are a little on the side of vanity in my opinion. I want to know YOU not your pecks! I promise, if I'm interested in seeing more of you than your basic photos, I will see it in time! ;-)I love for guys to be taller than me, I do like a guy to have his hair (so I can run my fingers through it!) and to have a fun sense of humor and sense of playfulness. I am a big flirt who is playful and likes to have fun! Unfortunately, I have learned the hard way that being flirty is often translated into being promiscuous. That, I am not! If I only wanted to hook up, I wouldn't spend my time combing through profiles and texting a little to see if meeting would be in both our interests! I don't presume to be "a bag of chips and all that " but if you're interested in getting to REALLY know me, that is one if the biggest turn ons evah!!! Taking things slow is the ultimate build up of anticipation!!! Major fireworks in my book!I LOVE kissing and believe that it's not an *** to lead to rushed intimacy. Especially in the beginning , kissing to me is part of our initial conversation while getting to know one another. It fills in the gaps when no one is saying anything but we 're just soaking up one another 's presence! I know, that's a little crazy sounding but... I really do love kissing!!!My faith does not come at the end list because of it's importance but as the grounding foundation of my life. My relationship with God, my daughter and a hope to share all of this with someone one day is my ultimate desire! With that said, if you have "non-religious" as a part of your profile, that's a deal breaker for me.Until that right guy crosses my path, I just want to have fun and distract myself from the perils of being a grown up! Congratulations on reading all the way through !That's just a little bit of me!Let me know what you think...besides that write too much! Ha! Let's just find a place where we can talk, look into each others eyes, ask questions and see what kind if chemistry is there! After that, who knows what we can plan depending on our shared interests!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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