Total users: 59,526,636 Online users: 214,522
Charmaine, 49
United States, Nebraska, Bellevue

Offline, last seen Mon, 20 Oct 2025 15:51:09

About Me

I am down to earth and a low maintennance kind of girl. What you see is what you get with me. I have 2 daughters, both are away at college now. I am excited about beginning this next chapter in my life. I would like to find someone who enjoys being active and doing some of the same things as me. I try to eat healthy, but not to an extreme. I also walk for exercise, enjoy hiking and love bike riding. I love being outside, am willing to try new things. There are many things I enjoy doing but do not want to do by myself. Things like tubing, kayaking, camping, etc. I love sitting on my deck reading a good book, or having a drink with friends. I like most kinds of music. I really like country and 80's, along with some of today's pop hits, but can listen to just about anything. I don't ask for much. I just want someone who shares some of my interests, is honest, financially stable, easy going and who truly wants to spend time with me. If he likes to bike ride, that is definitely a plus! I don't need to be attached to someone by the hip & I definitely need my space as anyone does. I am not a fancy person, but always do try to look my best. I am not a big phone talker or texter, at least at first anyway. Once I get to know someone and am comfortable, that will change. For a first date, I would prefer doing something low key. Meeting for a drink, coffee, walk or bike ride. I prefer not to go out to dinner for the first time we meet. The way I look at it, if we hit it off, there will be plenty more times to spend together! I would rather communicate a little at first, and if we hit it off, then just meet. I do not like dragging it out. Once we meet then we will know if we want to continue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Caribbean Mexican South American Thriller Western
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Ofelia from Bellevue | Woman | 49 years old | Scorpio
    Ofelia

    Offline

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    So,after a few unsuccessful and strange coffee dates,I kind of feel that I need to be a bit more clear on a few things...so here they are:I am 5'7...not 5'9 or 5'10.So,if we meet and we are looking eye to eye at each other,then you clearly have a misconception of your height.Please do not put on your profile that you are 4 to 8 inches taller than you actually are.Women will actually notice the difference when we meet you...we're smart like that!I put on my profile that I have some extra pounds.Yes,I have curves and no,I am not afraid to order more than a piece of lettuce and a glass of distilled water when I go out for supper.When and if we talk on the phone and I ask if your pics are current,please do not say..."yeah,they are fairly recent",if they are not.Again,women will notice this when you show up looking 15 years older than your most "recent pic".If you think that your "winning" personality will entice me to stay for the duration of a large Timmies coffee even though I have noticed that the height and the real you are not quite matching up to your profile,then you're wrong.All you've done at this point is make me regret showering,doing my hair/makeup and putting in a bit of effort to look nice for you.I believe that if you try to start the friendship,etc with lies,it's all going to go warp speed downhill from there.I am very clear in the fact that I am looking for a long term relationship.Please don't waste my time if you're not looking for the same thing and I won't waste yours..If you don't live within an hour of Calgary,then please don't bother contacting me as I probably won't drive 4 hours to meet you for a coffee...gas is far too expensive to be doing that! :)If you have kids,great!As long as there is no crazy ex wife that comes with them,then I have no problem with that.If you are just trying to see how many notches you can put on your bedpost,then good luck with that...you are looking in the wrong direction!!!!Not looking for a man who`s into dating more than 1 woman at a time.If you find someone that you think you might have a connection with,then at least give it a few dates before you decide to move on.No decent woman is ever going to consider making you a priority in her life if she doesn't think that you will do the same for her...just my opinion!Not looking for a 1 night stand!!Not looking for any drama or bulls**t....been there,done that,won't do it again.If/when we meet for a coffee/drinks,if you feel that I might not be the one for you,then at least have the balls to say so.Don't give me a hug and say"I'll call you,this was fun"if you have no intention of doing so.I'm quite capable of handling the truth and will continue in my search for the right one,just as quickly as you will.Please don't add me as a favorite if you have no intention of making contact...kinda defeats the purpose of being on here,doesn't it!?Thanks for letting me vent...I feel much better now! :)What I am looking for is a man who has morals,a great(but slightly warped)sense of haha,values a good relationship,puts family and friends above everything else.My family means the world to me and I have some amazing friends,but I am tired of always being the 3rd wheel.I miss having date nights with a spouse,spending a night curled up on the couch watching movies,slow dancing in the kitchen while cooking together,hopping in the car for a road trip to anywhere,having someone to come home to and share how our days were.Not sure if I`ll find someone compatible on here or not,but I guess I can't really keep complaining about being single if I'm not doing anything to change it.I hope you all find what you're searching for!! I think that a first date should just be meeting for a coffee or a drink.It's alot of pressure for people to meet for a dinner in a restaurant.If it doesn't go well,the man's usually pissed off that he bought dinner and the woman is pissed off that she got all dressed up for nothing,lol.

    Chat
  • Reba from Bellevue | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
    Reba

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I was a single mother. lost my son this year. i like to spend time in the afternoons at home or in the gym. Like to be around the pool and cookout alot. Most of my time is spent in the sun or at the beach just hanging out. I like to read alot but don't have as much time to do that any more. I like to dance and have fun and laugh. I would like to own my own business again. I just like to be happy and enjoy life. I like all kinds of music Country, Jazz, Blues, Pop. I like to go places and do things not just sit home every weekend. I would enjoy sitting down with a nice man to enjoy dinner and learn more about him.

    Chat
  • Monica from Bellevue | Woman | 50 years old | Leo
    Monica

    Offline

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am from cali and have two amazing grown children both are married and 3 granddaughters. I love to cook and I am italian so it is my favorite food. I love country music, bluegrass, classic rock. I love god but not to into organized religion. A great guy, a spring evening, and a cold beer! I am a happy girl. I love horses and most animals....no rodents...guys if your looking for a hunting or camping buddy I am not your girl...unless we go in a big RV. Meet for coffee or****ail see if the chemistry is there, then a motorcycle ride, laughter,and great conversation.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: