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Tameka, 48
United States, Ohio, Newark

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About Me

Someone you never saw, someone you never knew turned out to be the someone for you?What If that Someone turned out to be Me?I had a Profile on here before, and I decided to delete my Profile.I was tired of the whole online Process. I'm sure you all have been there right? We keep the *** back n forth, we pass our #'s out to a few people, and if we are lucky enough, we may go out on a few dates here an there. Out of those dates, we might keep one, maybe two of those around for the lonely times ( come on ya'll all have done this). If you deny it, shame on each and every one of ya'll.Anyways...I'm not back on here to be a Debby Downer...just bein real..Cuz those who remember my last Profile will remember that's all I wanted from a "Guy" was that he be Real. So here's to all the ole timer's that have been looking for lust, love, friends...companionship...How long does it take us? How long do we stay in the Pond swimming around...looking? I'm often asked is it that I'm picky, selective? Why is it that I am still here. I'm here, I came back because I rarely go out, I don't do the whole bar scene. So were does a single girl meet a guy these days. Heck I have tried the whole Home Depot thing, Grocery Store, etc...yeah that doesn't work. Guys are to shy, and so am I. To shy to say more then a quick hi and smile. So that brings me back to the Online Party. Where I am not picky, I am just being cautious. I want to make sure that the guy I meet, is the guy that will be around, next week, and the week after that, and so on. I know that there are no quarantee's in anything. but what I do know is this:When I meet someone, and the converstion flows freely, and the laughter feels the air, my hearts pounds out of my chest with excitement, my eyes dance each time he speaks and smiles at me, and when he talks, I love to hear the sound of his voice, and when he puts his hand in mine, it meshes just right. These are just a few things that tell me that this is the guy...this guy will be back tomorrow, next week...and I hope many times after that. Its a feeling I get.I have been single for a very long time, 4 years to be exact, Divorced for 11 and although many have seen me online, you will be shocked (maybe not) to know that I have not been on many dates while on this site. I can count on 1 hand the meet-n-greets and dates I have been on within those years. I'm not sure how many women that have been single and who have been searching could say that. If they can...Congrads Sister!!Okay..so there ya'll have my story...sorta.. I'm looking for it all. and I haven't found it.. lol.. That's why I'm still here. I'm suppose to tell ya'll about my hobbies. I love Sports, All of them... I'm so glad its Football season.. Go Titans & Tn Vols. I love Summer. Its my favorite time of the year..but I do love the fall, that smell it leaves in the air! Halloween is one of my favorite time of the year, next to Christmas. I love decorating for the Holidays. Going to Tahoe for Christmas. Having Snow on Christmas Day...its amazing! I learned to Snowboard a couple years ago..fun times, oh and ice skating to... :)I love Hot Rod / car shows, boat shows. Love going to Concerts. Rodeos, Festivals, Winetasting, back road weekend getaways. To be honest here...there isn't really to much I don't like to do. from backyard BBQ's with friends & family, Friday nite cuddling on the couch movie nite with a glass of wine. Ole man winter and cracklin fireplace. So many things we could list. But all these things are pretty boring and kinda lonely with one person. Sure would make nites & weekends easier if they where shared with two, *** one.This is all I have ...now that you know a lil about me... I hope that you don't judge me for being honest about my views and what I'm searching for. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for happiness & love! No Coffee!! :)Walk in the Park with Our Coffee, Jumba JuiceHow about a Hike, Go kayakingGo-Cart Races..ready Set Go!Anything ...we can think of Something thats fun...to get some great conversation in...Laughs...and who knows what else?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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